I am in the same kind of predicament as Ready is here. Deployed overseas here for another 2.5 months. Also, wife was pregnant when I left. I was home for about 30 days for the birth and 3 weeks afterwards. We had fantastic and awesome sex 4x the two days before the birth. After the birth she was so tired and her hormones were out of sync. My last few days at home she started becoming aroused and back to normal again. Though, she believed what the Drs said and to abstain from penetration for 6 weeks afterwards. Now, the act of physical intimacy and sex is not the only thing I miss, however, THIS IS A SEX RELATED FORUM!!!! I miss the everyday things of life I shared with her back home. Her smile, her eyes, her giggles, the smell of her hair, her cooking, her beautiful passionate-wet kisses!!! The way we cuddle on the couch or in bed. The way her hand feels in the palm of my hand when we hold hands. Her soft wet kisses on my cheek when I am driving.