Members chloegirl Posted November 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Well of course there has to be some physical attraction when people first hook up, but I think that once a relationship builds you don't judge each other against those unrealistic standards and most people are in tune enough to know that your average person does not look like a porn star (and really, if you know you don't measure up then how on earth could you expect to get a partner who does?). I know and have heard first hand that how you look or how much you weigh doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the quality of your sex life. But I will admit when I watch a movie or even just an amature porn clip I do not want to look at ugly people. When I look at that stuff it's for entertainment or to get aroused and sorry....for that I want it to look hot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DADT Posted November 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 So what is HOT?" People likes different kinds of looks, and seeing different t acts performed. HOT to you might be JUST OK to me. Porn is like a fantasy buffet. The choices are endless. It is easy to blame porn, but really porn is not telling you what to like the way regular TV does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted November 26, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 So what is HOT?" People likes different kinds of looks, and seeing different t acts performed. HOT to you might be JUST OK to me. Porn is like a fantasy buffet. The choices are endless. It is easy to blame porn, but really porn is not telling you what to like the way regular TV does.really? You don't think porn is telling us what to like? I hate to disagree with you because I find you very intelligent however that didn't sit right with me. I think porn is telling us what to like. We are to like skinny, young, perfect, fake boobed, lots of make up, anally bleached, perfect shaved "pussied" blonde women. That's what "we" are supposed to like according to porn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DADT Posted November 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Wow! Does everyone in school know this? I didn't get the letter from the Porn Association. I'm turned on by the wrong women? I like bleached and shaved now? Someone could have told me. Will they hold me back a year? What did your letter say? Tall, tanned, blue eyed, muscular, with 12 inches of meat? Lucky you. I get distracted when I see air bags where boobs are supposed to be. What's this? Ice Cream Association letter. We like Chocolate & Coffee? But I just bought a pint of Oreo. Radio Association. Hip Hop, R&B, and 80s Oldies. Some Elvis on Sundays with a note from your doctor. TV Guide. Massive doses of Reality Shows, Sports, Cop Shows, Soap Operas. Phew. All situations I live now, about people just like me.Wait, where's the Beer letter? What kind of beer do I drink? I can't trust my taste buds anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 Haha. OKay okay i get what your saying DADT, but i have to say that i do think, maybe not Porn, but Hollywood does try to set the standard of beauty, if not for what men really like, but for what women are "supposed to be" I think porn has an air of "this is an exageration of perfection" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DADT Posted November 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 I do agree with you. Women feel really bad if they don't measure up somehow. A lot of men don't agree with Hollywood that's all. Shoop shared her feelings on another thread and has good personal reasons to feeling the way she does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2008 I do agree with you. Women feel really bad if they don't measure up somehow. A lot of men don't agree with Hollywood that's all. Shoop shared her feelings on another thread and has good personal reasons to feeling the way she does.Yeah she does, her ex is a Douche (that's right with a captial D). But unfortunately we have it beat into our heads starting when we're little (thanks barbie) that women are supposed to be skinny big boobed and perfect skin. I mean what is a girl supposed to do? Cartoons for girls have girls having breasts when they are supposedly 11 or 12?! And i"m not talking little buds either. How can a real girl compare? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Yeah she does, her ex is a Douche (that's right with a captial D). But unfortunately we have it beat into our heads starting when we're little (thanks barbie) that women are supposed to be skinny big boobed and perfect skin. I mean what is a girl supposed to do? Cartoons for girls have girls having breasts when they are supposedly 11 or 12?! And i"m not talking little buds either. How can a real girl compare?Well, some of us had those breasts at age 11 and 12...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Well, some of us had those breasts at age 11 and 12......Agree, but I'm taking full on DDs, and not just one or two characters but all of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Agree, but I'm taking full on DDs, and not just one or two characters but all of them.Well, sweetie, aren't C's big enough at that age?!