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He has to be the most romantic man I know. We took a nice long bath together and made love. Then I got out and he dried me completely off and gave me a very nice massage which of course let to making love again. We had a very nice night. We made love several times last night and it felt so nice after being apart like we have been. Since February 13th we have had him away for 2 weeks visiting family and the week before that he was sick...then he got back home and we were together and then he got that flu which lasted over 3 weeks. So to be together last night was so nice. Thank you all for your help.

He is very romantic and is always planning things like this for me. It is so total opposite from the relationshi I was previously in. I can't wait. He has been sending me emails with hints as well as phone calls. Then a little while ago I received flowers from him. I have become very lucky.

I just went and got it. Thanks to everyone. It saved our very special night. He won't even tell me any of the details. I know we are going out to dinner he told me to dress up and to make sure I had someone to watch my daughter all night. I am excited.

I did call another CVS and they do have it. I am very happy. I am on my way over there now to get it. Thank you everyone.

angel - I agree this state sucks. The cost of things such as insurance is the worst. My daughter is only 5. I have debated moving but the same thing with her father as well. I am in southern nj not sure what part you are in.

So far no luck. I went to 2 cvs', a Walgreens and a Walmart and none carry it even though the website for the company says they do. I am gonna call in the morning when someone in the pharmacy part is in and ask them as when I ask different clerks they had no clue what I was talking about.

I ownder if any pharmacies carry it as I won't have time to wait for it to come in. The birth control I have has the blank pills. I was going to go on them but my SO due to a medical condition which I have known about he unfortuantely can not have children. It is a proven fact so I had it filled and then never took any. They are still sitting here.

iha thank you for your ideas as well. I know there are other ways to have fun. That is for sure. I am just bummed because we have been teasing each other all day today and tonight as we couldnt' be together tonight as I had some things for my daughter to handle. We thought it would be fun to build up til tomorrow and then tonight I was like oh no this can't be happening.

We have done it on my time as well. It is just that the first day is normally worse. I have heard before about birthd control putting it off. I wasn't sure as I do have that in my possession and was also curious if that would work. It is just rotten because he has been sick for the last 3 weeks and the night before he got sick was the night he got back after being out of town for 3 weeks 2 visiting family and 1 for work. So in the last 6 weeks we have only been together once. Whereas it used to be almost everyday. It just sucks. Thanks for the advice.

I am so mad. My SO has been sick for almost 3 weeks. Well he is planning a nice romatic night for tomorrow night and I am starting to get indications that my period may be coming on. Is there any way to hold it off for a day or two. We haven't been able to be together for 3 weeks and were really looking forward to tomorrow night. Is there anyway of holding it off. Not sure if there even is a way. Any help is greatly appreciate.

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Welcome and enjoy all that you find. I am one to agree that people can be more mature than there age. I am 33 and my SO is 47, but through everything I have been through I have had to mature a lot quicker than people my age. I tend to hang around with people 40 and over.

My SO is getting better with this. He wants to pay for everything and I won't let him. I told him it isn't fair that he pays for everything all of the time. I work just like he and would like to pay and treat him as well it is only fair.

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Well he takes the train back and forth to work so I met him at the train station and surprised him. He was very happy to see me. We sat for a little while in each others arms and played a little. I talked to him today he is really starting to feel better. We are making plans for a special night this week as he keeps saying he wants to make it up to me. I explained to him that crap happens. He feels bad even though I have told him over and over not to feel bad. I am just glad that it is just about over. Thank you again everyone.

Well now two and a half weeks later. He is finally starting to feel like himself. He is still fatigued but that is getting better. Hopefully it will only get better from here. It is driving him nuts being sick like this. He said to me last night he knows for sure he was sick because most of the time sex and food were completely unappealing for him. With sex being unappealing to him I know something is wrong, normally that is the first thing on his mind all the time, but I am not complaining. So he is starting to get frisky so to say again so hopefully soon he will be completely better.

LOL...thanks that was just the laugh I needed.

I am part of the younger crowd, but have come to realize that age is just a number. My SO is 47 and can run circles around the younger ones.

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I just did the same and emailed the link to my SO. Something to look forward to when he gets better.

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Lets see I am just starting to work on the list. I have knocked some out already. My SO and I joke every once in a while because we never really discussed a list per se, but as we did a few things he would joke about oh well something else to cross off your list. #1 In a car #2 in public....we have come close already but not quite yet #3 deepthroating. I am working on it but not quite there #4 being blindfolded and tied up. I am eager for this one. This should be happening shortly #5 in a shower #6 we are working on anal but when we can completely do it. That is what I can think of at that point

Pappy thanks. He is really great about that. My ex was horrible when he was sick it was like the world ended. My new one he felt bad for work because he had a new assistant starting and didn't want him starting and not be there. He very rarely even complains about it. What the doctor explained is the shots are planned ahead for what CDC decides will be the strain or strains that may hit the worst. Well they screwed it up this year. Tyger thanks I am hoping the same thing Shy I have not had a shot in at least 15 years. I laugh because most people I know get the shot and are sick within a week or so or get really sick with the flu that winter. It has been at least 10 years since I have been that sick. The worst I might get is a cold or sore throat which doesn't last long. I live by Arborne (sp). Especially with a 5 year old around everything comes home. I just talked to him a little bit ago he is in bed since he got home from work and said he is moving until tomorrow for work. He feels so bad but I keep telling him don't worry we have plenty of time. He can be so stubborn at times...even when he is sick. Thanks all I just wanted to make sure I wasn't losing my mind and that others heard this as well.

LOL. I needed that after the night I was having.