I hate to admit but I did have some FUN time with a female friend of mine 3 weeks ago. It was just oral on both ends and only about 30 minutes total. I know that is no excuse... me and my wife have been married 23 years and this is a first for me. she is haply married also. I know she was grooming me and all, I do feel like I was used for her satisfaction. My wife has a very very weak sex drive. In the 22 years she has only allowed me to have intercourse with her about 20 times, and that was at the beginning. She says with her tilted servic that it hurts her. She is so tight down there from years of not wanting intercourse. I went and bought her dilators set 2 months ago and printed off literature for her. It's still in the original packaging. Its just so frustrating when one has a 100 mile per hour sex drive and your partner has 20 mph..... We have so many toys that I have bought her, sexy lingerie, i talk sexy to her and tell her how much I love her... I am 49 and she is 71... its just frustrating...