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It also would help to know how big or small of a dildo you're looking for. I always recommend glass. It may sound cold and unforgiving of a material for sex toys, but oh momma!! They work!!! I will second the recommendation to check out the Sex Toy Review section. Open up the forum, go to the Word Search box at the bottom of the page, and type DILDO in it, to pull up all of the reviews that have the word DILDO in them. Good luck.

Was there something, ever so simple, or every day, that got you hot, catching you totally off guard? What I mean is, watching someone drive a car, watching your SO shave, seeing a cop pull over a speeder, or a stockperson stocking shelves at the local grocery store?

Wow!! It just got put up on the site, what, 2 days ago???

I got one word for you Thurasis: blindfolds!

Well, after looking at that site, I found a Purple Pyrex Dildo that I REALLY want!! When I first posted this question, what I had wanted the most was the dual strap on pleasurer. I got that, reviewed it, and now, I need to set my sights on something else......I have a fairly lengthy "Wish List" too though....I need to add the purple flogger to my list too......

Hey, I shut my eyes a lot of the time too. Mostly because, I find that, with my eyes shut, I can concentrate on the feelings of pleasure a lot MORE so, then I can when I am looking around or at my hubby. Hey, if it works, go with it!! I bet your hubby has noticed that, with your eyes shut, you cum faster, and more intensely. Hence why he's not worried or bothered by it. If you want to keep your eyes open, then make a conscious effort to do so. Just don't make a huge issue out of it (on your side). Enjoy yourself, and have fun! Best wishes!

Time The Toolman Taylor would be SO jealous of that kinda power!! Urg Urg Urg!!! We have the Feeldoe, and I definitely recommend it!

Let me also add, that just because he is aged & experienced, doesn't make him "great". A great lover not only pleases YOU, but TEACHES you how to please them. Letting you "get the hang of it" by letting you just drift in the wind, makes him rather lacking, IMHO. How are you to know what pleases him if he doesn't TELL you??? This isn't an Easter Egg Hunt, where you win a prize if you find something! He has to be willing to teach you. It's not only rude, it's inconsiderate, the way he's making you feel inadequate. It's NOT your fault that you don't know how to please him in particular. It's not like you're a mind reader. There should be good verbal cues, as well as physical, but, he should also TELL you things that he likes. Even stuff that you may not have done before/yet. Each man, just like each woman, likes different things. For instance, I had one lover that just LOVED it when I squeezed his balls HARD while he was pounding into me. My hubby does NOT like this at all. My added advise to you is to stand up for yourself, and tell him that, well, if he wants better, he has 2 choices: he can teach you how to please him, or he can go find his "better in bed" partners. Making you feel like a failure in bed is just an ego boost for HIM. He knows this bothers you, and it's a power trip for him, to make you feel bad about yourself. I don't get this. I mean, if one feels like they suck in bed, why would they want to continue to have sex with the partner that makes them feel this way? I may sound a bit pissed about this, and, I am. I have been made to feel like this, when I was younger, and not so experienced. And so, I know how you feel. It took me a few lovers later to realize that it was HIM that had the issues, and that, if he had taught me how to do what he liked, things would've been a lot nicer in the bedroom.

It's hard to get an idea as to how large this item is, however, it's not large at all. Isis is only a total length of a regular pen. It's 6" long, and about as round as a hot dog, diameter of 1.5". I've used some Kegel balls, and I found that this item, for me, worked better.

