Members angelkisses98 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 3, 2008 Hi Angel hope you and your hubby have fun with the Cialis. My doc put me on levitra first and it was terrible. Bad side effects, headaches, bloodshot eyes, and only lasted four hours, not nearly enough. She put me on Cialis and gives me a ton of samples everytime I go in for a physical now. This stuff is great hardly no side effects, an occassional mild headache, but not bad enough to call off sex for, and it last, for me any way up to almost two days. Oh and Di says when I'm on it she can tell because my hard-ons are bigger then ever. Thats a good side effect. Wishing you two a good weekend James & DI just got if filled!! we were reading reviews, and cialis seems to be the best one. i will let ya know how it works out!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 3, 2008 oh and im like a dam little kid, i dont wanna wait till this weekend i wanna play nowww Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted June 3, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 3, 2008 Hubby's tried the Cialis but it made him wake up the next day with a totally stopped up head and feeling like he had a bad hangover. Doc's have adjusted his meds and that helped the original ED problem ALOT! Now if they could just invent a "stay hard" pill! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 3, 2008 Hubby's tried the Cialis but it made him wake up the next day with a totally stopped up head and feeling like he had a bad hangover. Doc's have adjusted his meds and that helped the original ED problem ALOT! Now if they could just invent a "stay hard" pill! ahhhhh wouldent that be nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted June 4, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2008 ok...um... the pills dident work...at all....now what??/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted June 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2008 First, relax...take a deep breath.....OK, these pills are not 'guaranteed' erection pills. I mean, yeah, sure they will help, but if HIS mind is still on his performance anxiety, little or nothing is gonna help with that. I may have mentioned that a few years back my hubby went through this. He was prescribed Levitra for it. He took the pill and nothing happened! We were devastated! What we learned though that experience is this:(1) the pills need time to work. Levitra and Cialis work best if you take them the day before you want to have sex - or early in the day - then they get into your system more thoroughly. So, if you popped one right before sex, not gonna happen. Viagra is a fast acting pill, it works in 30 minutes (I think)(2) Mind over matter. Simply stated, your mind is the most powerful sexual organ you have. If he is worried about it being up, and you assume he is going to get it up cause he got meds and he is STILL not getting it up as fast as he thinks it should happen, and he doesn;t want to be a double failure....it ain't gonna go up. RELAX!(3) Masturbation nights beat the hell out of the pills. Oh sure, they helped once we learned how to use them, but what worked better was understanding each other. I understood that he was under stress and had 'issues' that had nothing to do with me and he understood that it is hard to be on the other end too - ready to have sex and getting nothing. What we decided to do was take out the pressure stimulus, i.e. sex, and just had fun. We had oral, we had massive foreplay, he got me off with toys, fingers and tongue and I, in turn, took my time playing with him. Most nights he got hard as a rock and I took him in my mouth. Some nights I would jump on and have sex. The point is, once he realized that sex wasn't the end all of our intimacy, he had success with the pills and eventually, got off them. I would have no problem if he needed them again - cause I knew it wasn't 'me' and he didn't want to be this way.So, moral here is to just relax and enjoy each other. I noticed in your earlier post that you were like 'we have meds, we are gonna do it' and I have a feeling you expressed that anticipation to him, which made his anticipation worse - so try to remove the pressure. Don't make him feel like if he doesn't perform life ends (sex life I mean!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted June 4, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2008 First, relax...take a deep breath.....OK, these pills are not 'guaranteed' erection pills. I mean, yeah, sure they will help, but if HIS mind is still on his performance anxiety, little or nothing is gonna help with that. I may have mentioned that a few years back my hubby went through this. He was prescribed Levitra for it. He took the pill and nothing happened! We were devastated! What we learned though that experience is this:(1) the pills need time to work. Levitra and Cialis work best if you take them the day before you want to have sex - or early in the day - then they get into your system more thoroughly. So, if you popped one right before sex, not gonna happen. Viagra is a fast acting pill, it works in 30 minutes (I think)(2) Mind over matter. Simply stated, your mind is the most powerful sexual organ you have. If he is worried about it being up, and you assume he is going to get it up cause he got meds and he is STILL not getting it up as fast as he thinks it should happen, and he doesn;t want to be a double failure....it ain't gonna go up. RELAX!(3) Masturbation nights beat the hell out of the pills. Oh sure, they helped once we learned how to use them, but what worked better was understanding each other. I understood that he was under stress and had 'issues' that had nothing to do with me and he understood that it is hard to be on the other end too - ready to have sex and getting nothing. What we decided to do was take out the pressure stimulus, i.e. sex, and just had fun. We had oral, we had massive foreplay, he got me off with toys, fingers and tongue and I, in turn, took my time playing with him. Most nights he got hard as a rock and I took him in my mouth. Some nights I would jump on and have sex. The point is, once he realized that sex wasn't the end all of our intimacy, he had success with the pills and eventually, got off them. I would have no problem if he needed them again - cause I knew it wasn't 'me' and he didn't want to be this way.So, moral here is to just relax and enjoy each other. I noticed in your earlier post that you were like 'we have meds, we are gonna do it' and I have a feeling you expressed that anticipation to him, which made his anticipation worse - so try to remove the pressure. Don't make him feel like if he doesn't perform life ends (sex life I mean!)we talked after the fact..and while he was able to get it up, we was not able to maintain, or get it back. he was harder while he was up. we played around for awhile to see if anything would happen and it didn't. was i bummed out? yes. however, i didn't make a big deal out of it, i knew he was feeling bad. i just said "well, maybe you have to take it a time or two before we see the effects. we can try again. "i dident even have to say anything about having sex last night..he came home and popped one before i even brought it up. i will let him know that with the cialis it works better if you take it earlier. when we did research on it..we found nothing that said that....thanks for the input. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted June 4, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2008 ok so...i had a rough day at work..plus had a few dizzy spells...so hubby and i snuggled up on the couch. well, one thing leads to another and we start fooling around. hubby was able to sustain an erection for about as long as usual, but was able to stay hard, and even though he lost it about 5 min in, it was progress Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted June 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 5, 2008 Much can be said for progress! hang in there!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted June 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 5, 2008 practice for progress...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted June 15, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2008 i just wanted to give a follow up on whats been going on..hubby took cialis last nite...sex last was a bust..ended in huge argument. dont wory everything is ok now. however., we made up for last nite this afternoon, and lemme tell ya...cialis deff. works best after it is in your system...he was able to get "back up" not once, but twice!! and he was able to maintain. HUGE PROGRESS...no hes walkin around with his chest all puffed out. with aidens bossiness i am going to be posting our afternoon romp in the stories section Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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