As a man I enjoy a reversal of roles at times and let her have the upper hand so to speak. She ties me up, puts on a blindfold and then has her way with me. The last time she made me lay on my stomach, gently parted my ass cheeks and lubed me up by using her fingers inside and out, finally inserting some anal beads and telling me to raise my ass in the air. I waited for what seemed like forever and then heard the sound of air rushing just before the first spank. It felt exciting as well as a little sacry as the blood rushed to my cheeks. She whispered that it turned her on to see me flinch and the red marks it left. She gave me about 10 strokes and un-tied me, turned me over and took her time with her mouth and hand almost getting me to the point of orgasm and stopping until I begged for her to let me cum. Finally she did and at the same time pulled the beads from my anus, I had the best orgasm I have ever had, which seemed to last forever and when she took my blind fold off I had shot my load so hard a bit of it was clinging to her chin. It was a very sexy look. She said next time it was my turn to be in control, any good advice would be welcome. Also I am a bit of a panty freek, which comes from my early experience, but that is for another day and forum.