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I’m not sure that this item can be considered a “sex toy”, per say, since, it is, in fact, a Kegel exerciser. Dr. Laura Berman teams up with California Exotics to bring you this “Intimacy Accessory”, designed to help strengthen your pelvic floor. Thousands of women, in clinical tests, help Dr. Laura Berman & the Berman Center come up with this, and several other items designed to help enhance women’s sexual responses, issues, and to help aide in orgasms. First, I hear someone in the back say, “What are Kegels, and why would you want to do them?” Kegels are when you clench your vaginal muscles and release them. The best way to describe how to do them, is to just think about stopping the flow of urine, and squeezing the muscles down there. Every woman can do this. Those are the muscles that push a baby out of the birth canal. Doing Kegels not only allows birthing to happen easier, it also makes a woman more aware of those muscles, allowing her to further excite her lover by squeezing down on his penis. One can do Kegels anywhere, anytime, and nobody knows that you’re doing them *squeeze, hold, release, squeeze, hold, release…” See? I’m doing them as I write this review, in fact. Why would you want to do them? The more a woman is aware of the muscles she has, and how to use them, the easier orgasms will come, and, you can also please your lover with your tightened muscles. Men LOVE it when a woman grabs a hold of his cock, without the use of her hands! So, being a practiced Kegel-doer, I was excited, and a bit amused, to see Isis in my box of new toys. Having a quirky sense of humor, as I was reading the box, and description of this item, I thought, “Oh, ok! A pussy dumbbell!” Which, is essentially what it is, without the weights. (They do make one with weights in it as well.) Made of seemless Lucite, which is a clear plastic, it resembles a bulbous bowtie. The idea is to slide this item up inside your vagina, and see if you can hold it in by using your vaginal muscles. There is no retrieval ring, cord, or strap, but, the premise is to have your muscles hold it in, and then push it out. You can fully submerse this item in warm soapy water, for easy cleaning. There is a diagram on the flap of the box, that shows you the entire female genital anatomy, so you can get a really good idea of what you have, and where it is. It even comes with a lilac netted nylon pouch to put it in, to store and protect it. Dabbing a bit of lube on Isis, it slid up very easily. The small ball in the middle does help keep half of it inside you, something for your muscles to grasp. The instructions tell you that you can use Isis laying down at first, or standing up. The idea is to keep Isis INSIDE your vagina with the use of your vaginal muscles. Let me tell you, just sitting and doing Kegel exercises is A LOT different than actually trying to HOLD something up inside using the same muscles. I was able to squeeze it only 5 times before it slid out. Now, I did use a silicone lube with it, and, since it is a smooth toy, that added 2 more degrees of difficulty. So I lay down and did some squeezing for more practice. But, all in all, I was impressed with how my muscles felt afterwards. I definitely knew that they’d had a workout. I recommend this Intimate Accessory to all women. It's small, easy to use and clean, and not intimidating. Plus, it's actually pretty too. I’ve had many women actually ASK me, “how EXACTLY does one do Kegels?” With the use of this item, women will no longer have to ASK, they will find out exactly how to do their Kegels. Get a Workout With ISIS

Differences Between Women And Men 1.NAMES If Rebecca, Linda, Anna and Jeanne go out for lunch, they will call each other Rebecca, Linda, Anna and Jeanne. If Mark, Harold, Dave and Rob go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla, Peanut-Head and Scrappy. 2.EATING OUT When the bill arrives, Mark, Harold, Dave and Rob will each throw in a $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back. When the women get their bill, out come the pocket calculators. 3.MONEY A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need, but it's on sale. 4.BATHROOMS A man has five items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel from the Marriott. The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify most of these items. 5.ARGUMENTS A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that... is the beginning of a new argument. 6.CATS Women love cats. Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats. 7.FUTURE A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. 8.SUCCESS A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. 9.MARRIAGE A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does. 10.DRESSING UP A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage,answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail. A man will dress up for weddings and funerals. 11.NATURAL Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night. 12.OFFSPRING Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams. A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house. 13.THOUGHT FOR THE DAY All married men should forget their mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

LMAO Anyone that's seen my tattoo on the Share Sexy Photos forum, will know who you're talking about! LOL What a great review! I got all "hot"!

