Grace9202

Dew Man, I'm familiar with the option of "scrolling" past content i don't want to see. But I'd rather not have to scroll past a response directed at me.

Ok now what about electric razor or clippers? I wouldn't bother at all except a full bush isn't comfortable. I don't want to shave bare--just trim short! Any recs?

Hey!!! Fellow autist! Hello!!

Oh I know folks here would love to see them! I'm not one to show off for random people. But who knows? I might change my mind at some point!

I think people with scars are sexy, but the scars themselves may be sexy, ugly, or a non-issue altogether. You lived life, maybe even survived something. I'd want to know the stories behind them. To me, they're just interesting trivia from your life.

Mine is very specific. I love showing off my body to my partner and my casual sexting playmate. It turns me on knowing he's turned on by what he sees. I *started* sexting in the first place to help me with my body confidence. I still don't like what I see in a full length mirror, but I fully understand that it's super easy to find a man who loves the view. In theory I'd like showing off my body to other people, but I'd have to be comfortable with them first, so that precludes random acts of exhibitionism. And as for sexual acts where I could get caught.... yeah if I knew the others were consenting to see my performance, then that would be very exciting! But again, that precludes random public sex (or other sexual acts).

Some things Iike about mine, some I don't. Don't like: boob sweat. They get in the way. Difficult to find bras that are comfortable and actually do the job. Uncomfortable when getting a chiropractic adjustment. Wish they were a little smaller. Like: I like how they look in slightly snug tops. I like the attention as long as I don't feel objectified. They kinda visually counteract my belly, so even though my ideal would be smaller, there's no way I'm going under the knife for that. (Plus, they get smaller with weight loss, while still being well-proportioned to the rest of my body. I'd much rather lose weight to get what I want!)

What gets me going: stories, especially well written porn-with-a-plot. Sometimes audio too, but it's easier to relax with written stuff. As for actual masturbation? That'll be my imagination, or sexting which may include audio, video, or pics. Or just, you know, wanting to get off, and focusing on the sensations rather than any inspirational material.

Eh none of these apply to me. My partner doesn't know I'm on here, but I'm not deliberately keeping it a secret, and I'm not crossing any established boundaries

Did it with my partner last night! We were discussing one of his fantasies, so naturally I got horny and asked if he'd like me to rub one out while on the phone, he's like well I'm not going to stop you, with this amused voice. He called me a good girl (praise kink!) and when it was obvious i was close, he said i got you, let go. Then afterward we got to chatting about this and that. Sometimes a phone call (with or without phone sex) is better than a video chat (with or without cyber sex). Last night was one of those times!

My partner and I have a D/s dynamic. Online for the foreseeable future. Of course there's the sexual part (he's usually directing me/making requests, and is often dominant during role-play) but there's also a non-sexual part to it. So I'm autistic, and that comes with executive dysfunction. The mental labor required to remember to even check my to-do list takes energy away from actually doing stuff, and that's only a small part of it. So, I let partner know each morning what my tasks are, and he rewards me for completing them before the end of his shift. The reward might be a pic or praise (praise kink here!). Basically, we use D/s to help me with basic adulting. He says the control makes him feel powerful; he sees it as a privilege, that I'm *choosing* to give up control to *him*. On occasion he'll need me to remind him about a task he needs to do, and of course I reward him appropriately. But he's better at adulting than I am so that doesn't happen every day. And when he gets into Dom Mode 🥵🥵🥵 Anyone else use D/s or other kink/dynamic for non-sexual purposes?