Juzjon

Mikayla, Somehow I already knew that answer. I too am a bit larger than average, and my wife is bi yet I had to ask only because I know what a psychological trauma this can cause to a lot of guys out there who get bombarder from the sales campaigns advertising that "size matters" but as we all know, they are pushing inert pills that do norhing at all but drain the poor guy's pocketbook. Now, their new scheme is a pill that increases their ejaculate volume by 500% (cum like a porn star)..... bullshit! Behind this ad, it calls for drinking a ton of water every day, and it's the hydration that causes a slight increase. Anyway, I thought it was worth the post, and I was glad to see that none of the "hung" dudes out there responded with their bragging baloney. I've always thought that a larger heart meant more to a woman. Juz

I am going to throw a question out at any of the females who wish to answer. I get email every day saying in one way or another that "size matters". We all understand what that means don't we? My wife on the otherhand never gets an email saying that she's too large down there or anything. In the realm of perspectives, isn't that what really matters? Compatibility? I've seen all the cut and paste pictures I ever want to see where a man's penis is as large as my forearm In mail order catalogs like International Male and I just don't buy it. The average erect male penis is just a tad over six inches. Some of these guys look as though they've stuffed their briefs with a crop of bananas. Unless the guy is experiencing ED or something, that 6+ inches should be sufficient, yet I still hear on TV or in movies about some well hung dude as if he were a god to be worshiped. If a man is kind, understanding, patient, giving and he is willing to do just about anything for his lady, shouldn't that be enough? What about love? My wife and I have "tenplay" because we replaced foreplay years ago so we are never in any rush. I never quit until the job is done. Yet, I still can't help but wonder what all this hype is about. Yes, we have no bananas, we have no bananas today !!!! Juz

(Answer from another guy) Frankly speaking, I hate the words (the "C" word), crotch, snatch, vagina, pink taco or any other degrading description of what really is a piece of art. To me the word pussy is perfect. My wife refers to her own CROTCH as a pussy. The conotation is that of a kitten, and I feel it works well. On the other hand a guy can be a prick or a dick once in a while whenever he is out of line and certainly if he uses the (C word). A woman rarely refers to her boyfriend or husband as a cock, but it's really ok if she say's..."honey, you have a wonderful cock" !!! Food for thought..... oh yummy !!!! Juz

You asked an honest question and deserve an honest answer. On average I last anywhere between 15 to 30 minutes inside her unless I've had a few drinks. (Advise) Alcohol and sex are not good bed partners. Generally I play with her much longer beforehand so she is extremely aroused and has cum four or five times. If I am going to have a chance at a "simulcast" orgasm (which is rare), I need to take my time with her. Keep in mind that it is not about watching a clock, instead it's all about giving and receiving. Any one of us be us male or female that has ever gone without an orgasm feels some level of frustration whether they elect to admit it or not. Chocolate cake somehow isn't the same without the icing. Any way that is my honest answer. Juz

As Collective Soul sang..... Don't scream about, Don't think aloud, Turn your head, now, baby, Just spit me out !!!!!! My opinion is flat out honesty. Anything that occurs between two lovers is good. A man's cum texture is that of honey. The only difference is that of it's flavor which can be as a result what he's digested that day or so. Cum (as we all know) can be affected by what we put in our mouths and stomaches prior to sex...aka asparagus, agh!!!! If however a man's diet is correct then his cum will be very tasteful, just as in the case of a woman's. I too find offense if it must be rejected. That is an issue between two lovers that should be openly discussed. The old wives tale of cum upsetting a tummy is pure nonsense! Do unto others as they do unto you !!! Juz

No Sir, I am the lucky one. I had spent more than half of my life living with a sexually dysfunctional highly opinionated male basher until I met and fell deeply in love with my new wife of five years. Sure, I was able to teach her a few tricks, but until her, I never realized how precious and fragile the female really is. If you have love, understanding and patience, the rest will follow. Especially with an open mind and the art of being able to listen not just with ears, but with heart. Wonderful site you have here... keep it up. Juz

Mr. Teacher Howard, I have tried just about everything sexual imaginable. I am not in need of advice. I was just making my statement from my own personal point of view. I would never in a gazillion years not want a woman to have as many orgasms as she wants until she either falls fast asleep or faints. I have read and experimented with tantra...I have worked on ropes, but here once more... this is a natural thing for the ladies and I simply envy them. If I were God (which I am not) I would have encircled the vagina with a dozen clits right at the vaginal opening but that is a wild unimaginable fantasy. Carry on good Sir, and good luck Juz

My wife has been getting amazon wax treatments for about five years now, and she loves it. In the beginning she had to wait appx four weeks in between waxings because the curlys had to be long enough to remove and she had some itching as well. Over the last five years of waxing however, there has been less and less hair growth so the treatments are less frequent. I love the way it looks and her salon always does something cute with a tiny area of hair just above her pussy. I too shave but I use baby powder and a small rechargable elec. razor called body bare, it never nicks those little nooks and crannies of the testicles. The person above who wrote about hair retaining a scent is right on. Unless you are one of those who simply has to shower each and every time before you have sex, cleanliness is next to Godliness when it comes to our senses.

