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Argh well the picture is horribly out of focus but i had never viewed it other than on the tiny screen of my phone sooo I won't be posting it. Bummer. Maybe I will try again this time with my actual camera. lol

A while back I worked very hard to get a "profile" shot of one of my breasts. When I did I promptly txted it to my so. He was quite shocked in a good way! I noticed it is still in his phone! I will check with him and see if I can share it with you guys.

Take heart...the more you say no the easier it gets. That old adage "practice makes perfect" is NOT true but you can get damn close.

you all must have oodles of money because looking at where you all live you'd have to jet to be at the same party. If that's the case could ya send me a ticket? *just a little newbie humor* Love how much fun you seem to have on here. It's enjoyable to read.

I know I know you asked for a male voice, and I am faaaarrrr from that. I can honestly say I have never ever been with a man that doesn't finger his way around. I mean weirdly enough I can remember guys actually bragging if they got to finger a girl in high school. I am guessing times have changed a bit. I wonder what warrants a brag in high schoool now? Maybe because views about sexual things are so much more open now they just skip over the fingering and get right to lube and anal? I just don't know. We need more men to weigh in on this I am thinking. Meanwhile I will just thank my lucky stars that my DH is "old school" lol

Well I wonder if this particular guy knew how incredibly time consuming and exhausting it is to nurse and pump and freeze and all the rest. Maybe because of all the work his SO put into it he just couldn't see throwing it away. It is extremely nutritious although for adults I have no idea. Can't be any worse than diet soda. lol My SO was fascinated by my breasts when they were full. He just thought they were amazing and loved to suck on them, didn't bother me in the least but I can't say it turned either of us on all that much just amazing and novel I suppose. can I see us watching adult entertainment because it was a MILK film...extremely doubtful.

WOW we're an exciting bunch around here lately! LOL I forgot to mention that sometimes we will pretend to be other people. We act the way we think they would act. Of course we really wouldn't KNOW how they act in the bedroom but it is kinda fun to see how your DH acts out people. A twist on this is trying to guess who your SO is trying to imitate. I am thinking of trying this version but won't have a chance for a week so if someone else does it first...let me know how it goes!

love love love it when a guy has a bright sincere smile. I also get hot when guys can fix things...like cars and broken stuff around the house. Oh one more thing, when you see a guy go out of his way to help someone else and is happy about it. I think I may have a knight in shining armour complex. lol Holy crap here's one more...babies, when they are holding babies they just look so mmmm sexy Physically, hmmmm love a nice ass and a tan.

Here's my two cents for what it's worth. I would say wait 6 more days and if your period hasn't started... test again. Lots of things cause us emotional creatures to be late. In the mean time try to avoid drinking to excess and get plenty of rest, because stress can make you late too! Good luck and I sure hope it works out whichever way it goes! Let us Know.

Ok so I must admit it the double penetration sounds ....delightful. HUGE fantasy of mine that I use when I self satisfy is 2 men with me. mmmmmm so yes indeed I will totally try steering our choice that direction. I think my DH would be open to it too, as he is way ok with a little rimming and finger insertion. I think it might take some time, but Oh so worth it. That kinda brings an extra jump in my heart rate just thinking of the power of it! hehehe. Ok, maybe that's really one sided thinking. I mean I just love that it would make him feel good! My excitement is just gravy right?! Do you have any strapon suggestions?

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call me ignorant but what does DH stand for? BTW we r pretty well versed in anal play as I have been loving that for a few years now. no toys thoughit's always been all him in me. I would love to try something more. Thinking I can hardly wait to order some stuff. Is there a really good anal lube? I tend to be extremely wet so we have used me for lube up to now. I think we need to get some if he is going to have some fun too! I am love love loving all the info on this site!

Argh I am kicking myself royally. I took my son to get his Halloween costume and actually picked out a vampiress costume for myself. Understand I have never dressed up for Halloween since I was like 9 and then it was an angel as my mom doesn't celebrate halloween. I put the costume back and bought my sons and left the store. Later that evening I told my hunny that I almost bought this costume today ha was like what was it? I told him a Vampiress... He looks at me and says...That would be Hot...very very Hot! Needless to say I am thinking of making the 1.5 hour drive back to the big city to get the damn custume!

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I once went on a trip with one of my female lfriends to New Orleans... I often will tell my husband what I "did" on my trip. He askes me detail oriented questions and I give him details. Of course my story changes many times over because I was very happily married and the naughtiest I was without him was dirty dancing at a club. He just likes it when I act and talk naughty to him! Early on we used some suggestive dice and that was fun.

Does anyone have any suggestions for some quality, fun, beginner toys? we have had a dildo in the past and I had a very tiny rigid vibrator (which I really didn't get much enjoyment from). That is the extent of our past toy experience.

Lady, we have not purchased anything for our strongbox yet but when I suggested a cock ring he was like no way! He has no trouble staying hard and can last longer than me. He just thought it would be painful and he'd get no enjoyment from it. Of course I had no response to that because I really don't know if it is pleasureable for men. I know some have attatchements that are pleasureable for women buuut really know very little about them. we did buy some yours and mine ky we are going to give that a try tonight I am hoping it is as good as the commercials make it out to be! I did mention that I am ok with hands around my neck but I really don't want to be choked which is something I know interests him alot. Also he came home for lunch on Friday and I made him late getting back, needless to say he got the longest BJ he's had in YEARS! I still had some gagging issues but I think I did ok. So yes I think we r moving forward as some things we've just done without talking about them, after all we have been married 18 years now!

OK so last evening I say to my honey, Honey I think we need to have an open, honest, non judgemental conversation about our sex life. He says oookaaay. I said I think you have some things that you might want to share with me (I actually know this as I am pretty good a checking the history on the pc). He says maybeeee. You have to know we have a pretty good amount of open sharing about pretty much everything. So I laugh I say well maybe there are things i would like to try too. He says, like what? I respond maybe we should just each write down a list and then compare notes. He responds "are you crazy What if we lose the lists?!" I say don't lose your list! we'll get a strongbox and keep them in there, we'll need one anyway since I think we should buy a few toys too! I think he just about had a coronary! I laughed so hard i thought I was going to pee my pants! It was a good conversation all in all. Oh yeah and sex last night...HOT!

Thanx for the welcome though!

Hmmm seems like a have a million questions but lets start with one or two. we have tried without first talking about it a few things such as naughty talk (that's just my lingo) and a bit of slapping has just come in to play. I just need to know if there are wrong ways, right ways...ah hell that just seems completely inadequate for what I am feeling right now.

I doesn"t take too many peeks on here to know some people know waaaay more than me. Is there a general beginning to new avenues of sexual interaction with your mate, how in world do I foster it or get details on making it work better?