I just LOVE bullets! They have so many possibilities, that they are, in my opinion, one of the most “must-haves” for everyone’s adult toy box! Add this cunning cutie to the list! Tell me what could be more appropriate and cute a rabbit is for a sex toy? I mean, c’mon! We’ve all heard the term “fuck like rabbits.”And this rabbit is no exception to the cuteness factor! The waterproof pink bullet is kind of large, covered in a soft & flexible TPR jelly material, with the tip of it adorning half a rabbit sitting up. Another added bonus~NUBBIES! The nubbies are all along the rest of the bullet, for added stimulation. Gotta love da nubbies! The 3AAA (not AA and not incl.) batteries that go into the simple to use slim controller really pack this rabbit with some goin’-at-it vibes! I just love strong vibes, and this rabbit doesn’t disappoint! 7 modes of sheer vibration pleasure await you on the easy to use, one button controller. Using the bottom button to turn it on, it’s just a simple push to change up the vibes on your Rabbit. The ears dance, and the nubbies shake, which makes for lots of strong pleasure! This toy is rather quiet too. Even the lowest setting was pretty strong. I love my strong vibes! Plus, I loved the entire feeling of the bullet, as I laid it on my vaginal lips, with the rabbit’s ears tickling and dancing on my clit. I loved how the ears are pointy, making it so you can target the area you want to tease with ease. My hubby had a lot of fun rubbing this toy all over, teasing my nipples, clit and lips, before allowing it to “rest” on my labia, so I could get a good area covered in nubbie/rabbit vibes! Talk about making me react like Thumper! Leg and pussy all a’twitchin’! It was awesome! This bullet would be a great starter bullet, even though it’s a bit more than a regular bullet, just because of the power, ease of use & care, and, of course, the over all OMG factor!!! This toy gets 5 stars...or would that be rabbit paws? Fun, cute, and oh, so satisfying!! Gotta love da bunny! Get Cunnin'

I understand about Rx's being so expensive. You didn't tell us how old you are, or how stressed out you are either. Those things can also be factors. I've never heard of the act of getting an erection hurt by having a vasectomy. An erection, as you well know, is a rush of blood to the penis. A vasectomy, is 2 cuts in the testicles, where they either cut or cut and burn the small "tubes" that allow the seminal fluid and sperm to the penis. So, I'm not seeing how that could affect them. Have you asked your DR if that could be part of the problem?

A MAN IS DRIVING DOWN A DESERTED STRETCH OF HIGHWAY WHEN HE NOTICES A SIGN OUT OF THE CORNER OF HIS EYE....IT READS: SISTERS OF ST. FRANCIS HOUSE OF PROSTITUTION 10 MILES HE THINKS THIS IS A FIGMENT OF HIS IMAGINATION AND DRIVES ON WITHOUT SECOND THOUGHT. SOON HE SEES ANOTHER SIGN WHICH READS: SISTERS OF ST. FRANCIS HOUSE OF PROSTITUTION 5 MILES SUDDENLY HE BEGINS TO REALIZE THAT THESE SIGNS ARE FOR REAL AND DRIVES PAST A THIRD SIGN SAYING: SISTERS OF ST. FRANCIS HOUSE OF PROSTITUTION NEXT RIGHT HIS CURIOSITY GETS THE BEST OF HIM, AND HE PULLS INTO THE DRIVE. ON THE FAR SIDE OF THE PARKING LOT IS A STONE BUILDING WITH A SMALL SIGN NEXT TO THE DOOR READING : SISTERS OF ST. FRANCIS HE CLIMBS THE STEPS AND RINGS THE BELL . THE DOOR IS ANSWERED BY A NUN IN A LONG BLACK HABIT WHO ASKS, "WHAT MAY WE DO FOR YOU MY SON?" HE ANSWERS, "I SAW YOUR SIGNS ALONG THE HIGHWAY AND WAS INTERESTED IN POSSIBLY DOING BUSINESS." "VERY WELL, MY SON. PLEASE FOLLOW ME." HE IS LED THROUGH MANY WINDING PASSAGES AND IS SOON QUITE DISORIENTED. THE NUN STOPS AT A CLOSED DOOR AND TELLS THE MAN, "PLEASE KNOCK ON THIS DOOR." HE DOES SO AND ANOTHER NUN IN A LONG HABIT, HOLDING A TIN CUP ANSWERS THE DOOR. THIS NUN INSTRUCTS, "PLEASE PLACE $100 IN THE CUP THEN GO THROUGH THE LARGE WOODEN DOOR AT THE END OF THE HALLWAY." HE PUTS $100 IN THE CUP, EAGERLY TROTS DOWN THE HALL, AND SLIPS THROUGH THE DOOR PULLING IT SHUT BEHIND HIM. THE DOOR LOCKS, AND HE FINDS HIMSELF BACK IN THE PARKING LOT FACING ANOTHER SIGN: GO IN PEACE. YOU HAVE JUST BEEN SCREWED BY THE SISTERS OF ST. FRANCIS. SERVES YOU RIGHT, YOU SINNER.

