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Actually a kinda boring story. My parents decided to move when I was 15 (my parent build the house I grew up in), and they built a house about 50 miles from where I grew up. We changed congregations, and I became friends with a girl about two years younger than me. She had an older brother that I started to get a crush on about six months after we became friends. I had a crush on him for 4 years. He was two years older than me, so shortly after that he graduated and moved out of his parents' house, but still near and in the same congregation. He had a girlfriend for a couple months from a different congregation. I had known her for years, and a few months after she broke up with him, I went to his sister's graduation party (different sister). The former girlfriend and I talked the whole time, and she kept saying we'd be a great couple because we had so much more in common than she and him did. She felt like he was her brother and couldn't even kiss him! Fast forward to a year later, I had my graduation party, just after I had gotten my hair cut much shorter than it had ever been. It came to just under my chin, so cute, if I say so myself! During the party, my future husband's cousin (who is about 5 years younger than me) started punching me and wrestling me. He has a habit of getting out of hand, but I had him beat (yes, I do have two older brothers, thanks for asking ) At that point, future hubby came to the rescue and beat him up (sort of). Afterwards, my brother's wife said that a guy kept looking at me throughout the party, but she refused to say who. She is such a tease!! About four months later, his family needed help putting down tile in their new hottub room, and as I had helped my dad lay tile numerous times, they asked me to help. Of course, there son was there, and we ended up being the only two working on it for most of the time. We flirted the whole time, we both ended up going to his parent's a couple days in a row to finish the project. A week later another of his cousins invited me over to her house, and said he would be there. Needless to say, I jumped at the chance, and two weeks later, we started dating officially. Three months later (to the day!) he proposed. We got married that fall. It has now been a year and a little over two months since we got married.

Yeah, actually I knew about this problem from fishing. I used to go fishing with my dad all the time, so I had a tackle box full of assorted fake baits and such. Some of them melted together over the winter, and my dad told me that I had to keep the different kinds separated and even be careful what kind of tacklebox I used! So that translated to sex toys because some are made out of a similar jelly-like material.

The "old lady sex therapist" could also be Sue Johansen (or is it Johnson). She has a show on Oxygen or Lifetime or something like that. I have used the handle of my brush, lotion bottles, a pill container that was about the size and shape of a bullet vibrator. I tried a banana, but it didn't work for me. I have also rubbed against footstools and coffee tables (with a pillow in between). I also used to have this giant stuffed toy that was kinda hard that I would hump.

I don't have many (okay only one) friend who I am really close to, and she happens to also be my double cousin. No, no incest, just her mom (my mom's cousin) married my dad's brother. We have been close since we could walk, and we have experimented together when we were teenagers. She got me lube, restraints, and a fox tail for my wedding. The fox tail because when I was a kid I almost always had some sort of "tail" so I could be a bunny, horse, dog, etc. She saw it at the Renaissance Faire on someone else, and said that is soooo Bekah! Anyway, we have no problem talking about sex, so I would definitely have no problems getting her a toy if I knew she didn't already have it. Other than that, there is only one other person who I might, and I mean might, buy a toy for. That's my husband's aunt. She is so great! She turned me on to adameve.com, which lead me to look for other such sites, which lead me to TT! TT is now my favorite site, and even though I don't have the money to buy, I can always look and discuss...Anyway, I might get her something, but I'd probably be too embarrased (midwestern mentality: you're enjoying yourself? SHOCKING!!!) I might also get something for my sister-in-law once she graduates, but I'd probably wait for her bachelorette party (if she gets married), cause she has a big mouth and wouldn't let me live it down, and I don't think her parents would like that if they found out...I don't know how they'd take it because they like to joke about such things, but when it comes down to actually doing it...not so much. My husband loved talking about stuff when we were dating, but now that we're married, I have to force him to go to the only sex shop in a 30 mile radius. Anyway, I'm just to shy about it I guess.

OMG, yes! That whole sex personified thing. Dark and dangerous. I'm not into the sucking blood or violence, but the flirting with danger is definitely a turn on. I even made up my own kind of vampire (you can find a hint of it on Elfwood, search for Aijalon.) I don't think I uploaded a full description of them yet, but basically, they are misconstrued. They have fangs and a venom that is best delivered by biting the neck area as is is usually exposed and near both blood vessels and the spinal cord. They don't suck blood at all, it just looks that way. Also, very sensual, they love rich colors, rich music, rich sensations. They spend their long, long lives exploring the best ways to enjoy everything. I definitely want to get the fangs that look real and you can talk, bite, eat with them in, but you can take out easily. I probably will never have the money to spend on that, let alone the courage to do it. Besides, I'd probably get carried away as hubby doesn't like it when I bite him, even lightly. I love it when he bites me though.

As a girl who also doesn't get much out of masturbation (so I thought), I found that the best thing for me, was to fantasize, read a sexy book, then start touching myself very, very lightly with my fingertips, brushing them over my upper arms, the inside of my forearms, my chest (above my breasts and between) down my stomach and the inside of my thighs. I don't like fingering my clit unless I'm very aroused already. I also don't get much out of putting my fingers inside my pussy. I *LOVE* clitoral vibrators and putting dildos and vibrators inside me, but the best way I can get off is to do the above and then rub against the corner of a slightly padded footstool or several hard pillows, that sort of thing. It helps alot if I have a dildo inside of me at the same time. You can get a similar effect with a banana (I think I'd prefer a peeled one) or a cucumber. Look around for smooth objects of that shape that you could use. Always, always make sure it is safe and clean before you use it. Always clean it afterward. After using such objects for years and then recently graduating to real sex toys, dildos and vibrators, I must urge you to try them. For one thing, they are specifically made for sexual activity, so you know that they are safe. For another, you can't get that sensation anywhere else. It is much different from just using my fingers and even from sex with my husband. If you're worried about family or friends finding out, check out some discreet toys. I saw this cute little rubber ducky that was actually a massager! You could use it anywhere and keep it right in your shower and no one would be the wiser!

I like a good porn. I'm not like most women, I like hardcore, pumping, moaning, in-your-face action. Watching oral sex and other foreplay is not that interesting for me unless I'm watching it with my hubby. I also like a good erotic story. I have a great book about sexual play that is actually educational, but the doctor who wrote it gives examples of real sex scenes his patients related to him, play by play. I've always said sex turns me on. As a teenager, I'd look up porn online and then go to my room to, ahem, hump this giant stuffed toy I had. Yeah...kinda embarassing, but I couldn't get off, or even really get aroused by touching myself.

Sometimes it's several times a day, sometimes not any for weeks. I don't like fingering myself, just doesn't feel that good. Usually I use a toy on my clit, then insert a toy and play with that for a while. Almost invariably I end up humping something (I use to have a footstool that was just the right height, hardness) with a toy inside me.

How about the best sex game? This could be either 1. games that were bought for that purpose, 2. games you came up with, or 3. family fun games made naughty such as Scrabble.