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I've actually done light to moderate bondage with a few of my partners. With my husband, we used thick rope used for rope halters (horse), and he tied me to the bed that was one of the tube metal framed ones that fold up to a couch. We broke the bed. I've used handcuffs, rope, nylons, silk ties (those I like the best), belts, and even a camera bag strap. Gotta get creative when the mood strikes!!

Having fun, and getting more and more comfortable with using toys, and relaxing, these will help you get more into the idea of toys as you get going with them. I too like a more firm clitorial stimulation. But can only achieve that by myself...so far. I have the Hustler Rocket one, and I LOVE that one!! And, shockingly enough, I got it when they were doing the free vibrator (which they are doing again BTW), and I got the Doc Johnson's one too, but I gave that one to a friend in need!! Proud of you!!

What a great story. Makes you wonder "what if"

Wow!! That was great!! And now my story seems so short!!

The flirtation started at a rollerskating rink. I was 27, single, and loving life! I went skating every Tuesday night at a big skating rink in Austin, TX. I had lots of friends, and had a blast. This one guy, whom I found out was 20, thought I was cute. There was MAJOR flirtation going on, lots of comments, touching, flirting, skating together, joking around, so on. Well, finally, being the brazen one that I am, I gave him my phone number, and told him to call me somenight. Well, on a Friday night, he did just that. He said that he wanted to get together, but had to work, so I told him I'd meet him at his work, when he got off, and then we could go from there. But, when he got out, it was midnight, so we just decided to order some pizza, watch a movie, at his place. This young stud could've been in GQ magazine! He had the PERFECT "V" shaped body. Nice broad shoulders, tiny hips and slightly bubble-butt, nice strong arms and legs, dirty blonde hair, hazel eyes. Tattoos on his arms and back. Not "gross" tattoos (bloody, or skulls, that stuff), but tattoos that were well done, and well placed. Very nice voice too. For being so young, he spoke very well. Not too polite, but not swearing all over the place, or incorrect grammar. Being from Alabama, he also had that southern twang I love so much. We sat on his love seat, watching a small tv that he had, eating some pizza, sitting very close. I loved just the feel of him sitting next to me. He leaned against me a bit, and put his head on my shoulder....mmmmm, nice. He smelled of Tommy Hilfger colonge. Verrrrry nice!! He turned to me, and looked into my eyes *melt* then kissed me. Gentle at first, but then he deepened it. I groaned, and let him do his tongue magic. Gawd that boy could kiss!!! Very sensual. He started rubbing my neck, then worked his way down my waist, carressing my waist, and then slowly, slowly, up my shirt. I didn't stop him, in fact I kind of moved forward towards his large, strong hands. I was rubbing his neck, then his shoulders, moving down that perfect body of his. Rubbing his arms, sides, waist, and since he was leaning into me, I was able to gently massage his butt too. One of us groaned now and again. We broke our deep kissing after a while, and he took off my top, admiring my 36C breasts and flat tummy. His smoldering gaze devoring me. Then he stood up, pulling me up with him. I could see from his tight jeans that he was more than a little turned on. He grabbed my tight ass, and kneaded that oh so gently, but firmly as well. I practically ripped his t-shirt off! I gazed at his perfectly shaped pecs, and 6 pack stomach! He was a god! And I told him so!! He took me by the hand, and led me to his bed. He had black bedding, and the piece de' resistance was the 2 full length mirrors that were his closet doors! He sat down on the bed first, then pulled me down to him. We stroked each other, for what seemed like hours, then, somehow, we were both naked. To this day, I am still not sure how that happened. We started heavy petting, getting braver and braver, as the shyness wore away. His tongue tickled my neck, breasts, tummy, and finally my wet cooch waiting for him. He did the tongue mambo!! OMG! He was firm, yet gentle. I kneaded his shoulders, groaning and moaning in appreciation. I came several times. I finally couldn't stand it anymore! I had to feel him inside of me. I did have enough of my non-primal self available to ask if he had protection (if not, I had some in my purse-safety first ya know!!), he got up, went and got the condom, slipped it on ever so quickly, and deep kissed me. He slid into my dripping snatch, slowly, slowly, and buried his head into my hair, exhaling as he did the first time. I shuddered. He filled me so well, and he was shaped very well and was well-endowed. We both started moving together in unison. I rose to meet his thrusts each time. We had perfect rythm together. Every so often we'd both watch us having sex in those 2 awesome mirrors of his. That is SUCH a big turn on!! I was in great shape at that time of my life, and loved having the body I did. Very fit, very toned. And I could tell that he appreciated that very much. It was like he was paying homage to my body. He wasn't in it just for his nut, lemme tell ya!! He caressed me and looked into my eyes several times during our steamy sex session!! Having a strong male gaze into your eyes, knowing that you are all he is seeing, is just a big turn on for me. He slowed down several times, so as not to blow too soon. After about an hour, and several orgasms for me, he came. After, we lay on his bed, panting. We had body parts tangled everywhere. He got up, disposed of the well used condom, came in, and appreciatively told me that that was wonderful, and gave me a back rub!! Yum. Right back at ya babe! He lay back down, and after about a half hour of resting, he was raring to go once again!!! It was almost animalistic, the way we just did it over and over again! We made love 4 more times that night!! And they weren't quickies either! I slept there, sort of, which was something I rarely did (having roommates at home that worried about me and all). The next morning, he got up oh so quietly, took a shower, came in and made love to me again, slowly, tenderly, and then got dressed and went to work. I stayed there for about an hour, took a well deserved shower, and left. I left a note saying "Thanks for the wonderful night. Look forward to the next time!!" We had about a month long fling, not wanting to commit since both of us enjoyed the single life. Each time I went over there, I rarely got any sleep, went to work very happily sore. My coworkers knew when I had seen him, and called him "Junior" since he was almost 8 yrs my junior. I sometimes regret not hanging in there a bit longer and trying to make a go of it with that boy. He was well worth the sleepless sore days and nights!!

