Hello to everyone! I first want to start off by saying wow! and thanks. I stumbled onto this sight the other day and have almost read the whole thing! I've been with my husband (high school sweetie) for almost ten years (married almost 3). And we had our first child last Oct. We are each others firsts, and have shared the typical plain sex life. Although, during the last couple of years we have tried a few new positions. but only through a lot of coercing by my hubby. I was raised by a single parent, whom I feel was way to open to sex. ( anyone, anywhere, at any time) So, me not wanting to be anything like my mother, for other reasons too, I gave myself the sex/ masturbation is a dirty thing mentality. But there is a bright side, I know I don't want to be this type of person, and I know that I need not to be this person, not only for myself, but for my hubby and our relationship to be better. And that's where this great site comes in. It has informed me, made me laugh, you crazy people, and helped me get over some of my fears. I even got enough courage, after a several hour debate with myself, to hit the complete order button and oder my first toy. Very scary moment indeed. But now, very excited for it to arrive. What does my hubby think of this new and changing me? ( who by the way is in Iraq till Sept ) Amazed, intrigued, and very turned on! Thank you again. You have truly inspired me!