Well, that pretty much says it all! As far as your first time anally, well, using lots of lube (and I do mean LOTS) is very important. Dry running is not recommended at all. I would highly recommend that you always use condoms as well, since, no matter if they're male, female, gay or straight, you never know what they may give you as an "added bonus". If you have never had anal sex before, then I would suggest going to the shopping section here, or an adult toy shop, and getting a toy that has progressively larger toys, playing with yourself (again with LOTSA lube), and working your anal sphincter up to accomodating something as large as a penis. Something like The Anal Starter Kit Your anus is designed to push stuff OUT, not have it go in, so having something pushed (slowly) up there, takes some getting use too, relax, breathe, and again, LOTSA lube! Tearing and bleeding is not a good thing. I really don't recommend anything that claims to numb the anus (like Analese), since pain is the body's way of saying "Stop that, or you're gonna damage something".

I agree, Howard. Vodka can easily be hidden with some sort of juice drink too. When I have a "girlie" drink, which always has fruit juice in it, I can never taste the vodka. And it usually hits me all at once. I'm lotsa fun when I drink, but I never get irresponsible, thankfully.

I would definitely get clarification, and not just an impression. Sometimes doctors "think" you get it, since they do, but they really should be specific. And, we as patients, should learn to ask better questions too. I had a great OB/GYN when I was in ME, pregnant. She was a tiny woman, about my age, maybe a few yrs older, and she was so cute! She looked so sweet, but she was very knowlegable, and I felt comfortable opening up to her about all of my health issues during and after the birth of our daughter. I figured, she had seen me inside and out, there's not much I could really hide from her! LOL It's great that you have a doctor you can feel like you can open up to as well.

I had to seperate myself from this one for a bit, because it just struck me "wrong". Plus, this is WAY O.T. (off topic). In no way am I making this a "dig" because Howard hasn't had children, for whatever personal reasons, however, since he hasn't had the experience of having a little one pop in, at the most inopportune moments, well, let's just say, you have to learn about how to deal with kids, when you have them. Babysitter, uncle, aunt, part-time step-parent, whatever, it needs to be truly experienced. I always got insulted when my friends, with kids, would say that to me, but, I will fully admit, that I was wrong in getting insulted, and yes, it is truly different having your own, living with you. You may say that kids need to understand the difference between screams of pain and pleasure. However, this is my personal opinion, I don't feel that children should be hearing screams of pleasure. Maybe soft sounds, but screaming, no matter if it's a good one or a bad one, to a little one, is a scary thing, and if they get startled awake, well it's not a fun thing to have to deal with, and the mood is therefore killed. You really have a hard time reasoning with a small child, scared out of their minds, because they heard Mommy scream. It's just not a reasonable thing to expect, that they'd understand that. I don't find that appropriate, therefore, I keep my mouth muffled if I feel the scream coming on. What's wrong with that? Absolutely nothing. Some parents are blessed with kids that could sleep thru a train going thru their rooms. We, however, have a child that wakes up when the crickets fart outside. She has a great imagination, and HATES to be woken up. So, I keep my screams muffled. When you have small children, work, and life in general, as a couple, you need to steal private time when you can. Fully enjoy it, hog it, treasure it, and allow the kids to sleep thru it. Not only is it great for the parents, but when a child gets woken up, they're crabby in the morning, and not pleasant to be around. It keeps the time that you have for yourselves as a couple, truly yours. You do everything you can to be able to enjoy the time you get, no matter when, so we tend to keep it down. For those of us in small houses, screaming, even behind closed doors, is audible. So, not even a closed door helps. My whole point for my "muffle the screams" suggestion was for the original poster's roommates sakes. They're putting themselves out a bit (even though they bring home drunk people sometimes), by allowing her BF to stay there. The least they could do is be as quiet as possible, at night at least, so when the others are trying to sleep, and have classes the next day, possibly tests, that they're able to get as much rest as they can, without being startled awake by a scream. Being considerate isn't a hard thing to do, if you truly try. Unfortunately, you see many a roommate go their seperate ways because of someone being rude, disrespectful, and inconsiderate. Since money is tight, again, thinking of others around you, while still enjoying the time you have with your BF, you'll want to be able to hopefully do that again, so, keep it down. That's just my opinion, and what I expect when I have someone stay with us.

