So, true MsLayD! It is one thing that makes my relationship with my wife so strong. We talk about everything and have no secerts about anything. Even this and her bi side as well. Great post! Congrats to you too, 12gauge! It is hard to admit things like this, even to yourself. I have really only acted on it once, but I do think about it at times. I am really striaght with bi tendencies. I love sex with my wife and the more the better, but thinking about sucking someone doesn't make me gay, just bi-curious. She has no problem with that and says it turns her on to think about me and another guy. It works for us!! Peace, Mark