buttman331

I'd have to agree with Tanker. The bottom line is though that unless you are aroused you aren't going to make it. It can all be mental. I know my wife has trouble when she is worried about other things or has a lot on her mind. Usually unless I notice this and do what it takes to get her mind focused it is exactly as you described for her. Usually I can tell I'm making progress with swelling and wetness. Just like its pretty difficult to get a guy to orgasm with a limp dick its the same thing. Also my understanding is the vaginal pumps that are designed to increase the swelling can help with this a lot. I actually saw a report on Berman and Berman about that.

based on some things that my wife and I went through, it could be that it does feel good just too for lack of a better way to put it out of control good. We had found that tickle and extreemly aroused were not too different. and from what we had learned until you are willing to give in to it you won't enjoy it. its about feeling free to give up that control. at least thats how it is from this mans perspective

c'mon no one has anything to say about this. I think a woman is never more beautiful than when she is pregant. Mine was also much more sensitive to touch. Its been a few years now and we are done having kids. but man was she hot then. not that she isn't now. but I loved every minute of it. the enlarged t&a were nice too. Come to think of it the breast milk tasted pretty good too. I can still work out a drop or 2 now and then. good times.

Just interested in everyones thoughts on the issue. For me sex with my wife while she was pregnant was fantastic, and she could not get enough. I also really enjoyed the backside spread begin butt man

I don't know what to tell you, Her husband was a buddy of mine he said it was there wedding night, sex was over neither of them was satisfied she took a shower and left. She told him the tattoo was a better rush for her than the sex. In the end she got pregnant the 3rd time they had sex because she wasn't taking her birth control properly. she would not let him touch her while she was pregnant. and the separated when there litlle girl was 3 months old. So in a marriage that lasted just over a year they only had sex 5 times, and from what I hear from the other girls around them she hated every single time.

I know a girl who was a virgin on her wedding night. The sex sucked so she said f**k it I'm going to get a tattoo and left came back the next day with one across her entire lower back. As if she was waiting until she had sex to get a tattoo.

love to give and receive

in the ocean on a public beach on a summer saturday afternoon, She gave me a bj on the highway, and as the song called it "the trusty woods" never very far in though, also in the bay berry bushes at the shore. but hey were all before we had kids

HELL NO! Those vows mean that you have given yourselves over to each other completely and if thats the case there is no room for anyone else. If she is not giving you everything you need then you need to figure out how to fix that with her, maybe its because you are not giving her everything she needs.

We talk about all of it all of the time and sex 2 to3 times a day for 3 weeks out of the month is about all I can handle. There isn't anything that either one of us have had an interest in that we have at least tried, but we only stick to things that work for both of us. I didn't mean to imply that I don't get what I want. For example a few years ago she had some serious surgery and was not allowed to have sex for a month. She still gave me the best head jobs almost every night ( and a few at lunch time too) for that time period. My point was that if she wants to play with my ass she's free to go for it. She gives me what I want anytime I want it, Im not really hot on always hitting her in the back door but hey when she's asking for it I'm there.

my wife and I both keep the hair above trimmed, and keep the rest plucked (yes plucked) we both had tried shaving and products like nair but with either of them we both had trouble with ingrown hairs OUCH! much more painful than the plucking. Any way we both find that we are way more sensitive without the hair there.

I agree slow and lube. My wife started out just doing it occasionally just because I would press the issue, but after a while first her willingness changed to anytime I would ask then, the first time she asked for it I was blown what guy wouldn't love to hear "hey hun how about stickin' that thing in my ass" She was definetly feeling the pleasure. Since then she has actually had a few orgasms from anal, and or properly working a butt plug. I think she started feeling more at ease about it when she found out her sister actually prefers anal.

I've got to tell you. If she wants to and you don't let her you are missing out big time. My wife will occasionally for me. the last time she putt her vibrator in and massaged the prostate while giving me a BJ the biggest most powerfully awsome cum of my life. She doesn't like to do it a lot and if I ask shes not really big on it just when she gets in the mood. Kinda like when she wants it in the backdoor if she gets in the right mood its what she wants. c'mon now Arent all of us guys ready to get some any where any time? well then why not anyway she wants it? besides so far everything she has ever suggested to me has been outstanding.