If your wife is interested in trying something else, maybe look online together to see what might interest her. Take her to an adult toy store, let her look them over that way, then come back to TooTimid.com and place an order. Myself I love the silver bullet, both for clitoral stimulation and inside with hubby inside of me. You'll enjoy the vibrations as well. Also remember when using toys, use plenty lube. DOn't know if this helps, just wanted to add my .02.. Take care and happy shopping.