Maybe the driver of car had to much to drink. Anyhoo..I find most people are shallow in that respect. Love holds no one hostage. If he truly loved her, he wouldn't have demanded it it the first place. Guy was just using sex as an excuse to leave the wife.. Not only that, but to put sole blame on her, ( it seem to be so did everyone else. I include you in that also) because she found oral sex to be something foul. So what! She has the right to that feeling. She earned it. It's a two way street just as anything else in this world, Howard. He asked, she said no. And he says divorce. WTF is that? Hasn't it been written here over and over, you shouldn't want to just please yourself, that your partner feelings also matter. I don't expect my husband to do certain sexual things to me if he finds it displeasing. Nor he with me. It's called mutual respect, Howard. And I find I love the man even more as I write this. He is gentle and has no sexual demands that I cannot meet. It also seems to me it was almost a forced sexual situation on a woman who didn't find doing that her style. Forcing a women to choose, sucking or divorce. Like saying; Fuck or die? Which is it? Some say a wife can't be raped by her husband.. Maybe not but in some cases, I would have to say other wise here. Beside, I never said oral sex was nasty. The marriage bed is undefiled between husband and wife. If they choose to have kinky sex, then it's not a sin nor is it to have plain ordinary sex. God gave us that right. May that guys dick fall off!