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Well, sweetie, aren't C's big enough at that age?!?Again, I agree, that's the problem, at such a young age girls are being given such an abstract view of their bodies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted November 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Wow! Does everyone in school know this? I didn't get the letter from the Porn Association. I'm turned on by the wrong women? I like bleached and shaved now? Someone could have told me. Will they hold me back a year? What did your letter say? Tall, tanned, blue eyed, muscular, with 12 inches of meat? Lucky you. I get distracted when I see air bags where boobs are supposed to be. What's this? Ice Cream Association letter. We like Chocolate & Coffee? But I just bought a pint of Oreo. Radio Association. Hip Hop, R&B, and 80s Oldies. Some Elvis on Sundays with a note from your doctor. TV Guide. Massive doses of Reality Shows, Sports, Cop Shows, Soap Operas. Phew. All situations I live now, about people just like me.Wait, where's the Beer letter? What kind of beer do I drink? I can't trust my taste buds anymore.DADT, I really like you. That was REALLY funny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted November 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I do agree with you. Women feel really bad if they don't measure up somehow. A lot of men don't agree with Hollywood that's all. Shoop shared her feelings on another thread and has good personal reasons to feeling the way she does.Very true and thanks for making that connection. I knew you would. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted November 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Yeah she does, her ex is a Douche (that's right with a captial D). But unfortunately we have it beat into our heads starting when we're little (thanks barbie) that women are supposed to be skinny big boobed and perfect skin. I mean what is a girl supposed to do? Cartoons for girls have girls having breasts when they are supposedly 11 or 12?! And i"m not talking little buds either. How can a real girl compare?Very true. the Douche part and the barbie part.Problem is, I still like barbie. I SHOULD hate barbie. I know that. Damn. I buy them for my daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 Very true. the Douche part and the barbie part.Problem is, I still like barbie. I SHOULD hate barbie. I know that. Damn. I buy them for my daughter.Well actually barbie has seen some changes since we were all kids, she has a smaller bust a slightly larger waist and shorter legs and arms. I'll still never see a plus size barbie but its a start.The Barbie debate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Glorious Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I have to say that I have always encouraged my partners to view and engage themselves in porn as often as possible and I myself do the same, and alot of the time, my SO and I will do it together! In my opinion, I think porn allows your creative juices to flow and that creative energy in a relationship is NEVER a bad thing. I'm a huge fan, obviously. That being said, I am the first to admit that I think porn ABSOLUTELY skews how men look at women. I think it sets unrealistic expectations of women. I also think that after years of watching porn, (considering most men probably began masturbating at an early age, high school or even younger) its unreasonable to think that they won't have internalized those images! I know they're airbrushed, I know that these women's jobs is to look good in every angle, in every way, and if it were my JOB, yep, I'm getting paid to look that toned, tanned, and plastic, and I were spending hours at the gym, then I'd look this way too. But I also think that the expectations for women to look this way are 10x higher than it is for women. I don't expect my SO to look like the muscular 8-pack men on porn, so he shouldn't expect me to look like a Porn star. Besides, I much prefer a real life, natural, curvy women anyday.Also, can we get started on the t-shirt idea! I'm totally down to order a few for my girlfriends and I. Maybe tootimid can somehow arrange this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Glorious Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I also want to make the point, that I like Shoop, have experienced this, and tend to believe that it is true. Maybe not for ALL men, again we can't generalize, but for a majority of men, yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shoop Posted November 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 I also want to make the point, that I like Shoop, have experienced this, and tend to believe that it is true. Maybe not for ALL men, again we can't generalize, but for a majority of men, yes.if you've experienced it, why do you continue to partake in it? (Not JUDGING, asking) Isn't that hard for you?And thanks to Suzy for the barbie link! I hadn't even NOTICED that, but after I read that I ran over and undressed one of my daughter's barbie's. She really IS different!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 27, 2008 if you've experienced it, why do you continue to partake in it? (Not JUDGING, asking) Isn't that hard for you?And thanks to Suzy for the barbie link! I hadn't even NOTICED that, but after I read that I ran over and undressed one of my daughter's barbie's. She really IS different!!!!!Yeah they made barbie smalled in size and did away with Skipper, barbie's pre-teen little sister. I imagine this is barbie pore-augmentation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DADT Posted December 1, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 1, 2008 DADT, I really like you. That was REALLY funny.Just thinking out loud, My Lovely. You were treated badly & hurt deep. Your Ex gives the rest of us guys a bad name. Some guys are just mean or stupid or both. These guys don't like themselves much and take it out on their GFs. But a lot of us like all kinds of women and all kinds of looks. PSST! Ladies, I have a secret. Being smart, funny, and friendly has always been sexy to the right kind of guys. Yeah, that's right. If you have those three, how you look may not be as big a deal as you thought. Somebody should have sent a letter about this, right gals? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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