Please enlighten us on what worked for you!! We'd love to read about your success!!!

A real penis doesn't vibarate?? Well, my hubby's does, but I have to take a frayed electrical cord and zap him up his ass with it, almost as good as a BOB!!!! I'm just kidding, BTW!! I saw some men cringing there!! Anyway, like was previously mentioned, there's no difference between sex with a man,and sex toys, except the vibrating part, and making sure that you and your toys are clean. Lots of women get hornier while pregnant and many men actually complain cuz they're not getting enough rest!! So using your BOBS may be a good thing for your hubby's stamina!!

There are several toys out there that are radio controlled, let hubby have the controls. Like bullets.... Most bullets come on a little cord, that you can discretely put in your pocket. Make sure to have your shirt covering where the cord comes out of your pants, or top of skirt. Otherwise, you may get questioned as to what that wire is doing there. Or, you could try Ben Wa Balls to put up inside you, and they will stimulate you when you walk, or even sit a certian way. Maybe have hubby watch you put them in, to tease the hell outta him!!! I'm thinking I need to invest in some BWBs myself.

Good luck!!!

Either we all need to get out more, or we're all extremely creative. I am hoping the latter!!

Does it disappear completely, or come in and out, like the muscle spasming?

Do you think the Glass Dildo may have sabotaged the cleaning? That one has always been a slippery devil!! Especially the way the light reflects off of it, kinda like shifty eyes, KWIM? My deepest condolenses on your loss, and I hope the suspect is caught and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the Vibrators Penile Code!!

Plus, if your husband (and I am just going on what I've seen and heard before from others) didn't know he was getting your spots *aka faking* and you acted like he was, so as not to hurt his feelings. You can't blame him for that. If you've had other lovers and he is doing what is tried and worked on others, then it's up to YOU to tell him that what he's doing isn't cutting the mustard! But most male egos are fragile things, so this must be done gently. Like moving his head, or shifting ever so slightly. If you feel like you're in heat, well, you're hitting your sexual peak as a woman, so you may very well be doing so. But, hubby isn't going to be able to do much for you until you know what does it for you too!!! So, get comfy, watch a porn, read a mag, take a bath, don't stress, relax, and happy exploring!!!

