nurse_trula

I just wanted to know what is the best G-spot vibrator out there? Or maybe I should ask which one works the best. I bought my first one a month or so ago and have used it quite a few times, but I just don't get much out of it. It's a dolphin shaped one by the way. You know the type. It's made of a really soft rubber material. Maybe it's too soft. I don't know. The bullet is near the dolphin's nose. I am able to have G spot orgasms when hubby and I have sex no matter what the sexual position. I keep thinking that one of these days, I'm gonna have one so strong, I'm gonna pass out. LOL. Anyway, maybe my vibe is just rubbing me the wrong way. Any suggestions? What works for you? TIA...............

Heeheehee!!! I gotta remember that one! It's too cute!

Still giggling over here! Thank you!!!

TM, maybe your wife just doesn't like the "coldness" of a vibe or dildo penetrating her. That's why she'd rather have you (the real thing) instead. I went to this novelty shop one time, and they had a dildo that you could fill with either warm or cold water, depending on what you like. Maybe she would try something like that. Or you could always compromise with her and use a cockring with a clit stimulator on it. That way she could have you and vibes at the same time. And as a bonus, you'd get some vibes too! Good Luck to both of you!!!!

I need serious help. Bigtime. I feel like the most inadequate loser on the planet! I CANNOT, I repeat - CANNOT get my hubby to cum by giving him a blowjob without the use of vibrating anal sex toys. We have been together for 13 yrs, married for 7 yrs. I have tried during all this time to make him cum "the regular way"(oral stimulation and using my hands). I did do it ONCE however, and that was quite a while ago, but I think that was an accident (& it took a full hour). I've tried everything. When I try anal play with my finger(s), he says they are too short and don't reach the prostate. I've read everything on the internet about how to do it properly. I've watched lots of porn and read many porn magazines. All in all, I think I've researched this thing more than any living person. And I've practiced every technique I've researched many times, but with no results. I've tried combinations of things too. And I don't have "the teeth" problem either. Mine are small, so I can cover them easily. I've done it all, and am at my wits end. The only thing I can't do is deepthroat. I know they say that practice makes perfect with that, but I've been practicing for many months now on hubby and with a soft dildo, and I still want to puke my guts out every time I do it. I keep telling myself the problem can't be me because of all the "successful" BJs I gave to other men in my past. I've never had any complaints from these guys, and they've all been able to get off within a really short time. Hubby's a little bigger down there than the other men I've been with, but not by much. We've talked about this a lot. I was hubby's first. He did masturbate quite a bit in the past (up to twice daily), even tho our sex life has always been fine. So we thought that maybe that was the problem. He said that the friction is different. And I've seen the guy masturbate. It's, like, rabbit speed. I've never seen anyone move their hand up and down that fast! Facts are facts, people! - I CANNOT move my head up and down his shaft that fast. So anyhow, he quit doing it. So after a week of him not masturbating, I tried again. And, once again, NOTHING. I can get him hard, but that's all. And as far as actual sex goes, everything is fine. OK, I'm lying......it totally rocks!!!! Everytime we have sex, the neighbors need a cigarette afterwards!!! He can go all night long at times. We both can (with breaks in between of course). This has taken a toll on me and my self esteem. I feel like less of a woman at times. It seems like all other wives and g/f's can do this, but not me. I know he loves me and finds me attractive. I'm not ugly. I could stand to drop about 20 pounds, but that's all. I'm afraid if I don't start doing it right, he'll find somebody else who will. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Thank you all for the warm welcome!

Just want to say hi to everyone! This is my first post. I think TooTimid totally rocks! This forum is awesome. I've read a lot of the posts and everyone seems so open and supportive when it comes to talking about sex. It's so cool that you all are willing to help others by giving advice and sharing personal experiences. It's nice that I now found other people like me who are willing to talk about sex like I do. Keep up the good work everyone! I hope I'll be able to contribute helpful info too!!!