chloegirl

I know....that's the dilemna isn't it?

A good friend of mine died last month....it was a shock, totally unexpected. I really miss our talks, our friendship, and all the things we had planned to do and will never get a chance to. Makes you realize that it is so stupid to spend all our time working and worrying....we need to milk every ounce of fun and joy we can and relish every moment NOW while we can!

Seems like we're always hearing this and while I agree that alot of it depends on what phase of life a woman is going thru (for instance having young children who are active in everything will pretty much absorb all her time, thought, and energy for awhile) I think it's way off to say that as a blanket statement. Most women who are healthy both physically and emotionally will find they have a healthy if not ravenous sexual appetite if they just allow themselves to experience it. Unfortunately it seems that in most relationships the drives are not balanced so one person is going to do with less than they would like. In your relationship which partner has the higher sex drive? Male or female? Read this article: http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-driv...n-women-compare

The boss had to fire one person, and he narrowed it down to Mary or Jack. It was an impossible decision because they were both super workers. Rather than flip a coin, he decided he would fire the first one who used the water cooler the next morning. Mary came in the next morning with a horrible hangover after partying all night. She went to the cooler to take an aspirin. The boss approached her and said "Mary, I've never done this before, but I either have to lay you or Jack off ." "Could you jack off?" she says....."I feel like shit."

hhmmm now there's an interesting job description

I know someone who had this done. She lost alot of weight fast but she could only eat about 1/2 handful at a time and was constantly throwing up if she ate or drank more and almost everything disagreed with her after. It really affected her quality of life. Within 3 years she had gained back all of the weight she had lost and all the cost and discomfort was not worth it. As they stated above it's one heck of a fast jump start but you have to TOTALLY change your lifestyle and habits to make it stick and you can do that without the suffering and cost. Good luck whatever you decide to do.

nice! What are the size dimensions on this and just how intense is the vibration on high! You know how greedy I am! Want it all to the MAX!!!

do we get to see YOUR cute little Man butt?

uuuh.....maybe second! You KNOW people are dying to see just one little pic of you!

ladylove" Ok. maybe I just didn't have the right pair, I'm going out to try one more time. I'll let you know. 'sun_flower969' OK I'll try too!! Fair is fair!! ...and being open minded rocks!! Maybe we need to model both kinds and get a concensus. ...every figure is different and the same item will not look or feel the same on every body.

I haven't accomplished a thing today. Yesterday was nice and sunshiny and busy and fun...today it's dark and dreary and I don't want to do anything but lay around and, well....you know!

LMAO!! Oh no girl...sounds like you are doing things just right...always leave them spent, dazed, and in awe!!!

indecisive

I think you need to add a device to break thru the "selective hearing" as well...I swear we can talk about something several times and everytime it comes up it's like he never heard this before....

Is it just me or does anyone else get the severly stopped up ears, almost feel deaf to small sounds syndrom after you have a hard orgasm? It only lasts a minute but still weird. Maybe it has to do with me arching my neck and back too much as I'm hitting that peak...just wondering

Wow! So much to get hit with in such a short time! And keeping that positive outlook on it all at that! I think you can walk on water too! Wishing you some peace and happiness now just for you!!! Don't forget to take care of yourself!

Congratulations! Such a happy time for you...beautiful new home and a baby on the way! Perfect place to raise a family! Wishing you all the best!

It's not so much that you wouldn't have one as that they are all different and some are just shaped smaller or tighter and so may not warrant a veritical piercing. You can google some pretty good information on the subject, check yourself out closely with a mirror to compare to the info (they actually have a way to test yourself with a q-tip), and consult with a professional piercer who is experienced in this...they can tell if your build is suitable for one or if they recommend a different kind..maybe a horizontal piercing thru one side of your labia.

I have to agree with you LL. When I was young, inexperienced, insecure, and just plain stupid I let alot of stuff go down (or should I say NOT go down) with him dropping the ball and didn't think it was worth fighting over even though I have ALWAYS taken care of him like a pro. Whole different story now even though the outcome still leaves alot to be desired. If I only knew then what I know now....

hahaha now see I used to think just like you Sunny until I started wearing them (the same one Ladylove likes) and now I'm totally hooked...sexy, comfortable, and no panty lines....what more could you ask for.?...boy shorts are cute but if you don't a tiny, flat ass they just don't look appealing on me, they make me feel like my ass is HUGE!!!. By the way....these are not for everyday wear but I swear they are sooo HOT and kinky! What do you think of my latest aquisition? Leather and steel! gggrrr! (edited)

Lucky you! Must be nice

mmmm yes!!! PLEASE!!!!

My friend and I were discussing this yesterday. We've all known couples where one of them developed serious health problems and their spouse tenderly cared for and nursed them until the end. Thats part of what marriage is about, being there for each other in good times and bad. BUT...what about cases where the health problems are NOT brought on by an accident of nature but by your own selfish bad habits? What about the woman who eats herself into morbid obesity and can hardly breath or walk anymore, can't stand to be touched because the pain and inflammation of all that weight on her bones has turned her into a virtual Jabba the Hut trapped in her own body. She can no longer do much of anything except continue to eat and the spouse has to take on EVERYTHING. What about the man who developes serious heart or liver problems or renders himself impotent because he drinks until he passes out every night? Or the person who can't go an hour without coughing their head off but keeps smoking those damn cigarettes regardless? It's one thing to support a partner who can't help what has happened to them but I think it's another thing altogether in a case like this. There is NO excuse because kids are educated from the earliest grades about the basics of taking care of yourself for good health. To me a person who continues this self destructive behavior (and they all know they are doing it, just make jokes about it and say "I have no willpower") and just expects their spouse to have to deal with the consequences is a selfish piece of shit! They are NOT living up to their part of the union in the marriage, they are basically saying "I don't give a shit about your feelings, I'm going to do what I want to do and since we're married you have to take it"....kind of leads back to that situation with Mikayla's friend and the wife who refused to put out. If one of the partners blatantly stops contributing to the union/partnership/sharing aspects of the marriage I say the marriage is basically null and void.....of course after many years it's not likely that most people would walk away....they just end up living their lives being miserable, cheated, and unhappy. We've been conditioned to believe that being selfless, sacrificing your wants and needs, and just taking shit with no complaints is the "right" thing to do but more and more I am questioning that reasoning....Like I said....I think it depends on the situation but a selfish partner does NOT deserve the same rights and respect as one who has and would live up to the definition of "marriage" if they could do something about it.

We've had to live with this to some extent for more years than I want to count. Meds can help but there's still alot of other issues involved...performance anxiety can become so ingrained that the "hurry before I lose it" syndrom becomes the routine. The meds (and he's tried them all) leave his head funky and stuffed up the whole next day. You just learn to work around it however you can. Believe me.....he has NO complaints! I make sure at least he is always satisfied.