Yup - that's happened to me before. Feels great, she's doing nothing wrong, but I just couldn't push myself over the edge. My failure to reach orgasm was my fault, not hers. It was probably stage fright anxiety, etc, and usually happened the first few times with a new girl (what few I've had). I was never REALLY comfortable 100% of the time until my wife & I were married. Sex with a non-spouse is great, but for me, for some reason, the deep emotional attachment didn't take place until we were actually married. Then sex was REALLY an emotional and physical union for me. When she would whisper into my ear, "Mmmmmm, my husband," it would make me melt and would produce a deep orgasm for me. That's one reason that I haven't been able to have sex with anyone since we got divorced (8 years ago). But that's just me - for some folks, marriage is not necessary for the deep emotional bond. And that's fine. Point is, it's probably him thats having the snag for whatever reason, and probably won't happen every time, or even most of the time. Some of us aren't the stereotypical semen-squirting automatrons that can drop a load whenever we want. Be patient, understanding, and keep going. But don't think that's it's somehow you're fault. He may not have came, but a good time was still had by all! SP