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What an asshole, Mikalya!! Mine pales in comparison to be sure!! I was with this guy that I really really had the hots for. I had asked him out, brazenly, and he was a hottie. Great personality, lots of fun, outgoing, great sense of humor. The first night we are finally together, I find out he is teenie tiny in the penis department. So, ok, this is manageable, and he was pretty good, but not amazing, at oral sex. Then, when he is coming, he screams like a little girl!!!! "WTF was that?" I wonder silently to myself. I didn't say anything, and almost bit my tongue off for fear of laughing (that really would've cut the relationship short!). Needless to say, his ex wanted him back (why?), and even though I was falling in love with him on every other level, I was sort of glad that he decided to feel guilty and responsible for her! After that I met Junior!!

My hubby does every once in a while, but he's not a regular at it. And, BTW, they do make Nair for men! And when using down there, try a test patch on your arm or underarm first, so you won't be sorry later on. Some ppl, as mentioned before, have bad reactions to it!!

We're buying this house, and BIL & SIL lived in it, and they were PIGS!! We've had lots of hours cleaning, hauling, heaving, cleaning some more, and still aren't done!! We've been going at this since July 5th!! Hubby works, and I work at night, so between work schedules, the need for sleep, our daughter, pets, everyday crap, and then that on top of it all, we've been very busy. I've done the majority of cleaning and hauling, BTW. Hubby wants to be moved in by this weekend, though I am not seeing that as possible, seeing I am going on a month-long trip to Maine Tuesday!! I hope to sneak on here every once in a while while in Maine. But I will be very very busy with family and friends. I may lurk now and again, but I will be here!!

For what it's worth, here is what I think: You need to get the hell out of that house, and FAST!! Being there is preventing you from moving on. And if you and your ex are STILL having moments, no matter how short they are, it's pretty selfish of her to allow that to happen, knowing you are alone and vulnerable, where she has a husband, 2 kids, and knows how you feel about her. She is wanting a lot, while giving as little as possible. Just a hint: ppl always look better to you if you break up with them and it wasn't mutual. Even if it WAS mutual but there are still feelings. I suggest that the few friends that you DO have, you ask them for a place to stay, even just a couch, til you get on your feet. I can't say I know how you feel, but I am sure it is harder in a small town with small minded people there. You need time to heal, adjust. And if you think you ARE Bi-sexual, try dating a guy, but be open with him by telling him you are probably bisexual. Some guys don't like that kind of surprise, where others may think that's an open invitation for a 3 some. Good luck to you!!

Depending on where you live: the beach (although since he's a lifeguard, that may be the LAST place he wants to go too) A Drive-in Dinner at a casual restaurant A comedy club a walk in the park go play some pool at a local pub/bar rollerblading/skating 4 wheeling Hope this helps! And hope you have fun!

I've actually done light to moderate bondage with a few of my partners. With my husband, we used thick rope used for rope halters (horse), and he tied me to the bed that was one of the tube metal framed ones that fold up to a couch. We broke the bed. I've used handcuffs, rope, nylons, silk ties (those I like the best), belts, and even a camera bag strap. Gotta get creative when the mood strikes!!

Having fun, and getting more and more comfortable with using toys, and relaxing, these will help you get more into the idea of toys as you get going with them. I too like a more firm clitorial stimulation. But can only achieve that by myself...so far. I have the Hustler Rocket one, and I LOVE that one!! And, shockingly enough, I got it when they were doing the free vibrator (which they are doing again BTW), and I got the Doc Johnson's one too, but I gave that one to a friend in need!! Proud of you!!

What a great story. Makes you wonder "what if"

Wow!! That was great!! And now my story seems so short!!

