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Hi all, I was just wondering if anyone has tried any of the liberator products, specifically the smaller wedge. Would a couple be wiser to purchase this product or a positions guide first. If so, are there any you would recommend. Finally, what would be a good starter whip? Spanking is fun but something that could tease and "punish" sounds fun. I really liked the looks of the ones with the small rubber strands. Thanks for any comments I recieve in case I don't get back here for awhile.

Hi Dixie, I think that in the beginning you mentioned being afraid of how he views you. I can tell you this. If he cares about you at all, which he apparently does if he is concerned about the pleasure you are receiving, and not just his own gratification, then he wants you exactly as you are. My fiance is missing her feet. She is extremely self concious of it but I have slowly made her realize that it does not bother me one bit. In truth, I actually admire what she has done and the confidence that she has in life. The fact that she doesn't let it get her down is extremely sexy to me. I love everything about her and wouldn't change one thing on her beautiful body. Obviously this guy wanted to be with you in the first place or he wouldn't still be around. That means that he liked what you had to offer from square one. Don't let your fears and worries get the best of you. Simply sit back and enjoy loving him and him loving you. Also, I know its hard sometimes, but something as simple as sitting down and talking about your fears with him can be very good for the relationship. Never forget that communication is key. Hope something in there was helpful to you.

This is a little away from what people have been talking about, but I've found that the tie on a bathrobe can be very fun. It can make an excellent blindfold. Also, if your partner is a little sensitive, it's much better for a little bondage that handcuffs, sex tape, etc. which can become painful after long periods. The usually soft and often even padded. The wide flat shape makes for knots that tend to come undone easily and don't pinch. I also agree with a previous post from the "old doctor lady" (exact words?). Anytime you get a package with some bubble wrap hold onto it. I makes for killer hand jobs with enough lubrication.

Well it seems like that part of her life is gone for good. She simply has no desire to do any kind of anal anymore. Found this out in the shower, doing as all suggested and making sure to talk to her as things progressed. She said she was sorry and would make up for it if I was dissapointed at all. I got an amazing blowjob in the shower and came in between pair big beautiful soap covered breasts. Three hours later we decided it was time to rest up for what was left of the weekend. All in all not a bad little deal even if the result wasn't what was planned. Thanks to all for the great advice on the subject. BTW, I'm sure that this has been done before but just in case, using a Pocket Rocket or some other sort of mini vibe on the clitoral hood while performing cunnilingus produces "a whole different kind of orgasm." Or so I was told. Later

Howard, I think I get where you're coming from here or at least what you're saying. By the way, what is WADR?

Interesting, I guess no one has encountered a scenario quite like mine. My girl is on the DP birth control shot. Her flows are now slow and small but last for up to 6 weeks. We have been to the doctors, clinic, etc. and they all say "Sorry, its not supposed to be that way but you don't have anything to worry about either." For us it was either I try it or we abstain for that time. I was a little grossed out at first but after the first time and a little clean up, I realized it's no big deal. I will eat her out during this time but only after she washes, her rule, and then only near the clitoris, never her actual vaginal opening. I simply hate the taste of blood. We now just lay a towel down and go at it. And Howard, don't be too hard on people for their choice of words sometimes. While something may sound childish to you or me you simply have to remember that not everyone thinks the same. Not trying to be bossy or mean her, just throwing in my opinion. Later all

OK, so tonight I get to see my girlfriend for the first time in almost a week. I want to go down on her and throw in something new. Specifically teasing and playing with her anus while I eat her pussy. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas about good ways to start this portion to sort of test the waters. I thought to simply wet a digit and slowly rub the surface, then gauge her reaction after the initial shock wears off. If she seems to enjoy it them maybe focus my mouth there a little with some small amounts of penetration. I know that she used to enjoy anal sex with partners before me but does not have the desire to do so anymore. I think that if she enjoyed it in some ways before she may still enjoy some form just not the full blown act. Any suggestions? Also, as I have never done this I wondered about cleanliness. Probably the best way to approach this is to maybe suggest I'm dirty from work and we should bathe each other. What should I do to avoid any unpleasant tastes or odors as far as washing her? And as I understand it, it is very unsafe to put something in the anus or sphincter and then transfer it to the vagina. This can cause her to get an infection correct? All comments, questions, and advice are welcome. I will post later this weekend with an update if any are interested. Thanks, Z

