We do a lot of switching up where the dildo goes. Sometimes my man likes really hot anal penetration using the dildo vaginally. Sometimes he likes vaginal sex using the dildo anally.(never interchanging without a good cleaning.) Most of the time, whichever way we go I have the want close by for my clit. I honestly love anal and just the wand as well. Trying new things is the spice of life for sure.