Members chloegirl Posted May 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 23, 2008 Ladies, do you have trouble holding on to those ben-wa balls too? I work kegels daily like a fiend but still have a hard time walking around the house with the ben-was...I seem to stay so wet and slippery that the little suckers just want to slide out. Maybe these particular ones are just too small 'cause I don't have that problem to this extent with the larger attached pleasure balls. It's not my inner muscles 'cause I can control those puppies pretty well and test the "grip" power with my own fingers just to be sure so what gives? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whitefang2002 Posted May 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 23, 2008 I am sure they they are just too small for you. I use large ones and haven't tried the small gold ones i've seen. But everyone is different and thats ok. Thats why there is variety! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hollybw Posted May 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 23, 2008 I did a review on some very small ones and then bought some of the larger Smartballs.The small ones are definately harder to hold on to - they kept falling ot on me, too.The Smartballs are much easier to keep in - try something larger to start out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 You may just like the others said need to get a bigger set of them. I have both the bigger ones and the small ones I must just be different I havent had a problem with either of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 You need to go larger, the ones I first had were tiny, because I'm kind of small in there. Larger ones work better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 25, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 I've got a new shopping list started and plan on getting a new set....maybe find some of those cone weights too. I want to tone those suckers to the point I can crack walnuts hehe! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 I've got a new shopping list started and plan on getting a new set....maybe find some of those cone weights too. I want to tone those suckers to the point I can crack walnuts hehe! Sounds like a great idea...after 3 kids, well, could be better. Do those cones really work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 25, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 I'm not sure but I know Mikayla mentioned them in a post awhile back and if she says it's good I'm going with it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 26, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I don't know Iha....you're the therapist so you would know....am I losing my mind or becoming too obsessed? I just feel like a brand new woman these days and I like to try to stay in some type of sensual mode as much of the time as possible. I'm enjoying the heck out of feeling as sexy, attractive, and "hungry" as I ever have in my life! It makes me take better care of myself (you'll never see me dowdied out again!) and have a more positive outlook towards everyone and everything. But is it normal to have sex on the brain 24/7? (Just wish I had a partner that could reciprocate the same back but ooohhhh in my dreams.... ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I'm sure this has been covered but where in the world can I find these? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 Chloe, I don't know if it's "normal" or not, but you are certainly not alone!And really, who cares if it's "normal"?? What is normal? It's wonderful, and if you are enjoying yourself, what's the harm? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I really like the SmartBalls. They work better for me than the glass balls I have. I can actually forget the SmartBalls are there, move a certain way, and just get a bump that is amazing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whitefang2002 Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I'm sure this has been covered but where in the world can I find these?http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...alls&Page=1http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...alls&Page=1here are some that i just looked up for you on TT. There may be more but I wasn't sure what exact catagory they were in. Hope these help you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I don't know Iha....you're the therapist so you would know....am I losing my mind or becoming too obsessed? I just feel like a brand new woman these days and I like to try to stay in some type of sensual mode as much of the time as possible. I'm enjoying the heck out of feeling as sexy, attractive, and "hungry" as I ever have in my life! It makes me take better care of myself (you'll never see me dowdied out again!) and have a more positive outlook towards everyone and everything. But is it normal to have sex on the brain 24/7? (Just wish I had a partner that could reciprocate the same back but ooohhhh in my dreams.... ) I hear you. I hope it's normal. If not, I'm enjoying being abnormal much more than being normal!There seems to be so many of us going through the same thing. Maybe we should form a club. What would you call such a club?I have no experience with the ben wa balls, but i do have the power balls. I got them here at TT. Husband says they make a difference, but I was a bit of a kegel fiend before anyway. I wear them when I'm walking with my friend. Kinda like having a little secret. I find they feel sort of like butterflies in your stomach. But not in your stomach. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 26, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 Ha! That should be our new contest....name the club....something classier than the "Horny Old Bat's Club" hehe! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 How about the Tight Twat team? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 "I wear them when I'm walking with my friend. Kinda like having a little secret. I find they feel sort of like butterflies in your stomach. But not in your stomach. "I love to wear mine when I walk. May as well exercise more muscles at a time!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 What are power balls?! WHy don't know i these things? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 Power balls??? I meant to say Smart balls. Excuse me while I go take my meds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Power balls??? I meant to say Smart balls. Excuse me while I go take my meds.Still what are those? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 I don't know how to copy the link, but you can product search them here. They're meant to strengthen your muscles inside. Both for sex and to keep you out of Depends i think. They kinda feel groovy too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 I'm right in there with the 40-something crowd that has suddenly woken up with sex on the brain 24/7. I don't know what happened but I am very glad that it did! Chloegirl, we Do need to start our own club. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Amen! If one of us ever wins the lottery we would arrange to fly everyone in one night a month for a night of hedonistic pleasures and fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Amen! If one of us ever wins the lottery we would arrange to fly everyone in one night a month for a night of hedonistic pleasures and fun! When I become independantly wealthy I'll hop on that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 OO OO I want in the club. Who wants to be prez. We need a better title than prez ( wife in the fast lane, LIPS-leader in pursuit of sex) I nominate Pinky for secretary 'cause she's rockin' that sexy secretary look. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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