PanickedVanity

I think Japanese men are the sexiest most beautiful men in the world, but I'm a sucker for an English accent. Girls I honestly love tall slim Swedes, which I may be biased towards cause I am one, but generally I love taller slimmer girls with leaner figures. Russian girls are also very, very hot.

Well, I've always been pretty skinny (I come from a family of tall women with no boobs, so I'm built something like a 12 year old boy, and burn calories the same way) My major problem has been house keeping, I work from home most of the time, and my DH works 65 hours a week, so mostly the task of cleaning falls to me, and I will admit to being crap at doing dishes, and generally a cluttered disorganized creature, and trust me, a messy house is no place for romance. In turn my DH is trying to get over some of the various mental health issues he has. We've started taking walks together, because we realized that the times we're happiest are when we're not cooped up in the apartment.

Everyone's always shocked that my DH isn't gay

*nod* I'm so glad he isn't a drinker, that was one of the things we liked about one another. Neither of us really likes using any substances which is a rarity in the rock scene

I know, don't worry though. We don't have them terribly often, as neither of us drinks often at all (About once a month at most) and we never keep liquor in the house. I do agree that in most cases a sober person having sexual relations with a drunken one is not a moral thing, however I do think that there are a few factors that can make a difference in this case, if one has the consent of the drunken person prior to their intoxication it tends to make a difference (In other words, if we mentioned a shared desire to have sex this evening earlier today), and if the parties involved are in a relationship already, and the level of intoxication is one that does not truly impair judgement (I don't think two glasses of wine over the space of a few hours makes one terribly susceptible to bad judgement, and yes two glasses of wine is our idea of pretty drunk, as stated we're not drinkers) However, I wasn't asking about the morality of having relations, I was asking about the morality of trying out a toy, not when I know he won't say no, or say he dislikes it, but when he won't unquestionably refuse to try it.

May I suggest a "cock ring" designed to help maintain an erection, if you'd prefer there's also viagra. I've never had this problem with my DH, but he's only 22 so time will tell.

*nod* I would agree with you, however if I say no he starts whining a lot, and I know from experience he's ok with it the morning after. As with most couples I think, we've had mutually drunken escapades, and I would never "take advantage of his state" however, I can't really say it's wrong if he initiates (He's usually fairly rational when drunk, just a little more open to trying new things)

My husband is going out with some friends in another band tonight, and I know he's going to come home pretty drunk, and when he gets drunk he almost invariably gets horny. He normally refuses to even touch anything in my "toy box" but I was thinking I have a small ring vibe with a cute little pink bunny sleeve that I think he'll just love being teased with. Would it be ok to use it on him while his inhibitions are lowered just to see if he likes it? Or would that be like sleeping with a passed out chick?

Hehe, I let my hubby borrow my stuff all the time on the condition that I can raid his closet too (He has some incredibly cute dresses)

Long hair on men.

I wouldn't put her on BC, but I would get her some condoms when she starts seriously dating someone. I started having sex when I was 15. I mostly had it with girls at the time, which if one is bisexual is a GREAT option, because it's lower risk, and more emotionally safe that with boys. When I did start with boys I used condoms, which I think are a better form of protection at that age because BC is hormones and can mess with your system. Condoms are also nice because they help prevent STDs. Honestly, as a general rule having a fairly open dialogue on sex is a great thing to have as a teenager, and as a parent. Of course the subject can be awkward, but kids will be kids, and if you freak out about it you can cause a kid a lot of harm (you seem pretty cool about it though) Reasonable limits are so important, know what your kid is going to do anyway, and only stop her when she's doing something unsafe. For example, a fairly easy going policy on sex (You can, but you had damn well better use protection) and a harder policy on drugs etc. That worked really well for my parents. To this day I barely drink, and even though I had a reputation in highschool and hung out with the "Arty Druggy weirdos" in highschool, I almost never touched drugs (except for marijuana once or twice) and got excellent grades. The most important thing I think in raising a kid, no matter what the rules are is being there, and loving them.

Anyone have anything like this, boy on boy aimed at women, preferably with pretty androgynous actors (the more androgynous the better, ziggy stardust era bowie on black market music era Brian molko would be my ideal) any suggestions?

I like mine a bit soft core, preferably arty. I don't like the porn star look (Giant boobs, long blonde hair, tan) I've got a thing for sort of more natural girls (Kathleen Hanna is my personal sex goddess) I like girl on girl a lot, as long as it's written/directed by a female, a lot of girl/girl stuff done by guys seems weird and unpretty to me. I like feminine men, but not transsexuals (Ie: Pretty boy in a dress is great, pretty boy with boobs is not) So far my favorite wank material is Suicide Girls, and visual kei videos... someday I'm going to make a porno designed for my tastes, with a weird twisted plot, pretty boys, tough girls, and lots of hot yet romantic yet quirky sex.

Silk ties are an awesome start. I actually have used neckties for light bondage in the past (my hubby up as a catholic school girl and I found a creative use for the tie )

Thanks, and no the boy in my avatar is Brian Molko, Vocalist/Guitarist of the band Placebo

Back end of a sharpie marker, a zucchini (with a lot of vaseline and the help of my then girlfriend) mostly I just stuck to the good old hand method, I had A LOT of trouble coming that way though, oh! And the handle of a powder brush (I still use that brush *laugh*) I also had sex some pretty wild places: A theatrical dressing room that wasn't mine (I was a wardrobe steward) Back row of a movie theater (With my parents seven rows up, which was more than a little nerve wracking Outside broad daylight A million times in my highschool bathroom (As stated I was BAAAAAD) my family's dining room table.

Thank you, I keep trying to get my DH to get his navel pierced and he always tells me "I will when I lose ten pounds" and then I tell him he doesn't have ten pounds to spare.

Thank you.

True, true. I'm always telling him how smart/sexy/gorgeous/talented/strong/handy/pretty/stylish he is... I think he probably needs to be on anti-depressants.

Thanks so much I have a few simple bullets none of which he likes... are there any nice plain looking/pretty ones?

Thank you

Just Some Silly Photos More To Cum:

- I am a professional make up artist - I don't plan on having kids (Though hubby and I had a whoops recently) - my husband requires trojan magnums - I have Attention Deficit Disorder and can't climax if I don't take my meds - My hubby and I wear the same dress size (4) - I am very liberal - I'm a rock n' roll chick but I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. - I like girls, but not as much as I like boys that look like girls - I'm a writer (published) and my sex drive and my creative drive are intertwined. - In my house the tool kit is pink, and the broom is blue. - If I ever had a daughter I would name her Oona Lunette - My married last name is Catastrophe-Darling, since my husband took his stage name when we married (Lillie Catastrphe, now Lillie Catastrophe-Darling) - My favorite place in the world is probably the Trash Bar In Williamsburg - I've worked as a nanny, a facialist, and as a PR executive. - I'm the oldest of three kids. - I'm 5'7, 6'0 in my favorite heels - I love boy on boy action - I love long hair on men - I have something of a hair kink - I think men with pierced navels are sexy - I never go out without sunscreen - I'm planning to get a tattoo of an anchor on my right upper arm - I dropped out of highschool because their weren't enough art courses - I love corsets (wearing, seeing others wearing *sigh*) - I've been a pro-domme in the past

Do you think maybe getting a strapon might please him? Make him feel more like a woman, or would it just weird him out?