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  1. Great Review!! This one sounds like it would be hot hot hot!!
  2. I want one!!! The real life looking blow ups look awesome, but the price tag on them OUCH!! I think it would be fun to add a doll to the bedroom.
  3. HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOWARD4570!!! Hope your birthday is filled with lots of love, and fun. Wishing you many more to come!!!
  4. Hi and Welcome to the Forum!!! My sister has had Fibromyalgia for many many years, she also has 3 children. I hope you don't mind but I did talk to her about your post. My sister is extremely sensative also, in fact she wears a little eletro pulsating wires with pads to help since her Fibromyalgia is so bad. I am sure you are very well informed on everything about, I just wanted to let you know the way she overcame some of her sensitivity. A little FYI to she uses toys to now. It took her awhile to get to the point in her sex life she is now. When she very first started using toys, she used low vibrating ones, or the multi-speed ones on low. She also stated that she didn't apply pressure to them when using them. She slowly worked herself up to it. Since she said when she first started that it was very uncomfortable, she would set her toy on the lowest possible speed and touch around that area, touch her thighs ect and slowly get closer to her vaginal area. This is something that you have to slowly work up to. I know this sounds like a repeat to what Mikayla said, but she is correct in saying you have to take it slow. If you got any toys that vibrate then set them on low, don't apply pressure to the toy or turn it up higher until you find your comfort zone. Good luck to you, and I wish you the best. Also it never hurts to ask your DR to for advice.
  5. Well I have had it said to me, and yes I believe them in fact we are stilll friends. I have also said it to one person in my life, and he still is the best I have ever had. Wow thinking about it.... damn..... He was dam good . See Tyger now you just made me think of a question to go with this post. If the person you are with now isn't the best, at times do you ever find yourself thinking of that person or fantasizing about him/her? I will admit that sometimes I do think about him from time to time and all the great sex we had, but heck he is also my best friend now to.
  6. I am slightly OCD about cleaniness, my husband would tell you I am severe. Everything has to be in its place, in fact my toys are even sorted by types. hehe I have a high sex drive, but I don't believe it is higher then anyone else's. I do believe I am just wired this way.
  7. nosleepnmesa

    Uncut

    I myself have been with a "uncut" man before. Did I think anything different of him, or did it shock me the answer to these questions is NO. To be perfectly honest with you it honestly didn't phase me at all. As far as did I find more pleasure in an uncut man then a cut man NO, not at all. My opinion is that if your partner and you are in a relationship and it is going to the sexual stage, I honestly don't understand why cut and uncut would make a differance. I know this topic as come up a few times. As far as what goes threw my mind when I see an uncut man, nothing I am to into the man I could really careless whether he is cut or not. I can tell you that since I am a shaver and have also been, it has never bothered or even crossed my mind in the past when I was going to have sex, I never thought once about what goes threw a mans mind seeing my pussy bald. Maybe this is one thing I just don't understand. Why worry about what others will think. If they care for you and love you then it shouldn't matter!
  8. Yes I have done it in the past!!! I found myself doing things that I haven't done before on cam etc.... I haven't done it since I have been married, but before yes I found that it caused me to become extremely aroused more then usual. I have also masturbated on cam and alot of other things. I will agree with Tyger if you are single then yes all is good, but if you are in a relationship in my eyes it is consider cheating.
  9. Happy Valentines Day to you to Tyger and everyone else here. Hope it is filled with love and a little fun. I know my husband is in for a surprise when he gets home
  10. I have also recorded my husband and I having sex, in the past. We both found it to be a huge turn on for us both. In fact watching it while having another session was very fun. We had talked about it of course before hand. Do we still have it the answer to that is no. We use to record ourselves all the time, watch it during a next session and then record over it. Since the children though we haven't done it, since we use the recorder alot for video footage of our children, and I would sure hate for it to end up in the wrong hands. Although at times we still think about doing it and alot of our adult videos are kept with our toys. Trust and communication are the best tools in the bedroom to try new things. Talk with your boyfriend about your feelings and concearns. Good Luck and keep us all posted.
  11. Tyger pretty well said it all I just wanted to add to that their is a article that is very informational on this subject. I myself like both roles but at times I LOVE to be the sub, we have a save word and although I have yet to have to use it, I have been tested almost to my limit. It is a role playing type situtation and it gets me hot knowing that he gets extremely hot by having control. I like the restraints and blindfolds etc. To be sub you need to stay in that role and if at anytime you begin to feel uncomfortable use your save word. There must be trust and communication in this type of fun. Here is a link to the article http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/sex_...ve_behavior.htm http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/sex_...ndage_guide.htm Happy playing!!
