I can actually orgasm from performing oral on my man hes still amazed by it and we've been together many years I dont have gag reflexes so he gets to be as soft or hard as he wants ...hes even taped it and im like thats all in my throat holy shit....but I get off on pleAsing him ...hes used to at least an hour im looking to see if any other woman can outdo me with him Smh...