Newbie Saskcouple Posted January 11, 2009 Newbie Report Share Posted January 11, 2009 Hi EveryoneWell I am not sure how to start this but here it goes.. We are a couple have been dating for like 12 years and are currently enguaged. I want to spice up our sex life a bit(the male). I have bought her two toys in the past one being a slim smooth vibrator and I think they are called benwa balls.. Well we have used them a bit she didnt really like the vibrator. She used the balls a bit but they are not that great as well. She always says that toys are not for her and that she likes the feeling of my cock and thats the only way she can orgasm. Well the last few years we have been travelling various ways camping and other things and we have been in situations where we couldnt make much noise and that when she has started masturbating a bit my fingers inside her vagina and her playing with her clit and amazingly enough she has had orgasm's on occasion.. She says she doesnt masturbate and only has with me on these occasions because we couldnt have sex mainly because of the noise.Well sorry for the long read and explaination but that kind my situation(lol). I was wondering if anyone had any reccommendations as to what kind of a vibrator or toy I should be looking for price is not an issue just want to make sure she would enjoy it and use it more often with or without me.Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted January 11, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2009 Hi EveryoneWell I am not sure how to start this but here it goes.. We are a couple have been dating for like 12 years and are currently enguaged. I want to spice up our sex life a bit(the male). I have bought her two toys in the past one being a slim smooth vibrator and I think they are called benwa balls.. Well we have used them a bit she didnt really like the vibrator. She used the balls a bit but they are not that great as well. She always says that toys are not for her and that she likes the feeling of my cock and thats the only way she can orgasm. Well the last few years we have been travelling various ways camping and other things and we have been in situations where we couldnt make much noise and that when she has started masturbating a bit my fingers inside her vagina and her playing with her clit and amazingly enough she has had orgasm's on occasion.. She says she doesnt masturbate and only has with me on these occasions because we couldnt have sex mainly because of the noise.Well sorry for the long read and explaination but that kind my situation(lol). I was wondering if anyone had any reccommendations as to what kind of a vibrator or toy I should be looking for price is not an issue just want to make sure she would enjoy it and use it more often with or without me.ThanksHmmm well first of all welcome! I am wondering why you want to incorporate toys with her since she seems satisfied with you! Do you have a particular fantasy or are you just trying to give her more pleasure? As far as the vibrator/s she has used, how did she use them, with you, or solo? Bullets are a great thing for a lot of women as well as a pocket rocket for clitoral stim. Maybe a lifelike vibe for her vaginal stim... Lots and lots of stuff on here, go shopping! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Saskcouple Posted January 12, 2009 Author Newbie Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Hmmm well first of all welcome! I am wondering why you want to incorporate toys with her since she seems satisfied with you! Do you have a particular fantasy or are you just trying to give her more pleasure? As far as the vibrator/s she has used, how did she use them, with you, or solo? Bullets are a great thing for a lot of women as well as a pocket rocket for clitoral stim. Maybe a lifelike vibe for her vaginal stim... Lots and lots of stuff on here, go shopping!Well I know she is satisfied with me but I just kinda wanted to spice things up. I guess maybe try a few new things. And like every guy I wanted to see her pleasure herself and perhaps have a better orgasm. As for my fantasy I guess just maybe just watching her cum with a toy and totally enjoy it and have a really good orgasm would be hot. The vibrator she has we have used it a few times and mostly inside her with the vibrator. I dont think she has used it solo as far as I know anyways. I have been looking and was wandering if the g spot vibrators are good for this as she usually has great orgasms when she is on top and grinding her clit on me. So would they be a good choice? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 12, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Well I know she is satisfied with me but I just kinda wanted to spice things up. I guess maybe try a few new things. And like every guy I wanted to see her pleasure herself and perhaps have a better orgasm. As for my fantasy I guess just maybe just watching her cum with a toy and totally enjoy it and have a really good orgasm would be hot. The vibrator she has we have used it a few times and mostly inside her with the vibrator. I dont think she has used it solo as far as I know anyways. I have been looking and was wandering if the g spot vibrators are good for this as she usually has great orgasms when she is on top and grinding her clit on me. So would they be a good choice?It depends on the toy as with all things.personally I'd recommend starting out witha bullet and while your having sex (like when she's on top) use it on her clit. Also, not every woman masturbates <frequently>, i myself rarely ever partake in the fun, but it does happen. I think a lot of us women would admit to thinking that we didn't need to or want to. I mean, why masturbate when your getting real sex, right? Female masturbation isn't exactly teh most accepted thing (though it is getting much better) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted January 12, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Welcome to TT...I have to agree with Sun. A bullet can be a girls best friend. Studies show most women will orgasm through clitoral stimulation. That being said, she may feel a bit uncomfortable at first with the toys, so try them a couple of times until you both feel more comfortable with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Saskcouple Posted January 12, 2009 Author Newbie Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Well thanks soo much for ur awsome advice everyone!! I know that she loves clitoral stimulation and perhaps I will look at getting a bullet I also was looking and getting advice form another message board that the Fun Factory Delight vibrator is a really good one and lots of people reccomment it.. Any advice on it for a g sopt vibrator or just a vibrator in general?Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted January 12, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Well thanks soo much for ur awsome advice everyone!! I know that she loves clitoral stimulation and perhaps I will look at getting a bullet I also was looking and getting advice form another message board that the Fun Factory Delight vibrator is a really good one and lots of people reccomment it.. Any advice on it for a g sopt vibrator or just a vibrator in general?ThanksThe lucid dream 14 is FAB-U-LOUS! Click on it!I even like to use this one as a clitoral stimulator sometimes too. The way it is shaped works out pretty well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Saskcouple Posted January 12, 2009 Author Newbie Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Awsome thanks for the suggestions any others u reccommend? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted January 13, 2009 Members Report Share Posted January 13, 2009 I'd like to recommend the "The Kisser". I/we love it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pandapandapie Posted February 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 7, 2009 Try a vibrating cock ring. They're, like, the gateway toy. It pretty much turns your penis into a vibrator and you can get them anywhere; they're right next to the condoms. She'll like that it's you so she'll be more open to it and if she enjoys it, then you start bringing in a little bit more. I wish I could recommend a specific vibe but the one my girlfriend loves doesn't seem to be on the site anymore. It was made by California Exotics and it's kind of a clear pink. It was the free item a few months ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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