New To Toys

[newvixen]

My boyfriend wants to bring toys into our play. I'm open to it but I've never owned or used any kind of a toy. When I asked him what he wanted he said he would like us to use a dildo. He couldn't tell me anymore than that. I've looked and looked but I'm not sure what a good choice is to start with. I've read all the reviews that have been posted on here and I'm not any closer to making a decision. So please I want to hear what you all think would be good for a beginner.

[Mikayla1]

Ok, well I think I might need some more information from you.

Dildos and Dongs do not vibrate - for the most part, although a few do - so if you are looking for something that would vibrate inside, you will need a vibrator.

IF you want just a plain dildo or dong there are many to choose from - realistic, jelly, silicone, glass - you really need to tell me more of what you are looking for.

If you go vibrator - do you want small, medium, ribbed, textured?

If you want something to help you climax, you may something that will penetrate you vaginally and give you clitoral stimulation - those are called "Dual Actions."

Perhaps you want something that you can use together - like a 'Diving Dolphin' cock ring and clitoral stimulator - or bullets. Bullets are nice for clitoral, anal or scrotal (ball) stimulation.

Are you into anal sex? There is another whole realm of anal toys to explore - plugs, vibrators, dildos.

My basic recommendation for a beginner is a vibrator - only because I know that 90% or more of women can not climax without clitoral stimulation and a vibrator will do that right quick for most women if placed on the clit. So, with a vibe, you can have the penetration, then switch to the vibrations. Many men like to watch the penetration part too.

Or, get a plain Dildo with a mini Vibe (Huster Mini-Vibe is EXCELLENT) then your bf can penetrate you with the Dildo and you can put the little vibe on your clit! You will have a very intense orgasm this way!

Without more information to what you want, I can only really suggest shopping around to try to find something that peaks your interest! Answer some of my questions and I may be able to help you further!

Mikayla

[newvixen]

Ok, well I think I might need some more information from you.

Dildos and Dongs do not vibrate - for the most part, although a few do - so if you are looking for something that would vibrate inside, you will need a vibrator.

IF you want just a plain dildo or dong there are many to choose from - realistic, jelly, silicone, glass - you really need to tell me more of what you are looking for.

If you go vibrator - do you want small, medium, ribbed, textured?

If you want something to help you climax, you may something that will penetrate you vaginally and give you clitoral stimulation - those are called "Dual Actions."

Perhaps you want something that you can use together - like a 'Diving Dolphin' cock ring and clitoral stimulator - or bullets. Bullets are nice for clitoral, anal or scrotal (ball) stimulation.

Are you into anal sex? There is another whole realm of anal toys to explore - plugs, vibrators, dildos.

My basic recommendation for a beginner is a vibrator - only because I know that 90% or more of women can not climax without clitoral stimulation and a vibrator will do that right quick for most women if placed on the clit. So, with a vibe, you can have the penetration, then switch to the vibrations. Many men like to watch the penetration part too.

Or, get a plain Dildo with a mini Vibe (Huster Mini-Vibe is EXCELLENT) then your bf can penetrate you with the Dildo and you can put the little vibe on your clit! You will have a very intense orgasm this way!

Without more information to what you want, I can only really suggest shopping around to try to find something that peaks your interest! Answer some of my questions and I may be able to help you further!

Mikayla

Ok, there's alot more to this than I realised. I think I would like to try both something that vibrates and something that doesn't. I would prefer something more realistic looking and feeling since I tend to be a very visual person. I want something that can be used for penetration also. Since we haven't used anything before I would want to stick to something similar in size to him, say the 6 1/2 to 7 inch range. we do want to be able to use it together.

We do enjoy anal sex and would like to explore this area also. I hope that this helps some.

Thanks for all the help!

[Mikayla1]

Ok, so you want more realistic - I can work with that.

For a realistic non-vibrating dildo, try this one. It is realistic looking and feeling. You will have to maintain it carefully though, the state of the art material it is made of takes care to maintain.

Cyberskin Cock:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4664

For a virbating choice, try this one. It has realistic look and feel. I personally love cyberskin for that flesh-like feeling.

Pleasure Skin Vibrating Dildo:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4629

Now, you can go this route, solid rubber, economical, choice of sizes - 6, 8 or 9 inches. These have a non-realistic feel, but a realistic look. They will get the job done for penetration if you are adding a mini-vibe you should be go to go:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3348

Now, lets talk vibrators.

If you want a good, intense, will probably get you to orgasm every time mini-vibe for clitoral stim, I HIGHLY recommend the Hustler Rock-It Mini-Vibe:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4680

If you prefer something with more versatility, you can try a bullet - those can be inserted if you choose, can be used for anal stim, and used on your man too. Any bullet would probably do, try this one:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3475

There, I hope this helps and you find something that works for both of you!

Mikayla

[newvixen]

Ok, so you want more realistic - I can work with that.

For a realistic non-vibrating dildo, try this one. It is realistic looking and feeling. You will have to maintain it carefully though, the state of the art material it is made of takes care to maintain.

Cyberskin Cock:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4664

For a virbating choice, try this one. It has realistic look and feel. I personally love cyberskin for that flesh-like feeling.

Pleasure Skin Vibrating Dildo:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4629

Now, you can go this route, solid rubber, economical, choice of sizes - 6, 8 or 9 inches. These have a non-realistic feel, but a realistic look. They will get the job done for penetration if you are adding a mini-vibe you should be go to go:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3348

Now, lets talk vibrators.

If you want a good, intense, will probably get you to orgasm every time mini-vibe for clitoral stim, I HIGHLY recommend the Hustler Rock-It Mini-Vibe:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4680

If you prefer something with more versatility, you can try a bullet - those can be inserted if you choose, can be used for anal stim, and used on your man too. Any bullet would probably do, try this one:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3475

There, I hope this helps and you find something that works for both of you!

Mikayla

Thanks for the suggestions! My order from TooTimid is on the way. I appreciate the advice. I look forward to getting my package and trying them out.