Wow, I just stumbled up on this and am not sure this is where I belong. Name calling? Bitching people out in public so to speak? Whats with this? From what I get this person is really hurting and could use some TLC. I can see from some of his remarks why you would respond the way you did and I also see where you tried to offer advice. It could look like to someone who is a bad spot that you were calling him a jackass even though you don't think you were. I deal with people like him a lot in my job and the best way I have found to deal with them is allow them to vent and don't take what they say personal because it isn't. I know that you are running a sex edcutation site here not a conceling service but maybe he felt he could come here without anyone knowing who he was therefore fearing no repercussions. I'm brand new here and don't want to offend anyone or tell you what to do or how to act but just comming in I do see both sides. Guy. you can pm me if you would like to and I will listen, or rather read what you have to say . I have seen people like you come to a very bad end more than once. TALK TO SOMEONE PLEASE. YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS. Now lighten up, Life is not that bad and as has already been said here no all women are bad at least not till you piss us off. You said you were leaving, if you do, please talk to someone if not, as I said before pm me. You are most likely a good person and so is your wife and she is hurting too. I really think it would be neat if this board would start up a fourm for people like yourself to come to and be comfortable.. I really don't think the people here hate you, I think they just really don't know what else to say to you. They have a good relationship and are trying to make it better. You are hurt,I think hurt more than even you know and you are in need of some serious help. I understand how you feel. Like I said I'm new to this site but not new to the problems involved in marriage.. Girls,Guys, if he doesn't leave and I hope he don't, just remeber it not personal. Let him talk he'll get over it . You don't have to comment if you dont want to. I've said too much for someone new , this post just caught my eye. NOW ON TO THE SHOW.