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My dh and I are high school sweethearts. We started dating when I was a freshman and he a junior and just couldn't get enough of each other. We got married almost 9 years ago a year after I graduated and now have 3 beautiful kids together.

I started when I was fairly young too, around 6 or so, but I didn't know that's what I was doing. I just used to rub against my sheets. During my pre-teen years, I found my hands.

Awesome, thanks!

Thanks Mikayla. BTW, I love your name--it's the same as my youngest's. I placed my first order with TT and it should be here tomorrow or the next day--I'm so excited! I did order a g-spot vibe and a cock ring so I'm hoping my dh will be open to using them at some point. I meant to buy some of that spray but I think I forgot! Do they carry anything like that at drugstores or Walmart? I don't think he'll want to be near me after that! Yeah, the start/stop thing doesn't sound like fun at all. I'd probably deck him! Do you have any suggestions on how I can help him find his PC muscle and work on that? As far as focusing on me, that's very true. He does tend to focus a lot on me (which I'm not complaining about lol), so maybe I should bring that up. How on earth do you say "honey, please yourself and stop focusing on my pleasure?" I like the idea of extended foreplay, but it's virtually impossible with his schedule. Perhaps on our date on 5/3 we'll be able to do this little experiment. Although won't it make him come faster at first?

My dh is a great lover, very into pleasing me but we have a small problem that's become frustrating for me. We have fallen into a rut where our sex life is very predictable--I know what's going to happen when. It's okay I guess, I mean it works and why mess with a good thing right? But, as of late, I've wanted to spice things up a bit and in particular, I want to try and find my g-spot. I even placed my first order with TooTimid yesterday and I'm really excited about it--I only hope dh is too (he doesn't know about it yet) . Anyway, I've never had a vaginal orgasm (isn't that the same thing as a G-spot O?) and I've heard they're extremely intense! The positions that I have already loved that happen to be great for g-spot stimulation unfortunately, don't work for my husband. He just can't last very long, even with a condom. The only way I can O before he does during sex is if I'm on top. It's fine I guess but it can get a little boring sometimes. So my question is, I'd love to continue with my g-spot quest and would love to be able to enjoy my favorite positions like doggy style a little longer! Any tips on getting him to last longer? Thanks!

So glad I found this thread. I have 3 kids and DH and I rarely get any time alone, aside from quickies before the kids interrupt. We finally have a chance to have a real "date" on May 3, when the kids will be gone all day for about 5 hours! However, if my calculations are correct, I should be right smack in the middle of AF that day. I really hope not, but just in case, I might do what you did and get the Instead cup. I've been looking at it before anyway, so now's as good a time as any to try it. Do you mind telling me how much it was? Glad you had a great night! It sounds wonderful!