Valntyn

Ironically, I JUST posted a picture on a photography forum I belong to, for a 'photographers post yourself' day theme, and it was of me in this costume. It was at your party, actually, in 1992(?), I was dressed as a vampiress. Homemade dress was low-cut in the front, "knockers a'plenty," and it had a wide, tight belt to help emphasize my (then much thinner) waistline and my (always too big) breasts. It's fun to feel sexy -- even when you look dead. *snicker*

On me, my preference is long. I think they make my fingers look longer and more elegant. Nails are one thing I always look at on a woman. It doesn't really matter to me if they're long or short; what matters is if they're well taken care of. If they're all even, pretty (polished or not, doesn't matter), etc., it's a total turn-on. If they're all odd-lengthed, bitten off, hang-nailed and paint chipping... yuckeroo.

Healing thoughts your way, dear Kat. I'm so sorry for your loss. Oddly, I just looked up the thread about your son the other day to see if there were any updates...

Holy shocker!! Katprr, you can't leave us! Well, you can, obviously, but I sure hope you don't!! I love your reviews; I always find them very helpful and a great read and I quite often write a reply to tell you that. I've even told my husband in play that I wanna be like you when I grow up. Hehe. I really, really hope the actions of one person don't cause you to leave. Hopefully you'll take Rob up on his offer and talk with him and get everything situated. If not... .. take care, girl.

Meow! definitely a fantastic fantasy, DLN! Here's to hoping your dreams come true! I love Mikayla's suggestion of the double dong, too -- definitely more personal and erotic, in my opinion. Maybe that could be a 'next step' after tongue and dildo play! Good luck... or at least, happy daydreaming!

Erotic short stories -- what can I say, I love to read! Hehe Otherwise, my imagination.

I was seventeen; he was a couple years older... military man... charmed me right off my feet (literally). After a while of, "Yes, I'll be waiting with bated breath until the next time you have time for me!" I realized how silly-in-love I was, what a jerk HE was, and that he was not only sleeping also with my best friend, but HER girlfriend (often at the same time), and also half the female population of a major city nearby! Ah, growing up. My husband and I saw him across the local shopping market a couple months ago, though... *giggle* ... and he had an arm in a sling. I have to say.. as horrible as it sounds... a part of me was giddy at that sight!

Well, damn, hon, that happened quick -- guess you can ignore my 'helpful advice' when you get my letter. *hugs* I'm sorry. He was a beautiful baby and had a good, loved life.

I hope I've told you all these years that I love having you as my friend. *giggle* Thanks, girl.

My eyes. Side note: bondagejunkie, I LOVE your new avatar!

This was the first toy we'd ever bought and I'm so glad we did! It was non-intimidating (so I wouldn't scare hubby from trying toys), pretty (PINK! GLITTER!!), and verrrrry nice feeling. Love thy bullet! *giggle*

What can I say but, "Ditto, ditto, ditto, ditto and... what was it.... oh yah.. DITTO."

Well, my feeling is that it's supposed to be a toy for FUN, so why not have it a FUN COLOR?! I love pulling my 'little' wicker basket out from under the bed and seeing all the pinks and blues and greens just screaming to make me scream! Hehe!

Awesome, Rob - big thanks!

I've gotta say I definitely agree with you! I'd read Mikayla's and others' posts about past stories that I knew had to only be here long before I joined in and was always interested in reading them. Now I know what all the hoopla was about QuietGuy's stories! Great to see this addition to the threads!

We've only tried a few lubes so far (Like it? Use it!): Astroglide, TooTimid's Pleasure Gel and WET! Cherry Flavored lubricant. Astroglide is fantastic, but we'll also probably always have the other two in our toy box. TT's Pleasure Gel has no taste to it, compared to Astroglide's slight taste (which I don't care for) and WET! has a great, fun taste to it.

Awww, a shame I haven't been around -- this game sounds AWEsome!! Hopefully another is played in the future. Hubby and I are in the healing end of our poison ivy (our 'inconvenient places' to have it are cleared finally!) and we haven't been able to keep our hands off one another after a long couple/few weeks. I'll have to keep a mental note of these tasks and 'catch up' out-of-game. Great posts, everyone!

I'm sure others may have great advice to offer you, but one thing struck me obvious when I was reading your post... You stated that the two of you were trying to conceive. Often, couples trying to conceive get in a rutt (no pun intended) where sex is a task -- "we've gotta have sex if we're gonna have a baby." Wham, bam, wait to see if you're pregnant. No? Do it again. Don't forget that sex is still supposed to be fun, having children should be fun, and definitely the practice before getting pregnant should be fun! I'm not sure how long you've been trying, or if you're having to follow temperature charts (etc.), or if this is even the issue, but my suggestion is to sit down with your hubby - away from the bedroom - and talk about this. First find out if this is the reason for his sexual/attitudnal changes... see if there's something else bothering him. Then maybe ask him out on a date - doesn't matter if you leave the house or not - watch a movie, give each other back or foot rubs, talk... just do things to relax and tend to each other. Get back into the reason you two got together in the first place... then hopefully things will fall into place from there. Good luck and enjoy. Also, stick with that gut instinct - don't stray. Start by talking to try to find a solution to this problem. Adding to the situation in the two ways you mentioned (adding a third party to try to solve the problem or going elsewhere) usually don't help solve the problem. And P.S. You're not a "freak." Foreplay is the best part of sex, in my opinion. Kisses, teasing touches, orgasms from oral... damn, when's MY husband get home?!

*laughlaughlaugh* Katprr.. oh my gosh, too funny.

*laugh* Yah, the boy does know better -- and was very well prepared with long sleeves, pants, socks, etc. in the very hot weather. But, sometimes things happen, regardless of how quickly the shower gets taken, etc. His reactions are systemic, meaning he doesn't just get it where the plant touches him -- he gets it all over his body and he gets it BAD. Oh, and the "unwanted places" are on both of us, dear, so we're BOTH out of commission for a while.

"So, Valntyn... Did you try again? Going over this post, I read that your first go-round was less than stellar... did you persist? Or send it to the island of unwanted sextoys?" Sadly, we haven't yet re-tried it. My husband and I got poison ivy (AGAIN).. and this time, in some VERY unwanted places (*sob*), so we're kinda "out-of-commission" for a few weeks. I'll letcha know! Thanks for asking.

Congratulations, everyone!!

I've been trying to think up an answer for this, one, too, since I saw the topic posted, and all I can come up with is the Mikayla-Howard combination, because it'd be educational! *chuckle* oOoH! THAT'S how that's done!!

*laugh* Hrnychick! Love the battery comment! I've definitely gotta pick my husband! I can get off quite a few times from a vibrator, but I could cum all night long from my husband's tongue talents!

The 'Master Teacher' was the first one I saw, actually! Love the changes.