zxandyr'smommy

sorry it's taking so long to reply, as luck would have it i got called back to work and have been trying to get as much overtime as possible. thank you all for the posts. i've tried talking to him about everything. i just want to figure out what HE wants. it didn't work. i cant get him to open up at all. all he says is he wants the old me back. i'm not even sure what that means. when i think of the old me i see an immature, selfish teenager with no thoughts of the future. i've grown up alot since my son was born and i'm proud of that. I love him more now than i did then and i don't know what to do. this no sex thinkg is really getting to him i try to please him and he sees it as foreplay and tries for more. i hate telling him no but i have to. then i have do deal with an attitude for a few days because he's so frustrated with it. i'm at a loss as how to make things better.

thank you for the ideas, i think this might be a good time to do some talking too. since our son was born we've kinda fallen into a rut. we always talk about getting out of it but other than special occasions we never do. I was thinking of doing a little something each day or a few times a week untill the time comes. Little things like an email, phone call, sending him sexy pictures. stuff like that. I haven't forgotten about his needs either, I assured him that i won't forget him and he will get more blowjobs than normal because i can't please him through sex.

A couple days ago i found out that i have precancerous cells on my cervix. i know that after my surgery next week it will be forever (like 4-6 weeks) before SO and i can do anything but foreplay. My question is does anybody have anyideas for me to surprise him when i do get the ok from doc? Poor guy almost cried when i told him no sex for awhile and i'd love to be able to do something special for him when the time comes.

OUCH definately not using THAT bathroom

HAHA!! We have these ALL over town.

it isn't all bad. you just have to find the right guy. although my first wasn't the right guy for me he was the right guy for the situation at hand. we had only been dateing a few days but knew eachother a few months. i was tired of losing boyfriends because i wasn't ready. so i agreed. he was really sweet about it all. we were in his apartment and he kept asking if i was sure, ready and if it hurt. he explain everything he was doing so i expected it and could prepare for it in any way necesary. he went slow. it hurt a little and i had very little bleeding. i was a little ashamed after wards as i had always wanted to wait for marriage. but looking back i'm glad i agreed when i did. after two months of us going out. he raped my best friend. i felt so bad for her but still kinda glad it wasn't me as it probably would have been. i think that first night we were together was probably the only good night of our relationship.

That is terrible, i hope your kids are feeling better. our school busses didn't have seat belts unless they had preschoolers that needed car seats and they all road a small bus. i cant believe the driver is still working. if that were my hubby he'd lose his job, CDL and freedom. he almost lost it for another truck cutting him off i couldn't imagine him hitting a school bus. but then again he isn't that cold hearted about things. nobody is in that big of a hurry.

Your very welcome. it made me cry too. i had to share. there are so many moms here. and everyone could use a pick me up like that.

Subject: A Newborn's Conversation with God A baby asked God, 'They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?' God said, 'Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you.' The child further inquired, 'But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.' God said, 'Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy.' Again the child asked, 'And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?' God said, 'Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.' 'And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?' God said, 'Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.' 'Who will protect me?' God said, 'Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life.' 'But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.' God said, 'Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you.' At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, 'God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name.' God said, 'You will simply call her, 'Mom.'

Sponing has always been a favorite Morning sex position for both SO and i, but lately it hurts me when we do. it never has before though. any suggestions?

2004 Jeep. these pics are from the day i brought it home. DH had to take pics before i could get in. lol

I am definatly giving both my boys a box of condoms when they first start dateing. But when i got pregnant i onoly figured i'd have to worry about the boy ( atleast for awhile). a girl has never crossed my mind. i know i was a hand ful growing up couldn't imagine having a little girl just like me kinda scares me. but then i look at my step daughter and although i've only been in her life for three years i knew instantly i was in for a wild ride she's so much like me it's terrifying, she even looks like me. well anyways thank you all again for the wonderful ideas. she and i will definately have a long talk about when the time comes. she's always managed to open up to me. i guess cuz i'm the mom that will MAKE time to talk with her when she's upset.

OMG! my Step sister had that wedding cake topper at her wedding. didn't really fit their situation but definatly humorous

thanks guys i guess it is something to consider. i would hope at this time we don't have anything to worry about. but i will try to keep an open mind to everything.

thanx for the advice i will definately keep it in mind. now i know why i wanted a boy... ( j/k) she will be good practice for the rest of the kids and hopefully a little girl of my own blood someday.