Self Esteem Poll Part Deux

[whitefang2002]

....and thats where my issue is. lol.

[pappyld04]

Whitefang I cannot understand how you don't have this working for you! You should have!

[LilyElle]

This is a great poll. It was a real eye-opener for me, especially the first question. A few years ago, I would have had a hard time choosing just one thing I disliked most. Now? I had a hard time choosing one thing I actually disliked. No, none of it's perfect, but 3 years of my BF telling me how beautiful he thinks I am, treating me as such, and not letting me say otherwise, has made changes that border on the miraculous. I was really shocked at how much my self-esteem level has changed. (I used to think I had only 1 attractive feature: my hair. I'm a natural blond, with naturally straight hair that reaches past my waist.) This was definitely humbling: it reminded me how much I have to be grateful for in our relationship. He really is a treasure.

For the record, I throw my vote with the "ripe and curvy is beautiful!" crowd! This curvy girl needs her steak.

[mystofpric]

Hey guys, I was just reviewing the results again and, while weight and size were our number one "biggest problem" it isn't the actual number that is killing us, it's how we preceive the weight! That's right! We had a bigger issue with clothes not fitting right than the scale! Maybe this is because we avoid teh scale or whatever but I think we all need to go on what not to wear, then clothes wouldn't be that big of an issue!