AndreaPurple

Ditto! I am also learning a lot here, it's so great that this place exsists, our sex lives are so important and this a great place to find out how to get it just right! I love it! Thank you. As a matter of fact I just learned here that I've had a G spot O, it just happened the other night and the next day and the next day and probably tomorrow, i could go on, but i'll spare you. I am pretty sure it's the new meds i'm on! I think i'm going to have to change my name!

Thank you all for you help! I appreciate it.

Howard, Thank you for your concern. I have looked into the side effects of the Wellbutrin and sexual side effects are listed under "uncommon" side effects, so I am aware of it. And since my sex life is one of the main things I am trying to work on, if it is effected negatively, trust me, I will not continue this drug. My sex life is very important to me, I will not jeopardize it. The reason I believe that the ADD is the cause of my problems with orgasm is my lack of focus, my mind wonders, I can't concentrate or stay focused on the task sometimes. Which is one of the major things that comes from the ADD. I have been working very hard at the whole orgasm thing, it's how I ended up here in the first place and why I got vibrators. They help but sometimes even they aren't enough.

Can anyone help me find a good website for sexy costumes, stuff like school girl, cheerleader, naughty nurse, things of that nature. I've looked on line but haven't come across anything really great yet, so if someone knows of a site, I'd love to know about it. I also have a question for anyone who may have bought clothing like this online. I am worried about size, I'm afraid they will be too big on me. I am not bragging ladies, but I am tiny, extra small on the bottom, small on the top and I have trouble finding stuff small enough for me on the bottom. And a lot of the stuff I've seen has sizes like sm/med or one size fits all, so I am nervous that I will order something and it will arrive and it will be too big. Thanks.

Ok, so I don't really have much help to give, but it's funny to me that I came across this today since I just took my very first Wellbutrin today. So since I just started taking it today I don't have a lot of input yet but I didn't know if it would help you if I told you in a week or 2 what's happening with my status. I have had lots of difficulty with orgasm myself(in case you weren't sure by the name) and I am now convinced it is the fact that I have ADD. i was only diagnosed with it recently and just now getting meds for it. So I dont know anything about Prozac, but if you like I will fill you in later about how I do with Wellbutrin.

Ok, never thought I'd ever tell this to anyone but.......... my electric toothbrush! between the movement of the brush and vibration, it got me off in no time! And I wasn't that young when I discovered it. DAMN, I WISH!!!!!!!!

True! (seriously, is there someone who doesnt?) The person below me enjoys being on top

Well I am definitely much less challenged now!!!!!!

Ok, so it finally arrived, better late then never! And this one was definitely worth the wait!! I got the Doc Johnson - Velvet Touch Vibe - 7" (in purple, my favorite color). Ya know there are times when you have all the time in the world and you can just lay there and play for an hour or whatever. And then there are times when you just dont have all that time but ya just really need a quick release. Well this vibe is perfect for either. The first time I used it was a couple days ago, I was solo. Well I didn't have much time, just was really, really wanting to try it out so I decided to give it a go. OMG, it was unbelievable, it did the job in time at all, it was great, I don't think I have ever cum so fast in my life. Then last night hubby and I took it out and this time there was plenty of time, kids were sound asleep, it was late and we had time to play, and play we did!! I wont go into detail, but it all ended with me on top of him and we both had smiles on our faces! Thanks Doc Johnson!!! I just might have to get another velvet touch vibe as a back up, so that I will never, ever be without one!

True!! The person below likes to be watched masterbating

Ok, so after reading what Mikayla and Katprr went through with their duals the first time I decided to just try one last time. So I loaded the batteries and like magic it came to life!!!!!! I was so excited, but unfortunately I didn't have time to take it for a test drive at the time, as I have 3 little ones all under the age of 6 and I couldn't leave them unattended for that long. So I had to wait patiently, yea right patiently! lol Ok, so nap time rolls around and I put the 2 little ones down and stick the oldest in front of the tv and tell him that mommy needs alittle mommy time alone. So I go in the bathroom, because the baby was napping in my bedroom, plus there's a lock on the bathroom door. (our next purchase....a lock for the bedroom door) So I get the thing going and get myself all happy and heading to O land.....I'm just about there .....and ....yes...i'm there!!!!!!! Ah that was great, but before I have a chance to bask in the afterglow I hear the door bell and my son yelling to me that someone is at the door. I had to rush to get my clothes back on and get out there. I get to the door and it's a damn Kirby salesman, thanks alot shmuck!!! But at least I got to finish. lol Hubby isn't home from work yet, I think I will go give it another shot! I can't wait until I get my slim so I can share that story with ya too!!!

Actually I ended up with the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator because I thought the other was a bit much for me spend for my very first dual, this one was half the price. I was pretty sad that I couldn't get it to work! After putting the batteries in and pushing every button at least a dozen times, hubby pulled the battery pack out and put it back in and went through the same thing pushing all the buttons again then he took the batteries out and 2 of them were hot, so we didn't want to take any more chances and left them out.

Ok, so we went away for the weekend and came home to a wonderful surprise, a little package just waiting for us! I was extremely excited to see that it had arrived so quickly, then I opened it. First, instead of sending us the slim that I ordered, we got this monster 10 inch thing, just looking at it scares me! lol So that baby has to go back, I am definitely not ready for anything like that, hopefully I never will be. lol Then I pulled out the dual and loaded up the batteries....I hit the on button.....nothing happened, we couldn't get it to work! So last chance, I put the batteries in the bullet and turned that baby on and......we had fun with it!!!!!!!!! We took care of me first, unfortunately it was very hot here yesterday, 95 degrees, I hate the heat, so play time didn't last long, but it was good, very good!!! I'll let ya know about the other 2 when we get the replacements.

Mikayla, I completely forgot i have another question.....you said... I was just wondering if you could expand on this a bit, i'm embarrassed to say that i'm not quite sure what to do. When hubby read that he was quite intregued but we are both new at this toy thing, so even though we had an idea or two, neither of us was quite sure.

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!! I will let you know how it all works out. I convinced hubby to get all three (bullet, slim and dual)! Now I'm going to be anxiously awaiting their arrival!!!!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for the warm welcome! That's exactly what we need most right now!! Something we can both use during sex to stimulate my clitoris. I do "ok" on my own, but it's just not easy, takes me a while, so feel free to suggest something in this catagory as well, as that will be the next issue to be addressed. Hopefully hubby will let me purchase both right away!

Ok, I don't own any sex toys, never have, sadly, been wanting one for a long time now. But here is the situation....I have never had an orgasm while having sex with another person, and I'm only one who has ever been able to make me orgasm. Even when I do it by myself, it takes awhile, I don't know why for sure, I think because my clitoris is not very prominent, so it's harder to get to. So last night, though the sex my husband I had was very good, as usual I did not have an orgasm. No matter how hard my husband and I try(we take turns), it just never happens. So last night he suggested that maybe we should get a vibrator, I was very excited, especially about the fact that he suggested it because I'd been thinking more and more about it myself. So now I am wondering if a vibrator would be the best thing for us, or is there something else we should start with? I was looking and there are so many things to choose from that my head was spinning, I just don't know where to begin. I was even thinking maybe I'd like to get a couple of different things. I just don't know what to get and would love any suggestions! Thanks.