Dazzle me with azure eyes thrill me with red lips Touch me with your soft pink hands sway your rounded hips Toss your golden curly hair gently on my chest Move it slowly back and forth as we begin the rest Taunt me with your womanhood tease me with delight Take me to that hidden cove we visit every night Put your arms around me hold me oh so close Whisper that you love me let me overdose I give you me completely I am at your command A slave to you unselfishly beginning to expand Kiss me softly on the neck and then behind my ear Run your nails across my back evoke my trusting fear Thrust your body on me then quickly pull away Lying there by candle light my woman on display Cast me to your ocean throw me to your shore Take me deep beneath your sea allow me to explore The pureness of your waters those tides of salty brine Which ebb and flow as if though, erotic and divine My hands rest on your stomach which soon begins to shake The gratitude of giving entice a seismic quake The beauty of just knowing a female rhapsody Is only the beginning of what is yet to be One in to each other a cadence we commence Into volcanic lava flow a feeling so intense We grip each other tightly a candle's burning out Fall fast asleep in to the night satisfied, no doubt

Katprr, There goes another nickle. (or maybe that was a dime). We spend a ton on sex goodies and we are both very open minded sensual people. Some things work as advertised, while others are a waste of plastic and laytex. Since you gave me a suggested site, here's a favor returned.... http://www.eroscillator.com pricey, but then again..."What price glory?" ....especillay when levitation is a result. Thanks, Juz

Katprr, That was a nickle, not two cents :~) Sensitive down there? my God, who wouldn't pray for just that...I never thought there was such a thing as "too sensitive". Anyway, yes there are probably different (ahem) degrees of cinnamon, so we'll leave it right there. Thanks, Juz

Mikayla, First, I totally agree with you about the toys and watching... watch her all the time and it is a total turn on for me, and that is why we've purchased so many goodies from Too Timid. Secondly, I don't agree about the realistic pussy thing, but then again, everyone has a right for opionons right? If she saw my laying next to her with a simulated pussy, I think she'd feel like I was screwing someone else. As far as number three goes, if you've ever had hemorrhoids, I don't think the anal thing would be a turn on for you either. Thank you for your honest feedback (vent). This is a wonderful site to help people of all walks. p.s. I meant no disrespect when I mentioned gays.

CAUTION Maybe I'm a little different than most guys but ladies...please don't give blowjobs with any cinnamon flavored tabs or spray. Unless you have a guy who doesn't mind that someone just lit a blowtorch and went down on him, that stuff really burns. If it makes me burn that much, I can only imaginE how my wife would feel if I did that to her special little pink magic button. Warm sensations are nice when tepid....but the only weenies meant to be burned are those over a campfire !!! Juz

Hello to all. I am taking this chance just to vent a little. FIRST, It just isn't fair that my wife can have ten orgasms to my one period! (I want that too) SECOND, Each time I go to the department store 7/8ths of the goods sold there are for women (agh) THIRD, We get an average of 15 catalogs a week, one is for men (steaming). Now, the big one FOURTH, Every sex toy site has nine hundred and thirty fun toys for the ladies and girls and only a dozen for us guys (most of which are designed for gay men or look absolutely stupid). No, I'm not running a bunch of pearl beads up my butthole. What would be wrong if one of these inventors took a serious look at the male products that could be used as a part of foreplay? Something like a velcro vibrating sleeve that fits any size and drives a man crazy...... I think the ladies would love to see that happen. Ok, thats off my chest and I feel better. You all have a nice day. Juz

Wouldn't it be cool if penis pills could peg your little Mister Wiggly half way down your leg? A mixture of some plants concocting special blends proprietary nature these growing penis trends You know they say most women polled across this land sixty seven percent or more prefer a penis grand Now each day in our email not one, not two, but ten all having their own angle each trying to lure in Us men who tout we're average that we don't need the pill we're happy just the size we are our jockstrap we can fill Yet still they push and push with guarantee they hack three inches by the third month or your money back Be careful what you fall for those bottles that they fill and don't go chasing rainbows for a non-productive pill Instead try to be caring, be sexy and romance that lady you make love to just needs a song and dance Be rigid in approach be stout in your command and she'll shout HALLELUJAH as you make your final stand !