theshyone

I am not single but I learned the hardway that you don't have unprotected sex. I did when I was young and stupid and wound up with an std. This was untreated for a long time and eventually rendered me sterile. I was lucky enough to be able to adopt my son two and half years ago. But the abilty to have children is forever gone and I have spent many sleepless and tear stained nights over the foolishness of my youth. It's not worth no matter what your partner may say or how he complains that a condom ruins the experience. To have sex without a condom could very well ruin your life. The Shy one

Howard this is excellent advise, I think we should call you howard the wise:) I think it is easy to get trapped in bad habits and just enduring the love making until it becomes a chore. But I really like your suggestion. My husband better watch out tomorrow morning. The shy one

Thanks for the tips and advise, I appreciate it. next time we get romantic I'll try it. the shy one

Howard, you are right I am not made of glass and I think I can stand more than one orgasm however, getting it is another matter. I must have asked wrong becuase when I asked I got a flick of the fingers and "there you go" and he turned over and went to sleep. He has not gotten romantic with me since( and that was last wednesday) saying that he is just too tired and needs a break. I think maybe I scared him becuase he is not use to me being the initiator and we went at it pretty good for 2 weeks ( when before we'd probably get romantic 3-4 times a month) so I am backing off. I think I have been changing too fast for him to keep up, although he says he likes the changes. The shy one

Howard, I am not ready for back to back orgasms,I would feel funny asking for more it seems too greedy besides I was feeling pleasantly overwhelmed with one I think several would finish me off. Maybe in the future but not now. the shy one

I will not give details becuase I am not comforatable with that yet. But I will say that it was the best investment that we could have made. Noone should use the cock ring or vibrator that has a heart condition they'd be dead. The pleasure was incredible, I never knew that making love could be so intense and pleasurable. I've had pleasure from it in the past but nothing like this. I felt like I was going to explode , I can't accurately explain it but WHOo WEE. The Shy one

Howard Thank you for the two replies. You gave some excellent advice about talking to your partner about what you like. I guess the problem is that for so long I have been use to the same old thing and that has been good enough. But I will admit that now that we are breaking out of the rut and trying new things making love has been taken on a greater pleasure, it is something that I actually look forward to instead of a duty. You were right about the toys, we got two and they definitely enhance the experience. :) About the semen burning, I figured out that I had just irritated my throat by too much oral sex. I rested for two days and I was fine. Live and learn. The Shy one

I let my throat rest for 2 days and this morning everything was fine. So I must of irritated it. Thanks to all the posters for your suggestions. The shy one

To answer your question: Does your man smoke? No Could that be the issue? No Some women are allergic to sperm - but it would also burn inside your pussy - does he ejaculate inside you? Yes but it does not burn. I wonder if I have just irritated my throat by doing too many blowjobs when I am not use to it. I have given him one every night for the past week and a half. He has teased me about having a new toy. Not a toy just a new skill that I am perfecting. It's funny to me that after all these years of being ho hum about oral sex that I finally am really starting to like it ( this I credit to the articles here on blowjobs and deepthroating, knowledge really is power), I think that I like is so much becuase it gives him such pleasure and that is fun to see. I have decided at this point that I'll let him come outside my mouth for now until I can figure out the burning issue. Thank you for trying to help. The shy one

Thanks, I guess I am just trying to hard. Maybe I should give it a break for abit. The Shy one

Thanks I will try laying off for a while. It is suprising to me how enjoyable it is, now that I know more about it and have corrected some on the mistakes that I was making. Although, I will add as a side note that if you gag and have tears in your eyes and sound like you are going to throw up that is a definite mood killer. I was giving a pretty good bj when he thrust and I was not prepared and he went deeper than I was prepared for. I didn't throw up but I felt like could. Oh the funny mistakes made when we are learning. The shy one

Is semen burning as it goes down your throat normal? I wonder if I am just irritating my throat by deep throating and need to give it a break? Ideas anyone? The shy one

Thank you for the information and it did help. There may be no such thing as a stupid question but I think the trick is not feeling embarassed or stupid to ask it. I am pushing past my normal comfort zone and asking questions that make me blush. When I first posted I was afraid of what kind of response I would get but everyone has been so nice in answering my questions, giving helpful information without laughing and for that I am grateful. The shy one

WHittibo, be patient all marriages goes through cyles. It is fun when you are on the upside and not so fun when you are in the slumps. But the key I have found is communication. Good Luck New Question: Well, let me just say that life is really good and we haven't been this intimate since we were newlyweds. WHOO WEE. My husband said he needs to take sometime off work just to catch up on sleep and work the desire out me. That was nice to hear. I have been experimenting with oral sex and am getting much better in fact my husband almost came in mouth last night and that has never happened before. So here's my question: is semen burning as it goes down your throat normal? I wonder if I am just irritating my throat by the deep throating and need to give it a break? Ideas anyone? The shy one

Thank you for the information. I have ordered one as well as a vibrator and am excited and nervous at the same time to try it out. Well, nothing ventured nothing gained? Right? And I have learned so much so far from this website, in fact my husband teased me about blocking this site for awhile so he could get some rest. We haven't been this actively sexually since we were newlyweds. Just using the information here has spiced up our love life I can hardly wait to see what these toys will do. The shy one