littlemissnonamegirl

You know, you have a point. We spend so much time together, I guess that'd make sense. I have NO idea why I didn't think of that before... Strange because I definitely have no attraction to them, but that one is coming into my dreams...hm. Dreams are strange like that huh?

lies

You look stunning girl! Damn

Done andddd done Rob :]

Whew, thanks ladies. That makes me feel better. I have not had any other dreams of that sort lately--let alone with that lady/or any for that matter...so I know y'all are right! Regardless, I guess it's good I am at least experiencing some sexual fulfillment/exploration somewhere in my life even if it isn't the real one! Hehe.

Hey fellow TT-ers, I have a very strange question I need help with. The more input the better. So, I woke up this morning feeling sexually satisfied from a dream. More specifically, I dreamt that I slept with one of my dancer friends, a female. I must add that I am straight. I've never kissed or hooked up with a girl in any way. Nor have I ever thought of doing so before. However, this woman I apparently had sex with in the dream, is a very close friend of mine now. She has been there for me in this past year and been such a support system. She is happily married. I had a dream that I was attending my brother's wedding reception and she was coincidentally holding hers at the same venue, too. [both she and my brother have been married for awhile to their SOs in real life] Anyways, next thing I knew I had broken away from the party with her and she somehow started questioning my sexuality and interest in women. I got all defensive because I'm a virgin and that just because I hadn't had sex with a man didn't mean I was a lesbian. From there, I remember a lot of kissing, a lot of sex and then us returning to the party like nothing happened. When I woke up I felt great and wanted to return to that dream. This is so embarrassing because again, I'm not sexually attracted to women or her, like that. I'm not sure where this is all coming from. Is it because I have no sexual experience and am just looking for love? As most of you know, I have had/continue to struggle with very dangerous/abusive parents and struggle with trust issues. I just want to know if other women [even the guys] have ever had dreams like this? I'm just trying to figure out what's wrong with me.

Hiiiii lovely TT-ers I'm alive. Tiny D is not dead. Just been a crazy time. Anyways! Unfortunately, not much action has happened--still--with guys and so I need lots of honest input. I'm finally going to go ahead and get me a toy. And I want something water proof. I have been looking through reviews on products here on TT, obviously, but I still would love any good waterproof vibrator recommendations you have. I want something that isn't going to break or be weak but that won't intimidate a first/relatively new toy user, either Please and thank you! xo

Wayne Brady (I know he's a comedian too) oh my gosh the things I would do to that man.

Probably? Due to my creative energy and mindset, I'm always thinking up crazy/wild things to try. I would probably give it a try! Gah, listen to me! Hehe. Would you ever consider having sex with the person you'd NEVER ever do it with (the person you think, no freaking way) if it meant you got to have sex with a person you really wanted to?

Thanks darlin'. Unfortunately there is more pressure than ever to lose my virginity. I am not by any means giving in or ready to do so. I just am getting so frustrated now because of my group of like ten girls, my friend who has never had a boyfriend or whatever, has now lost her v-card (she has only been with the guy for like two/three weeks). Anyways, I am the only one now who has not done the deed and they don't push the issue, but definitely don't understand why I believe in waiting past a few months to do anything. Things should not have a time limit, I understand that, but I am tired of them judging me because I don't put out so quickly and take things really slow. I don't think there is anything wrong with that, but maybe I am doing something wrong, hence why I can't keep a guy past like a few dates apparently. :/

I've got a ton from dance hahaha. I'm drawing a blank right now, probably all the cold meds. My favorite is always, "Don't grip the barre too tightly."

True-but not a good one :[ TPBM needs a hug.

Update: So all this advice has been just what I needed to hear! but unfortunately, I won't have to worry about it with this guy. After five or six successful and seemingly great encounters, apparently Mr. "Wonderful" isn't the guy I thought he was. He stopped calling, texting, and corresponding with me. Sigh. Whatever, I am going to move forward and keep my head up because I did not do anything wrong for a change. Buttt this advice is all amazing and will definitely help me someday, when I hopefully can, finally lose that v-pass. <3 Here's to another try ...

Falsies. I slept Thanksgiving night, no Black Friday. Although wait, I did go on an alcohol run today amidst the crazy drivers, so maybe that counts? TPBM is ready to get their dance on :]

Aw I love you all too, so much. I'm lucky to have people who care! xoxo

Aw thanks Pappy, I appreciate the honesty. I guess we'll see what happens! *toesies crossed*

Thanks ladies! A little information on him might be useful haha. Very generally speaking I definitely do not get that vibe from him. He has always been a gentleman and never pressured me or pushed me to do anything. I have been the initiator and he is fine with me doing that, just because he wants to respect me. We've been seeing each other for a solid month and he has been completely invested in getting to know ME and not get down to business or get all touchy, he hasn't even reached for below the belt. He is literally the ideal gentleman with chivalry, etc. Again, we are definitely not at that point, but it's always good to at least have an understanding or something so I don't say the wrong thing. I'll keep you all posted, but I am being very, very cautious too. I don't want to be fooled or going to let a guy use that as his fuel to be the first. It's scary, because I haven't ever been in this predicament, but I guess it is exciting. xoxo.

Woo! Celebrations are always good lady love thanks everyone xoxo

Thanks everyone for the really honest replies! I definitely needed to hear that, I guess in a way I am a tad ashamed I am a 21-year-old virgin especially because guys assume I'm more experienced because I'm confident and a dancer. We are definitely not even at that point yet, but it's definitely something in the back of my brain. I don't want him to think me as inexperienced, even though that is the case, especially because he has been around a few times... Gah, I hate it. Being a virgin and so not skilled :/

I was not sure where to post this but I figured y'all would have some input or honest answers for me! So my gals and I were talking about dating and boyfriends and several of us have not yet done the deed. We were debating whether or not you should tell your so that you are a virgin. I mean not like announce but if he/she asks or it comes up, do you admit it? Or just roll with the punches? I know this might sound like a dumb or obvious question but I am curious. I'm going on date three with a guy and things are going well. Assuming they stay this way and it becomes a relationship should I be up front? My friends say it's a bad idea to tell him and to just go with it and try to act natural. I'm not sure I agree. But then again, I am the virgin here.

Hiii everyone! Your little dancer is alive and more importantly happy. I've been missing TT and you all immensely. I probably shouldn't have made a post for that but I love y'all and wanted to let everyone know I was signed with a ballet/modern company and have been dancing my heart out. I am also seeking help to help with the dangers at home with my family and with my body image. I wanted to thank everyone here for being supportive and giving me reassurance that it's ok to ask for help. I'm here and getting healthy and back oh and now 21 yay! xoxo lil miss

True, sometimes I wonder who the adults really are. TPBM is craving some wine and chocolate.

Lol agreed! CHAT ONNNN!