Dopey

I am 27 and my husband is 51 quite a bit of age difference however age is just a number as long as they are of adult age of course. As far as him keeping up with me sexually easy to find ways around it. such as if the man is good at oral sex could make up for it. Also if it is a problem of not him keeping up with you but a prob of ED ways around that as well. Such as toys, strap-ons, viagra. Many many things could make up for it and for the men out their that have ED just because you have to use toys does not mean you can't be satisfied as well if your wife gives good oral. Quote: " A problem is only a problem as long as you think inside the box look at it fromt he outside looking in and solutions and ways around the problem are usually visible"

what do you mean by given permission? Were you arguing and she said do whoever or whatever you want or was it an open discussion? Honestly not enough information to go on. I myself would never cheat on my husband. I took a vow to be faithful even if he gave me permission to be with someone else or even if he insisted or wanted me to I couldn't bring myself to do it. Everyone id different but I look at it like this if your husband/wife does not care if you sleep around why be married? Why be with them? I mean if you want someone else I would see it as you are unhappy in the relationship you are in so why be with them? Also if it were me and my husband insisted I sleep with someone else or wanted me to we would not be married much longer. Call me old fashioned but when I said I do I vowed to be faithful to my husband. I said I do to him and I won't do anything with anyone else. Just my opinion marriage is sacred in my opinion.

Well this is just my opinion anytime you start a D/s relationship where it is only part time and have some anytime activities as you have stated. He has the right to touch or make advances at anytime this proves to be difficult. If it is just a sexual D/s then would it be easier if things only took place in the bedroom? I mean it has to be confusing to you. Have you even given this much thought? What if you are in a public place would you feel humiliated if he touched you sexually? You stated above he has the right to make sexual advances 24/7. A lot of the D/s couples talk about different disciplines and punishments. What they would feel appropriate not too mention rules or guidelines most subs or slaves must follow. It is actually really hard to break down D/s outside a 24/7 relationship I know many do it successfully. I think it would all depend what you and your husband are expecting out of this D/s relationship. What is his wants needs and desires from the D/s part time relationship and what are yours? Just questions to ask yourself and him. Are either of you taking the D/s seriously or is it all in fun? I mean honestly people who live the 24/7 D/s lifestyle normally because it is part of who they are. It is part of their attitude, part of their life. I don't know do not want to be harsh just makes me wonder if it is just a sexual kink/fantasy some kind of role play or if you are serious about a part time D/s relationship. Just wanted to give ya some things to think about and if he has the right to punish you or correct your behavior 24/7 and the right to touch you or make advances toward you 24/7 then how does it classify as part time? I mean when does it become part time? I am just confused because you state he has the right to do things 24/7 and then say it is not a 24/7 D/s relationship.