I masturbate alone, majority of the time. Sometimes I do it next to my wife, while she rubs my balls. I typically don’t use anything other than my hand, no lube… just don’t have to deal with the clean up! I do have a super sucker toy, which I do use now and then. I wish the wife would surprise me by using it on me. I love to listen to sounds of people having sex, like in hotels. If not enough time for sex, I’ll soap up and jerk off in the shower. Always enjoy when my wife catches me in the act. It’s a huge turn on!