Members ladylove Posted August 9, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 9, 2009 Can you imagine going YEARS without cumming?Would drive you crazy, right?Sadly, this is the reality for many women. Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she'llreach climax, including the secret to multipleorgasms:1. Start outside the bedroom - Want to increase thechances she'll orgasm? When was the last time yousurprised her with a little drawing, letter orflowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it ornot, creative and romantic gestures DO turn womenon because love and lovemaking are interconnectedin a woman's brain. Do this and you canbet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more thanjust eating dinner when she walks in the door! 2. Relax her - It's very hard for women to orgasm ifthey are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt awaythe tension.3. Ignore the vagina - Did you know that prolongedforeplay actually increases the chances of hercoming? That's right. By kissing, caressing andtouching her LONGER, you'll build the sexualtension and often the anticipation will be verypowerful.4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attentionon the woman first, you'll make love to her muchmore passionately. Think about it! If you'vefinished first and decide to help her come, youwon't have the enthusiasm and passion that's neededto keep her hot and turned on.5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step tohelp her reach orgasm is by not coming. The bestway I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normaland when you feel like you're about to come, simplymove your hips in a circular motion (like swaying ahula hoop) and wait until the "little guys" subsideagain. Now continue pleasuring. 6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a naturallubricant that fills the vagina when they're turnedon. By using a product substitute, you're onlyfooling yourself. Without products, you'llinstantly know if things are working; but withthem, you can never be sure.7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that onceyou've stimulated the clitoris for some time, alittle thing called the clitoral hood will actuallycome out and cover the clitoris to protect it fromfurther direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not makingthis up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fullystimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is azone that feels like the roof of your mouth and islocated about 2 inches inside the vagina on thetopside. (On the underside of her stomach.) Thereare two basic ways you can pleasure the G. Withyour fingers by doing a "come here" motion or witha love position that helps hit the G-spot...9. Use the best position - Not all love positions aremade equal. The best one for women is the reversemissionary (woman on top). This is probably theeasiest position for a woman to climax because shecan control the friction to her clitoris and/orG-spot.10. Give her oral sex The single best way to help awoman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is bygoing down on her (cunnilingus). While at first Ididn't believe it, countless studies have been doneto prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and muchmore satisfying for women than intercourse is. Try the ABC's with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, evenworse, spoil the mood.So there you have it 10 tips you can start usingright away to give women the most earth-shatteringexperience of their lives. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 9, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted August 9, 2009 I was just sent this through e-mail, and thought it would be great to share with board. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted August 10, 2009 Report Share Posted August 10, 2009 number 7 sounds backwards. i was always told the clitoral hood moves back when the clitoris swells, thus meaning it is ready to BEGIN being touched. o_O Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted August 10, 2009 Review Team Report Share Posted August 10, 2009 2. Relax her - It's very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed... I may never cum again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 10, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted August 10, 2009 I may never cum again! You'll get used to the kiddies in time, then you'll be whopping it up in the bed room again. Just make sure he locks the door next time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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