  12. Hi and Welcome to the Forum. Tyger is correct, for a threesome it takes a very strong, trustworthly relationship. Yes people fantasize about them all the time. I myself have been in a few, but it has been a long time ago. The aftermath can be shocking. I would highly recommend to you to also read Mikaylas article written on this very subject. There are alot of disease's out there so of course always be save. You should really I think sit down after you have read Mikayla's aritcle on it and write out the things that you feel are good about it and the things that this may cause. I know from personal experiance that after the fact, it can cause questions is in mind exsample, I wonder if he enjoyed her more then me? Does he think she is better at this or that? This are just a few. Sometimes fantasy is better left that way. You all really need to sit down togeather and read the article and talk about it to make sure your relationship can handle it. Here is the link to her article!! http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/misc/06/threesomes.htm Hope this helps and please keep us informed since we love to hear updates.
  13. I saw this product when it posted and was extremely curious about. Great Review, and looks like since the hubby owes me a few new toys this one is on the top of the list.
  14. This product is Fantastic. When I opened my latest box from Tootimid and saw this my mind starting wondering. I have other dongs and I will admit that although I am a vibrator type girl, at times I really rather have a dong. Doc Johnson makes this product, a number one leader in couple’s enhancement products. This new line is called, "Radiant Gems." I opened the package to find that it did have a very slight cherry scent to it, but the new “toy” smell seemed to overpower the cherry smell. I washed it in a little antibacterial soap and water, and the new “toy” smell went away and I was left with the slight cherry smell. This dong is not only slim, but also long, and has veins that go around the entire shaft. It is made of the new Silagel product; so make sure that you don’t use a silicone lube on this product, since there is some silicone in it. The package states that it is antibacterial, non-toxic, and also latex free, a big plus in my book. I will tell you that this product is not very firm, it is flexible when I took it out of the package it bent right in half, which made me a little more skeptical on if it would deliver the pleasure I was looking for. I grabbed some lube, and a bullet and headed to the living room. I decided to start a movie that I have been wanting to see. I started off with my bullet, once I got myself worked up enough; I applied a little lube to my new toy. I slowly inserted it, and although it is flexible, insert was smooth, with a nice silky feel. The veins add just the perfect touch; I could feel every one of them. Although I did have a bullet on my clit, the feel of this dong is amazing, and did bring me to climax a few times. I will say that with this product I was highly impressed and since it is flexible it did make my playtime a little easier. I normally like my toys to be a little firmer but this product was just firm enough. So if you like them a little slim, long, and veined this is a perfect product. Happy Playing!!! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5277
  15. Well I am sure into it... I actually have taken my husband to a strip club, it wasn't your average ones either. If there is such a thing it was your "higher class" strip club. Heck the cover charge just to get in is 40 dollars per person, the only types of drinks you can their were soda, tea, and water since it was a full nude club. The women were amazing and yes in fact I got a lap dance to, well there they are couch type dances! As far as a pole, hehe I have stolen a pole of my children gym set outside and brought it into the room, and have used it, of course I have also charged my hubby for a lap dance, and if he didn't have the money, well no lap dance for him, and he better tip me to or punishment later. hehe I will have to find that site now where they carry them and see how much they are, can they be taken down to? If not I am sure my husband can come up with something.
  16. Well I am sure into it... I actually have taken my husband to a strip club, it wasn't your average ones either. If there is such a thing it was your "higher class" strip club. Heck the cover charge just to get in is 40 dollars per person, the only types of drinks you can their were soda, tea, and water since it was a full nude club. The women were amazing and yes in fact I got a lap dance to, well there they are couch type dances! As far as a pole, hehe I have stolen a pole of my children gym set outside and brought it into the room, and have used it, of course I have also charged my hubby for a lap dance, and if he didn't have the money, well no lap dance for him, and he better tip me to or punishment later. hehe I will have to find that site now where they carry them and see how much they are, can they be taken down to? If not I am sure my husband can come up with something.
  17. Great job Mikayla!!!!!!!! I am going to make my husband read it!!
  18. The gutter ball ball comment got me laughing great review Tyger!
  19. Welcome to the Forum! My first suggestion would be to check out all the toy reviews, just click the toy review tab above. As far as being to hard, I would recommend checking out the gel vibes and even the new Silagel vibes. The Gel vibes are a little more flexible but still firm enough, Silacone vibes are also very smooth and sleek, I would also recommend the cyberskin type vibes to. If you are looking for something with more flexiblity though I would recommend the Gel type vibes. There are alot here to choose from, start with the toy review section and read some of the reviews there. Hope this helps you some!! Good luck!
