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Love those avatar photos you guys! Very cute!

yes, one of my worst fears, but I did laugh out loud when I read it. Thank you so much for sharing this story...I'm not sure I could have written it in a public forum. lol.

wow, these are good, sexyqueen! I like!

lol. I love this thread. Anyone watch the short lived Sarah Silverman show? SHe had a whole episode on "queef". lol

This is all really good advice...one thing that helped me feel better about myself when I am alone was to get really into some hobby...preferably a social hobby. Go to a game night at a gaming store if that is something that might interest you...start learning to dance..this was a big one for me..I got very good and MOS flocked to me for a dance partner. THAT was an awesome feeling. ANd once you get really into something and have enthusialsm for it, people WANT to be near you. Other people really area attracted to someone who has passion and enthusiasm for SOMETHING. Join a meetup group on a subject that truly interests you and ask a lot of questions. All this has helped boost my self esteem which makes me feel more independent and whole when I am alone. Remember, this too shall pass.

lol. Congratulations...way to go, SuzyP! Good for you!

yeesh. I feel like the house in amittyville horror when I say this, "Geeetttt Ouuuuttt!" In all seriousness, I'm not you or in your shoes, but I don't think this is the best relationship for you. I would hate to see your personality and/or self esteem eroded by someone who is controling like he is. You are the person you are and all of you deserves to be accepted and valued, from the way you dress to your sexual desires. Please find someone who loves and appreciates you as you are. Enough games from this one. Let someone else run circles. Just my $0.02.

mmmm..indeed. That was worth the wait!

As for squirting, I didn't even know I did it until he told me. I kept wanting to try, but I guess it's happening anyway. I can't tell when I'm doing it or not unless he tells me. It just goes with the intensity already.

I have this experience with g spot orgasms too. After the first one, the next two or three just show up on their own and I have no control over them. They are most intense when it's just me and my toys, but it can happen nicely during intercourse and even better when he his stimiulating my g spot with his fingers and giviing my clit oral. Those are the mind blowers, and I just when I think I am done WHAM another one hits. This is fairly new to me too, maybe the last 5 months or so I have learned to come this way. IT IS AMAZING. Last time, he said I squirted in his mouth! Didn't think I was a squirter, but there you go. Good for you, girlfriend! Power to you!

I have had really good luck with www.passion.com. Someone here recommended it to me. I had a profile up for two weeks and I got something crazy like 1000 views. I corresponded online with several men for a week or two and then met a few in public places to see what they were like before deciding whether to move to friends with benefits or not. Not sure if it's my location in the counrty or my radar, but I have met some really lovely men who are now friends with benefits. I don't know if you can find a long term SO from a place like that, but I would give it a try. Just be verrryy careful 1) it can be an addicting site 2) there ARE weirdos and liars out there. Insist on a recent photo and if anything sounds weird or too good to be true, be wary. It was VERY fun to get 10 messages a day from interested men, such an ego boost. After two weeks, my head was spining and I had to take my profile down or I would spend the whole day replying to men. There are something like thousands (millions) of men on these sites, and lots fewer women, so the odds are in your favor. I have had some odd meetings, but nothing dangerous...just keep your wits about you and use commom sense. Feel free to email me if you want more specific info.

I don't have a lot of experience with lubes except for astroglide and ky personal lubricant, but I was recently introduced to this German product called "pjur". My partner said "here try this, it's like velvet." I found it to be amazing stuff. Hard to find locally, but he mail orders it. I am going to order some for myself. It was sooo lovely. Oh, here it is on www.tootimid.com. It's called Eros Original Bodyglide and apparently it's silicone but I hear they have a water based one.

oooo. I *really* like this one. Nice!

wow, that's a lovely piece of creative writing! I like it a lot! Nice work.

OMG! Me too! (NOT) lol. Sheesh, Iha.

lol..am I the only one wondering why PV would be putting a latex bald cap on someone? I have not heard of this fetish! (lol, I couldn't reists..is this going to birth a thread like "my SO won't wear a latex bald cap during sex and I so want her to! What should I do?")

Great post, vanillla bean! Power to you!

All really good advice so far. One thing that has helped me to want to give oral after years of not wanting to is the words of encouragement that I have gotten from my partners. Maybe start with encouragment over smaller things..like "I love how it feels when I am with you when we do [insert sexual thing you love here]" "You are so hot when we do [sexual thing here]" " I get so turned on when I know that you are using the toys I bought you" "*YOU* being sexual is such a turn on for me." Those kind of things are real confidence buliders and I always want to do MORE for my partner when I hear those things. As long as he's turned on by it and tells me, I will go all out and try all kinds of things I never thought I'd do. oh....um....TMI? Hope not. Hope that helps some.

heya chuck, just my $0.02 here, and maybe this is the same as stress relief, but you are likely feeling depressed and masturbation 1) feels GOOD when the rest of the stuff in your life feels bad 2) provides some form of escape from your reality. And our bodies were MADE to experience this pleasure, whether alone or with someone else. Celebrate this pleasure, you deserve to feel good.

jhard, maybe I should clarify..I meant in a 747 or something like that! I don't want to have sex in a puddle jumper! Hell, I don't even want to be in puddle jumper not having sex! And is there a thread for items recently crossed of the list (I'm going to brag now)? 1) in a movie theatre (today) 2) in a parking garage (last week) 3) on the couch in my partner's boss's office (the week before last) :evilgrin:

What a great game. I'm going to remember that!

lol I am slowly but surely making it thru my list. remaining are: 1) in a hot tub or bubble bath 2) 3 some fmm 3) tied up 4) against a chain link fence outdoors 5) on airplane 6) the front seat of a car (done back seat..passe) 7) DP

LOL! That's not a bible! It's a dictionary!! Isn't it? lol

lol...no doubt. I'll be watching for it.

eh..the thought of a dick so far in my mouth that my eyes tear up, isn't a big turn on for me. I much prefer reading about women's body parts.