In all actuallity, Howard is a lawyer!! LOL But very in tune with women's bodies after years of "research". Now, for me, I have to be naked, relaxed, maybe read a porn magazine or even those adult letter magazines (I love those). LOts of clit stimulation. Now, for me, with my Hustler's Rock It Clit stimulator, http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4680 I like a firm round motion on my clit. During sex, not firm. When playing with myself, I also use a g-spot vibrator. One of my favs is one I got at an adult toy store. Its slim, but rounded at the top. This is the most similar one on this site that I found of it. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4471 I've also used one of these, and it was so awesome, I wore it out, and need to get a new one!!! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3331 You kinda have to play around with toys (pun intended), cuz what gets one gal off, may not do it for another. Learning your body is key. Also, he's right, you need to not work so hard at it. Maybe just play with yourself, feeling yourself, learning what you like and what you don't. It won't happen overnight. Get comfortable with your body. Do things that you've wondered about, like maybe putting a finger up your anus, or licking your own nipples (if you can do that). Don't worry about facial expressions, if you look fat, or what bills you are going to pay tomorrow. Just concentrate on your body. It's one of the times that you can be selfish for yourself, and it's OK to do that!! This is the link to the vibrator and massager section. These are different from dildos. Dildos represent a male penis, usually molded after a real one. Complete with veins and balls. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...TS&Category=532 I know it's hard to get an idea of what you may like just seeing these things on the WWW, so I suggest that you visit one or several adult shops near you, and look at the packages, feel the item. Price shop. I've found that this site is actually cheaper than going to the store and getting it, even with S&H. You avoid a 3rd party dealing with this site. Anyway, happy playing, and good luck!!

I have really started using my toys a bit more lately, and lemme tell ya, I got 2 from here that I LOVE!!! And I use them together!!! The Jessica Strobing G-Spot vibrator and the Hustler Rock-It clit stimulator. Let me just say OMFG!!!!

I guess I'm not up to the current fad in male body jewelry, cuz I've never heard of non-piercing body jewelry/plus for a male's genitalia, I am assuming that's where it is, genitals. My ex husband wasn't that great in bed, and he got a penis piercing, and cuz I am trying to think of the "term" for his piercing, I can't, but it wasn't a Prince Albert, just the scar of the foreskin, and he had just 2 little balls on either side of his bar. It helped, but by the time we had that done, the feelings were pretty much shot to hell anyway, so it didn't help that much. Plus he was a lil guy, but at least with the piercing, I felt a little bit more of it.

"Dry-Lube"=Oximoron!!

Oh yeah.......and to add to it, blindfolded!

How awesome for you!! Thanks for the review! I love reading them to not only get ideas for myself, but for friends as well!

Teaching forgiveness is one of the best things you can teach your children! *clap clap clap* for you being the bigger person!!

This koala bear goes to NYC on vacation. It's his first time in the "big city" and wants to experience something he never has before, so he finds himself a prostitute. After they are done their sexual romp, the prostitute holds out her hand for her money. The koala bear says, "why're you doing that?" The prostitute says, "Don't you know what I am?" "No" replied the koala. So the prostitute finds a dictionary, flips thru it, until she finds the word "PROSTITUTE" and hands it over to the koala. He reads: PROSTITUTE-A PERSON WHO SELLS SEX FOR MONEY. The koala asks her if she knew what HE was, and she said "No." So he flips thru, finds KOALA, gets up and walks out the door. Dumbfounded, she looks down into the dictionary to read: KOALA-SMALL FURRY ANIMAL THAT EATS BUSH AND LEAVES".