  20. Let me start by saying, when I saw this vibe in my latest box from Tootimid. I thought to myself how cute! I know that sounds a little odd, a vibrator that is cute. I was so excited that I had to play with this product alone. I opened the package to find that this product has no smell to it at all, but was also very smooth, and silky, with little ripples going down it. The great thing is that it also comes with its own carrying case. I washed the toy with some antibacterial soap and water and grab 1 AA battery. I insert the battery and turned it on. I noticed that this toy is VERY quiet, which is great for a little alone time during the day. The package also stated it is waterproof. I opened the carrying case to see how well this vibe sat in it; there is a little holder inside the case that prevents the vibe from moving all over. Time to test this little guy out. I grabbed some lube and headed to the bathtub. At the base of this vibe is a really simple one-finger dial to control the speed. I began with it on my clit; on low the vibe sure didn't provide enough stimulation for me, so I decided to turn it up. I was immediately impressed with the vibrations now, not only was this very quiet but it does provided what I will say a medium type vibration. I then inserted it, the insertion was smooth. WOW although this little guy is small I could feel every ripple on it. I teased myself by playing with dial. This product sure did deliver more then I thought it would, it brought me to have an orgasm within a few minutes. This is a wonderful product in my book. Since it does have its own carrying case and is small I feel this toy would not only be great to travel with, but is not intimidating at all. I would recommend this product to beginners and the advance players. Size really doesn't matter sometimes! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5267
  21. Hey 2Twisted, this forum doesn't judge and we all are aware of the fact "to each their own" per say. These are of course our opinion on things, they are not ment to judge others or anything else they are our thoughts and feelings. As far as the whole 7yr old thing as you say. I am a mother and I was also 7 before to . When I was 7 though the thought of sex and all of that was far from my mind, so you need to try to understand why we all find it extremely hard to believe that nothing traumatic happened, I will leave it at though. I do have one question for you if I may ask, this isn't ment to offend you are anything else, and I am sure I could prolly answer it myself but anyway I have to ask. Do you both have a save word that you use when something gets a little to out of control? Also what would you tell your children if they happened to see the cuts or bruises? I am mean really the whole thing of oh I fell or I accidently cut myself I am sure would get old them. I don't know how old your childre/child is but they do grow up and I am sure will catch on and ask questions. This is just curiosity questions. I hope I am not offending you in anyway it is not ment to at all. Take care!
  22. Everyone is correct antibacterial soap and warm water are the best to clean your toys. I wash the toy after every use and let it air dry before putting it away. Before each use and after I wash my toys.
  23. 2twisted, well I am going to HIGHLY agree with the other posters here, and I am really shocked that you would allow someone to do that to you. I like BDSM, spankings etc.. I also have my limit though. I would not allow anyone to cut me, you know I have seen and researched alot of information regarding people that cut either others or themselves to find pleasure. Alot of the times this is because the pain and hurt that they feel inside themselves is to much to handle and this is a way for them to release it. I believe that sex, is adult fun but when it gets to cutting and things of that nature I tend to get a little concearned, I honestly believe that Mikayla has really said it all, and in a wonderful way to. I believe that you both really need to seek some help before someone really gets hurt. What if your artery gets cut?? You end up seeking medical attention, what would you tell them, I sure can see alot of different outcomes here, and in fact are very scarey. BDSM is a role of DOM and SUB with a safe word in case one person gets a little uncomfortable. I will admit at times I enjoy a little rough sex and it can be loads of fun, but I would not allow anyone to cause me pain in the sense of cutting me etc.. Please seek some help with what I believe are underlining issues in this. I really can't say much more Mikayla has said it so well, and has hit all the thoughts that have come to my mind regarding this issue. I wish you the best and please talk to someone!!!Take care!
  24. I wrote a review on the John Holmes "big boy" and it is BIG. I enjoyed it fully since I sometimes like the full feeling now as far as the length, it was a little to much but the girth was great, once I was ready. Here is the link to it. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=3129 T
  25. LMAO MIkayla, You took the words right out of his mouth. He did say, "what are you doing changing diapers up here, have another child I didn't know about!!!!! I just could not put that in the review without laughing so hard.
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