I am going to have to fully agree with Tyger she is absolutely correct. Spit drys things out, and being this is going to be your first time, I would recommend lube as well regardless. Your right there are a bunch of lubes to choose from, I personally LOVE the Tootimids lube, it is non-staining, non-greasy just a extremely great lube, that last a long time and goes a long way. Astroglide is another great lube as well. Look around and see what you feel would be best for you. Wishing you the best!!