The flirtation started at a rollerskating rink. I was 27, single, and loving life! I went skating every Tuesday night at a big skating rink in Austin, TX. I had lots of friends, and had a blast. This one guy, whom I found out was 20, thought I was cute. There was MAJOR flirtation going on, lots of comments, touching, flirting, skating together, joking around, so on. Well, finally, being the brazen one that I am, I gave him my phone number, and told him to call me somenight. Well, on a Friday night, he did just that. He said that he wanted to get together, but had to work, so I told him I'd meet him at his work, when he got off, and then we could go from there. But, when he got out, it was midnight, so we just decided to order some pizza, watch a movie, at his place. This young stud could've been in GQ magazine! He had the PERFECT "V" shaped body. Nice broad shoulders, tiny hips and slightly bubble-butt, nice strong arms and legs, dirty blonde hair, hazel eyes. Tattoos on his arms and back. Not "gross" tattoos (bloody, or skulls, that stuff), but tattoos that were well done, and well placed. Very nice voice too. For being so young, he spoke very well. Not too polite, but not swearing all over the place, or incorrect grammar. Being from Alabama, he also had that southern twang I love so much. We sat on his love seat, watching a small tv that he had, eating some pizza, sitting very close. I loved just the feel of him sitting next to me. He leaned against me a bit, and put his head on my shoulder....mmmmm, nice. He smelled of Tommy Hilfger colonge. Verrrrry nice!! He turned to me, and looked into my eyes *melt* then kissed me. Gentle at first, but then he deepened it. I groaned, and let him do his tongue magic. Gawd that boy could kiss!!! Very sensual. He started rubbing my neck, then worked his way down my waist, carressing my waist, and then slowly, slowly, up my shirt. I didn't stop him, in fact I kind of moved forward towards his large, strong hands. I was rubbing his neck, then his shoulders, moving down that perfect body of his. Rubbing his arms, sides, waist, and since he was leaning into me, I was able to gently massage his butt too. One of us groaned now and again. We broke our deep kissing after a while, and he took off my top, admiring my 36C breasts and flat tummy. His smoldering gaze devoring me. Then he stood up, pulling me up with him. I could see from his tight jeans that he was more than a little turned on. He grabbed my tight ass, and kneaded that oh so gently, but firmly as well. I practically ripped his t-shirt off! I gazed at his perfectly shaped pecs, and 6 pack stomach! He was a god! And I told him so!! He took me by the hand, and led me to his bed. He had black bedding, and the piece de' resistance was the 2 full length mirrors that were his closet doors! He sat down on the bed first, then pulled me down to him. We stroked each other, for what seemed like hours, then, somehow, we were both naked. To this day, I am still not sure how that happened. We started heavy petting, getting braver and braver, as the shyness wore away. His tongue tickled my neck, breasts, tummy, and finally my wet cooch waiting for him. He did the tongue mambo!! OMG! He was firm, yet gentle. I kneaded his shoulders, groaning and moaning in appreciation. I came several times. I finally couldn't stand it anymore! I had to feel him inside of me. I did have enough of my non-primal self available to ask if he had protection (if not, I had some in my purse-safety first ya know!!), he got up, went and got the condom, slipped it on ever so quickly, and deep kissed me. He slid into my dripping snatch, slowly, slowly, and buried his head into my hair, exhaling as he did the first time. I shuddered. He filled me so well, and he was shaped very well and was well-endowed. We both started moving together in unison. I rose to meet his thrusts each time. We had perfect rythm together. Every so often we'd both watch us having sex in those 2 awesome mirrors of his. That is SUCH a big turn on!! I was in great shape at that time of my life, and loved having the body I did. Very fit, very toned. And I could tell that he appreciated that very much. It was like he was paying homage to my body. He wasn't in it just for his nut, lemme tell ya!! He caressed me and looked into my eyes several times during our steamy sex session!! Having a strong male gaze into your eyes, knowing that you are all he is seeing, is just a big turn on for me. He slowed down several times, so as not to blow too soon. After about an hour, and several orgasms for me, he came. After, we lay on his bed, panting. We had body parts tangled everywhere. He got up, disposed of the well used condom, came in, and appreciatively told me that that was wonderful, and gave me a back rub!! Yum. Right back at ya babe! He lay back down, and after about a half hour of resting, he was raring to go once again!!! It was almost animalistic, the way we just did it over and over again! We made love 4 more times that night!! And they weren't quickies either! I slept there, sort of, which was something I rarely did (having roommates at home that worried about me and all). The next morning, he got up oh so quietly, took a shower, came in and made love to me again, slowly, tenderly, and then got dressed and went to work. I stayed there for about an hour, took a well deserved shower, and left. I left a note saying "Thanks for the wonderful night. Look forward to the next time!!" We had about a month long fling, not wanting to commit since both of us enjoyed the single life. Each time I went over there, I rarely got any sleep, went to work very happily sore. My coworkers knew when I had seen him, and called him "Junior" since he was almost 8 yrs my junior. I sometimes regret not hanging in there a bit longer and trying to make a go of it with that boy. He was well worth the sleepless sore days and nights!!

Please enlighten us on what worked for you!! We'd love to read about your success!!!

A real penis doesn't vibarate?? Well, my hubby's does, but I have to take a frayed electrical cord and zap him up his ass with it, almost as good as a BOB!!!! I'm just kidding, BTW!! I saw some men cringing there!! Anyway, like was previously mentioned, there's no difference between sex with a man,and sex toys, except the vibrating part, and making sure that you and your toys are clean. Lots of women get hornier while pregnant and many men actually complain cuz they're not getting enough rest!! So using your BOBS may be a good thing for your hubby's stamina!!