Again, I will adhere to what I said earlier, if your doctor recommends against anal intercourse, then I would abstain from that altogether. Anal play is fun, but it's not worth permanent damage. Check with your doctor if (s)he meant ANY anal play. Maybe your doctor has an idea of how big a toy could be, or finger, that could be safe. Having a rectal exam is NOTHING like anal sex. With a rectal exam, it's a controlled, small scope going up there, lots of medical grade lubricant, and out. With anal sex, things go in and out, like regular vaginal intercourse, or you have something up in there, while having sex, which could irritate the scar tissue, causing bruising, or ripping. I'm not going to give any ideas, just out of concern, since, your doctor recommended against it. It's better to play it safe, than having to go back to the ER to have something fixed that could've been avoided.

How awesome that this toy worked so well for you! Thanks for the great review!

Actually, if you READ my answer, I did answer his question (Spanish, Africans, Indians, Scottish). I only said ONE name, if you want to get "picky" about it. You may have found this question silly, but, we have similar questions posed on the board, like I mentioned before: hair color, body types, and so on. It was a simple question, which I think was pretty neat. He didn't ask if you choose a certain nationality, just one that seems to get you hot. There are people out there that do so, however, I don't believe that this was the purpose of his question. Hence the "lighten up", which was made lightly. People should feel that they can ask any question here without being made to feel "silly".

That's great that your roommates are so accomodating. I would count yourself very lucky. Be very careful how you handly the "Flirty" roommate. If you come right out and tell her "Hands off" she may get pissed off or she may see it as a challange. Diplomacy is the best thing. I would just see what happens. Also, before he gets there, try not to overload them with stories of how he makes you feel. Gushing may want Flirty want to try and test it (or him) out. Howard made some great suggestions, making sure he wears clothes no matter where he goes in the room(s), locking the bedroom AND bathroom doors, and announcing himself before he makes an entrance, so as not to catch any unintentional clothes changing. Obviously, your roommates are going to kow what you're doing, whether they hear the squeaking or not. Be prepared for some possible teasing. You can control vocalization. Muffling your face in a pillow when you feel a scream coming on, biting down on it, or kissing your BF, all help keep the noise levels down. It's just one of those things that you really should be aware of when you have roommates, for their consideration. After all, you don't want them charging in on you, thinking that you're hurt, when you scream. I'm very vocal. I prefer to be so. However, now that I'm a mother, that's had to be curbed, otherwise, we'd have a little one coming in and seeing what was going on! Same idea. I hope that the visit goes well. Just remember, both you and he should be overly considerate for this extended visit/sleep over, so that your roommates will be willing to possibly do it again in the future. Best wishes!!