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HILARIOUS! I bet that has totally happened...well, maybe not those exact details...LMAO!

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This is a good thread. I like it. This kind of stuff needs discussion. Wow. I totally agree with the afore-placed quote. Pardon me, but how ridiculous to think that I would NOT be considered a virgin if my physical hymen was torn by horseback riding or a vibrator! I'm sorry, but doesn't virginity have to do with sex? And doesn't that involve at least two people? Isn't one-person sex called "masturbation," even if it is with an insertable toy? And tampons--let me just say absolutely not sexual at all. Please. Seriously...?! I am a 36yo female virgin. Many times I add "technically" when I speak of my virginity because I am not sexually innocent. I simply have never had a penis inserted into my vagina. This makes me a virgin regardless of the state of my hymen, which I'm sure is no longer intact. So I guess the way I see it is as an emotional thing as well as a physical thing--a physical penis entering a physical vagina in a consensual setting, as Tyger mentioned. And personally, there is nobody I have felt emotionally close enough to to share this physical act with. But I also know that making love has a lot more to it than penetration...so...can one make love with someone and still be a virgin? Hmm. Maybe that's a topic for another thread?? By the way, just because I haven't had a penis inside me does not mean I am pure as the driven snow--or some kind of freaky prude who denies her sexuality (oh crap, sorry...that was a very judgmental statement...take it as just how I feel people see me sometimes). How ridiculous to judge a person based on the state of their sexual history anyway, really. Isn't that against everything this site and this forum stands for? Good golly, did any of that make ANY sense...?

Cool. Thanks. I never start a thread without searching... :^)

Well thank you very much for your response. That whole "virgin" dillemma is an interesting one. Hard to say how to define such a thing, unless you stick to the cold hard technical facts. But that is NOT what this post is about...is there a thread about this subject? I shall do a little search...and maybe start a thread about your article. Many thanks for your response...hope you are well.

Ok, I realize this thread is over a year old, however I just found it! May I ask why you would NOT recommend insertable toys for a virgin? Maybe the answer is simple and obvious...but I am a virgin. I also have an insertable vibe that rocks my world. [Doc Johnson's Decadence Mini G-Spot Vibe, dammit I wanted to link to it but can't seem to figure out how to insert a link in this message...] Heh. And I'm considering buying a dong, but for the main purpose of practicing giving head, not insertion (although I have to say it will probably happen...). Any other Virgins With Insertables around here?

Ok. Wow. I love TooTimid, the whole damn site rocks my world...but, uh, WOW. THIS is my favorite thread thus far. I cannot wait to try some (all?) of these suggestions on my long-distance sweetie! I love to give head, haven't done it much but often enough to know that it's a real turn on to me to be turning HIM on so damn much (maybe I'm just orally fixated, bless my cotton socks!). And this thread will definitely be one I come back to again and again. So yeah...this girlie thanks everyone who has posted and especially bondagejunkie--I may have to search for other posts by you my dear, since bondage seems to be another of my new fascinations... You people, I just love yas.

Thank you Mikayla, for this post. Not sure what else to say...I'm rather emotional about this whole thread...seems that this may be a BODY IMAGE issue rather than a BODY issue...hmmm?

Yeah, so...hi all. I have no idea what to write here. Uh, I'm a virgin--technically--and am thinking: "who am I, signing up for this forum, anyway!!" I really shouldn't be shocked by myself anymore, but sometimes I just can't wrap my head around the things I do!! Thus, the username "unbelievable" seemed appropriate. Teehee. All I have to say is that some lucky man is going to get his freaking mind blown...because VIRGIN does not mean INNOCENT AND HAS NO LIBIDO. Freedom is a beautiful thing (and THAT comment has nothing to do with politics). Looking forward to lapping up all the info I can get here...be well y'all.