Hi Katrina, I'm new here too, and I know exactly what you are talking about! As soon as I had my son (who is now in preschool) I felt like no one checked me out anymore. And that my body was for nurturing, not for having sex or experiencing pleasure for the sake of pleasure ( I breast-fed my son for a while). And no only that, my body was so weird to me..all differently shaped in different places. And I weirded out by having to care for a newborn...all this is soooo stressful. Plus I'm someone's MOM! Mom's don't have sex! lol So yeah, sexy? What is that? I now find myself on the cusp of my own sexual revolution. I never thought I could feel sexy again, yet here I am. I have this whole new attitude toward my body and toward sex (with the help of some very sweet, generous and understandingl online friends who recently came into my life..not here, but similar). I feel extremely liberated and very lucky to be eperienceing my own body in this new way. My point is, you can/will get to where I am, because I was were you are. Have faith. Your revolution is somewhere in your future.