Valntyn

And now THAT'S stuck in my head... *laughing*

Well said! *applause* My better half, Thurisas, is an active member. I'll toss his name in as #8 cuz I doubt he's caught-up yet from hell-week at work.

A few of us were talking about our crafts last night in chat & I thought I'd post a few of the quilts I've made over the years. This is the first one I ever made, for my mum For a guy friend who LURVES purple (the back has glow-in-the-dark skeletons, hehe) Made for Tyger Commissioned as a gift for a friend's friend Lap quilt for my Grampa (can't see the hand-stitching, but there are visible patterns in the checkered-cloth areas) Lap quilt for my grandmother I have a bunch of quilt tops "in the works" (Just about every quilter does! Start one... see a new pattern... GOTTA start that one! *laugh*), but my two main ones are a King sized scrap quilt for Thurisas (hubby) and this lap quilt for me... Top, with border Close-up of the hand-stitching Thanks for looking.

OMG...

Aw, that sucks it didn't work well for you. Oh well, with all the wonderful toys you DO have, I'm SURE something made up for it.

*laughing* Nice catch phrase! Hehe!

Hurrah for you!!! Small IS the way to start. Take your time, use LOTS (and lots and lots and lots) of lube. Even if you think you have enough, squirt some more! If you have pain, stop and try again later or another time. BREATHE. Your body's used to things going out and wants to reject anything going in. Most of all, have fun!

Oh my gosh!! I have a sensitive gag reflex too & it keeps me from deep throating my hubby too much/often -- I have to giggle at myself, cuz I'll be trying... and then I'll "heave" just a little bit (you know, that jerk your body does?) and I always wonder if he notices. And no, honey, you DON'T have to answer that!! *rofl* I'll get there someday, I hope! I'm SO glad you two were able to find humor in the situation and continue on!

ice cream!

I can't wait to get miiiinnneeee!! No rush.. just excited! :)

Hurrah! I'm very glad you got the courage to talk about it. I don't think it naive in my thinking that these feelings and thoughts you had needed to GET OUT in the open. Otherwise, if not discussed, they'd just have festered, getting worse and worse. Now, at least, you have answers for this situation. You can feel better about it (which it sounds like you do) and maybe use it for other troubles brewing in your mind. *hugs*

You mean... *wimper* ... there are people who DON'T think she's one of the sexiest women alive?!?!? *faint* Can't.. be...

You're not communicating it wrong, but the fact of the matter is, you still feel hurt by it. Whether he did it on purpose, did it by accident, or it's purely your interpretation of it, you still feel bad, and that needs to be discussed.

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Please, please, though, try to work yourself toward having the nerve to talk to him about this soon. It can start as simple as, "I'm sure you didn't mean it as laughing AT me the other night, but I felt like you were and that hurt my feelings." That way you're not pointing fingers, but you're gently letting him know that he did hurt your feelings and you can start talking from there. One step forward, two steps back... unfortunately that's how the simplest set-back to our emotions and self-being happens. *warm embrace*

Everyone has posted such wonderful posts to you, hot, but this one made me smile the most cuz it was what I was going to say! *laugh* Sometimes, the only way to start getting over that hump (no pun intended) is just to DO IT. I'm overweight. I have health problems that don't help the situation either. I also have a mother who likes to remind me I'm not a skinny woman (even though she's bigger than me). After years and years of looking in the mirror and noting my BEAUTIES instead of my FLAWS, I STILL don't LOVE my body, but I'm much happier with it. I'm not trying to turn this into a "me" post, just trying to show you you're not alone and it takes a loooong time to get through that thought process. But once you get your hubby alone in your bedroom and the two of you can be together as you haven't been able to be for so long, just drop your clothes to the floor, strike a silly pose to get yourself laughing and comfortable with yourself, even for that moment, then pounce on him and let him remind you how he sees you.

Yes and no... while I haven't anything "sexy" in my wardrobe, I find if I wear one of my husband's t-shirts (which are just a TOUCH too tight around my boobs) or his bathrobe (left open to just give a suggestion of what's beneath), he goes all-out ga-ga over me. So I do it intentionally... a lot. TPBM playfully grabs their partner's tush whenever they get the chance.

*in her best announcer voice* Aaaaaand they're off! Hands are flyin' everywhere today, folks, keep up if you can... Thurisas' hand rounds the corner... AND THERE GOES 2HOT deftly slipping her hand around to... Gentlemen, cover your ladies eyes! Things.. are.. getting... HOT!

That IS a sweet picture! Thanks for sharing with us!

I was before, so I tried something new this time... scroll up a bit to find one of her posts, then click on her name. In the drop down menu, go to her profile. In the profile, click the Gallery tab. Should get you to some pretty-colored bedroom pictures.

Looking great!!

Love the bridge and the flowers.

Welcome to TooTimid!

Methinks the lady (tries to) protest too much!

I get an error message... I wanna see! I wanna see!

Welcome!