There are several toys out there that are radio controlled, let hubby have the controls. Like bullets.... Most bullets come on a little cord, that you can discretely put in your pocket. Make sure to have your shirt covering where the cord comes out of your pants, or top of skirt. Otherwise, you may get questioned as to what that wire is doing there. Or, you could try Ben Wa Balls to put up inside you, and they will stimulate you when you walk, or even sit a certian way. Maybe have hubby watch you put them in, to tease the hell outta him!!! I'm thinking I need to invest in some BWBs myself.

Good luck!!!

Either we all need to get out more, or we're all extremely creative. I am hoping the latter!!

Does it disappear completely, or come in and out, like the muscle spasming?

Do you think the Glass Dildo may have sabotaged the cleaning? That one has always been a slippery devil!! Especially the way the light reflects off of it, kinda like shifty eyes, KWIM? My deepest condolenses on your loss, and I hope the suspect is caught and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the Vibrators Penile Code!!

Plus, if your husband (and I am just going on what I've seen and heard before from others) didn't know he was getting your spots *aka faking* and you acted like he was, so as not to hurt his feelings. You can't blame him for that. If you've had other lovers and he is doing what is tried and worked on others, then it's up to YOU to tell him that what he's doing isn't cutting the mustard! But most male egos are fragile things, so this must be done gently. Like moving his head, or shifting ever so slightly. If you feel like you're in heat, well, you're hitting your sexual peak as a woman, so you may very well be doing so. But, hubby isn't going to be able to do much for you until you know what does it for you too!!! So, get comfy, watch a porn, read a mag, take a bath, don't stress, relax, and happy exploring!!!

In all actuallity, Howard is a lawyer!! LOL But very in tune with women's bodies after years of "research". Now, for me, I have to be naked, relaxed, maybe read a porn magazine or even those adult letter magazines (I love those). LOts of clit stimulation. Now, for me, with my Hustler's Rock It Clit stimulator, http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4680 I like a firm round motion on my clit. During sex, not firm. When playing with myself, I also use a g-spot vibrator. One of my favs is one I got at an adult toy store. Its slim, but rounded at the top. This is the most similar one on this site that I found of it. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4471 I've also used one of these, and it was so awesome, I wore it out, and need to get a new one!!! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3331 You kinda have to play around with toys (pun intended), cuz what gets one gal off, may not do it for another. Learning your body is key. Also, he's right, you need to not work so hard at it. Maybe just play with yourself, feeling yourself, learning what you like and what you don't. It won't happen overnight. Get comfortable with your body. Do things that you've wondered about, like maybe putting a finger up your anus, or licking your own nipples (if you can do that). Don't worry about facial expressions, if you look fat, or what bills you are going to pay tomorrow. Just concentrate on your body. It's one of the times that you can be selfish for yourself, and it's OK to do that!! This is the link to the vibrator and massager section. These are different from dildos. Dildos represent a male penis, usually molded after a real one. Complete with veins and balls. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...TS&Category=532 I know it's hard to get an idea of what you may like just seeing these things on the WWW, so I suggest that you visit one or several adult shops near you, and look at the packages, feel the item. Price shop. I've found that this site is actually cheaper than going to the store and getting it, even with S&H. You avoid a 3rd party dealing with this site. Anyway, happy playing, and good luck!!

I have really started using my toys a bit more lately, and lemme tell ya, I got 2 from here that I LOVE!!! And I use them together!!! The Jessica Strobing G-Spot vibrator and the Hustler Rock-It clit stimulator. Let me just say OMFG!!!!

I guess I'm not up to the current fad in male body jewelry, cuz I've never heard of non-piercing body jewelry/plus for a male's genitalia, I am assuming that's where it is, genitals. My ex husband wasn't that great in bed, and he got a penis piercing, and cuz I am trying to think of the "term" for his piercing, I can't, but it wasn't a Prince Albert, just the scar of the foreskin, and he had just 2 little balls on either side of his bar. It helped, but by the time we had that done, the feelings were pretty much shot to hell anyway, so it didn't help that much. Plus he was a lil guy, but at least with the piercing, I felt a little bit more of it.

"Dry-Lube"=Oximoron!!

Oh yeah.......and to add to it, blindfolded!

How awesome for you!! Thanks for the review! I love reading them to not only get ideas for myself, but for friends as well!

Teaching forgiveness is one of the best things you can teach your children! *clap clap clap* for you being the bigger person!!