Controlling. Been there, done that, got the tshirt, and gave the tour. Not gonna happen again. Dishonesty. ANYWHERE in the relationship. If I can't trust him on the little stuff, I won't trust him on the big stuff. Name calling. I will NOT be called names. Bitch, cunt, whatever. That WON'T fly. Lack of patience. I get VERY emotional VERY quickly. My SO HAS to understand that. Won't admit being at fault. He HAS to say when he's been wrong. No twisting my words. I'm sick of that from past relationships.