:lol: OK, here are some that I found!! *in TEXAS: Up to a felony charge can be levied for promoting the use of, or owning more than six dildos. (I'm in trouble! Mikalya1 would be shot, or exorcised!! LOL-luv ya Mik) *In the quiet town of Connorsville, Wisconsin, it's illegal for a man to shoot off a gun when his female partner has an orgasm. *It's against the law in Willowdale, Oregon, for a husband to curse during sex. *In Oblong, Illinois, it's punishable by law to make love while hunting or fishing on your wedding day. *No man is allowed to make love to his wife with the smell of garlic, onions or sardines on his breath in Alexandria, Minnesota. If his wife so requests, law mandates that he must brush his teeth. *Warn your hubby that after lovemaking in Ames, Iowa, he isn't allowed to take more than three gulps of beer while lying in bed with you, or holding you in his arms. * In NYC, A fine of $25 can be levied for flirting. This old law specifically prohibits men from turning around on any city street and looking "at a woman in that way." A second conviction for a crime of this magnitude calls for the violating male to be forced to wear a "pair of horse-blinders" wherever and whenever he goes outside for a stroll. *Bozeman, Montana, has a law that bans all sexual activity between members of the opposite sex in the front yard of a home after sundown - if they're nude. (Apparently, if you wear socks, you're safe from the law!) *In hotels in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, every room is required to have twin beds. And the beds must always be a minimum of two feet apart when a couple rents a room for only one night. And it's illegal to make love on the floor between the beds! *An ordinance in Newcastle, Wyoming, specifically bans couples from having sex while standing inside a store's walk-in meat freezer! *In Norfolk, Virginia, a woman can't go out without wearing a corset. (There was a civil-service job -- for men only -- called a corset inspector.) *However, in Merryville, Missouri, women are prohibited from wearing corsets because "the privilege of admiring the curvaceous, unencumbered body of a young woman should not be denied to the normal, red-blooded American male." *It's safe to make love while parked in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. Police officers aren't allowed to walk up and knock on the window. Any suspicious officer who thinks that sex is taking place must drive up from behind, honk his horn three times and wait approximately two minutes before getting out of his car in investigate. *Another law in Helena, Montana, mandates that a woman can't dance on a table in a saloon or bar unless she has on at least three pounds, two ounces of clothing. *Lovers in Liberty Corner, New Jersey, should avoid satisfying their lustful urges in a parked car. If the horn accidentally sounds while they are frolicking behind the wheel, the couple can face a jail term. *In Carlsbad, New Mexico, it's legal for couples to have sex in a parked vehicle during their lunch break from work, as long as the car or van has drawn curtains to stop strangers from peeking in. *A Florida sex law: If you're a single, divorced or widowed woman, you can't parachute on Sunday afternoons. *Women aren't allowed to wear patent-leather shoes in Cleveland, Ohio - a man might see the reflection of something "he oughtn't!" *No woman may have sex with a man while riding in an ambulance within the boundaries of Tremonton, Utah. If caught, the woman can be charged with a sexual misdemeanor and "her name is to be published in the local newspaper." The man isn't charged nor is his name revealed!

I had to read this topic, it piqued my interest. As far as Phoenix's comment, most adult toys are sold "as novelty only" just so they can't be sued for improper usage, so as far as the packaging telling you how deep or whatnot, it won't state on there. The best way to get an idea of what you may like, and I hate saying this, cuz I LOVE this site!! But the best thing to do is to go to your local adult store, and look at the items that they have. Maybe get an idea of lengths and sizes, buy there or come back on here and see what TooTimid has. They have a HUGE selection of everything, so I'm sure you'll find what you need here too. Like I've mentioned before, this site is extremely reasonable with their prices, even with S&H, so far, this site is the best bang for your buck (pun intended here).

Like, I just found out, here in TX, that if caught, I could be fined for indecency for having more than 6 sex toys. To have more "legally" I would have to get a seller's license!! I'm going to see if I can find more!

I LOVE my Jessica's strobing G-spot one. I love Jessica!! And I love these reviews. Helpful, honest, and let's be frank here, very steamy!! Guess here's another one. Y'all are gonna break my wallet!!