I know this sounds so corny by there is a song that I think is by Enya that makes me hot. It starts with a girl singing in a soft seductive voice, almost like a chant, the song builds until there is a heavy drum sequence not unlike the main one in POD's Youth of a Nation. Something about that voice and the rythym get me going. Other than that I kind of lose my hearing once I really get into sex so anything during the actual act is lost on me.

hmmm, Missy Hwy 96, Bowser Stone, Angus Harsh, Duke Centennial none of mine seem that great

Hi there, Probably should have posted here before I did so in other threads but live and learn. I'm a 22 yr old male with a fiance. We live in Kansas, not Utah as far as public sexual opinion but close. I like to think I know more than the typical person my age about sex but who knows. I've been in the game since I was pretty young, yet as far as # of partners go I'm not so experienced. Either way, I believe you can never know enough about pleasing yourself and the one (or ones) you care for. By the way. Howard4570 is a genious.

My girlfriend seems to have this same problem or to a more severe degree. She is very sexual, knows her body, and still has trouble orgasming, even through masturbation. It is through no lack of effort, mood, or technique. She has never had a vaginal orgasm and I am the only man who has ever gotten her to orgasm. This was accomplished through an almost exhausting oral session on my part that we have been unable to repeat. Never stop trying, and make sure you talk to him about what feels good, what doesn't, etc. etc. Communication is key. Also be sure to tell him how much you love what he does and how good it feels to you. Whether we like to admit it or not, men are very fragile and we need reassuring that we are appreciated. Telling him how much good he is doing will help him keep from feeling discouraged and give him the ambition to try even more to get you there. Howard, I would love to hear more from you as far as tips for helping the woman relax. Mine approaches orgasm but then it slips away from her when she gets close. I can't help but think that she is trying too hard and not just letting it happen. Your advice on surprising her and keeping her guessing did wonders but wasn't enough.

Hello all, I'm kind of new here but like what I see as far as a helpful and knowledge filled community. I love my girlfriend very much but am having trouble with some things. While we still enjoy sex with each other, it has become somewhat routine. We do a little BDSM with spanking and arm restraint, also enjoy watching porno together. However, our drives clash. She wants it at night and I just want to get some sleep. She is apprehensive about doing anything in the daytime because she is uncomfortable with her body, both for common reasons and some very unique ones. Is there any way I can boost her confidence in herself to maybe get some lights on/ daytime action going. Also some level 2 BDSM ideas would be helpful. I do plan to read some of the articles and posts on this sort of thing in other forums for ideas. Also, are there any lifestyle changes (e.g. diet, exercise, supplements) that can make a man's ejaculate taste less offensive to a woman. Any and all advice, questions, comments, etc. will be greatly appreciated.

My GF is on the same thing and does not seem to have that side effect from the drug its self. However, some of the other effects do contribute. Long menstrual flows and some depression. These both seriously contribute to a lack of confidence on her part. The drug is actually supposed to eliminate her flow after a period of time but seems to have just the opposite effect. Anyone else experience this?

That was a pretty crappy thing for him to do, don't get me wrong. But I think that the worst thing you can do is turn around and snub him back. Experience tells me that kind of strategy only results in bitterness and hurt feelings on both sides. My best advice is too start another night of fun, and try to entice him into working on you first. Drop little hints that you need it, your so horny, etc., etc. (if a little dirty talk is part of your routine, or even if it isn't) and tell him that you'll return the favor for him. I think if he's the one who hasn't orgasmed yet, the TV may seem a little less important. Or, the next time you start something, maybe ask him if he's going to leave you hanging again, but make it sound like you know the answer is no, don't be mean about it. The worst move is to start snubbing favors from each other. It's just going to cause problems. Just keep "training" him in the bedroom and if that doesn't work, simply sit down and talk. If he still won't consider you then he is a selfish ass and should treated as such, as in gotten rid of.