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I'm sorry I can't remember which one, but I got and used it on my wife last night. It was a bit wide at one point (for her) but lube helped. Then we used a vibrator in her pussy, and she was in ectasy! Of course we finished with some of the best anal sex we've had in a long time. (and we've had good anal for awhile) I never thought she'd get off on with an anal vibrator, but she loved it!

My wife didn't mind them, even liked some of the DP scenes. She got very wet before I even got started on her. We put a couple on the second night, and well, they are just boring to us. My wife excites me more anyway, and I tell her that. I don't need a porno to get horny, trust me. We like toys (obviously) and just put the porn to kind of change things up. Do any other couples get bored with porn movies?

For years, my wife had been very reluctant to let me cum in her mouth for years. One day, I asked and she said, if that's what I wanted. I told her, if I get to taste it too. She was shocked, but went along with it. I did, we snowballed, and it made her hot! She even remarked, I really liked this. We did it a few times again, but then I didn't do it, and I could tell she was expecting, holding the cum in her mouth, but I just didn't want to or have the desire. She in no way pressured me, but I could tell she was disappointed. I'd like to get back to that. Snowballing, licking it off her tits, eating her out after cumming. I'm pretty sure she would be hot with that.

I get the part of "marking territory", but that's not the way I feel at all. I hate to sound cliche', but it just turns me on, seeing cum on my wife's face, or dripping from her chin. I almost salivate in a sexual way. It's just a turn on, and I don't think any more of it than that. I suppose you are right, M, it's a turn on because it's visual. Nevertheless, it makes me hot, and I don't consider it marking territory or degrading at all.

Part of the thrill for me is her being turned on. If it really makes her hot, I could get by the rest of things. There's just about nothing I wouldn't do for her, if it turned her on.

Pretty much sums us up. We do it a lot and like it. I doubt she prefers it over vaginal, but it's a close second. Me, I'm up for anything. Oral, anal, vaginal, cum wherever...we just have fun. ..nothing is forced.

In a long time relationship/marriage? We've been married awhile (over 20 years). We still enjoy regular vaginal sex, but my wife seems to love anal more and more. Early in our marriage, she actually initiated it, but we didn't do it that often. I could take it or leave it. Now I enjoy it immensely, as does she. Not to say it's every time, but it seems a lot more frequency than a few years ago. I'm not complaining, mind you. I have heard of women as they get older (30s-40s, actually preferring anal sex. I wouldn't go as far to say she prefers it, but she definetely doesn't complain if it's anal only for a few days.

Exactly, sometimes I lose the desirability. I have no hangups about tasting my own cum. I think if it's ok for her then it should be ok for me. And sometimes, it's big turn on for me (snowballing..etc). Then sometimes, I just don't want to after I cum. We snowballed a few times, then once..I didn't do it, and she was clearly disappointed, but didnt' say anything. She never pressures me into doing anything I don't want. Neither do I pressure her. That's not the issue.

Seriously... I know it's a turn on for me, I'm just not sure why. I do know it's not a dominance thing with me. Nor do I think it's degrading. I love my wife very much, and would never do anything I thought would degrade her. But just seeing my come on my wifes face, or after a BJ, dripping from her chin... Wow!

I think she would love it too. Awhile back we snowballed, and she really got off on that. But I've not done it in awhile. It's kind of like I still have a mental block sometimes. While I'm still in the passion of the moment, I could go for it. But sometimes after I cum, I don't want to do it. Even though I know it would turn her on.

One night we were having really hot sex, and decided to do some tit fucking. She enjoyed it, and I came on her tits. For a second there, I really had the urge to lick some of it off her tits. Never done it before, didn't know what she'd think or do. I'm thinking about trying it again. Has anyone else ever done that?

Same here, 3-4 times a week. But...it's acceptable for both of us. When we first married and before kids, it was just about every day. First few years in fact. Maybe the quantity isn't the same, but the quality is much better. Of course, as I type this, we haven't had sex since last year. (it's Jan 1st 2009).

My wife will watch some porn with me, in the bedroom.. I find her much more attractive and exciting, but it's kind of fun to spice things every now and then. It's not like we have to watch it every time. She's not a hard core fan, and she likes seeing some, but could pretty much take it or leave it. The one's we've tried..are well, boring. Any suggestions for DVDs, to watch in the bedroom? She doesn't go for the hard core, 4 hour facial type films, or gangbangers, but she doesn't mind some action...say with DP or so. So something that maybe doesn't have 20 guys cumming on a girls face, but something that isn't boring either. Something in the middle, but neither extreme. Of course, we stop paying attention in a pretty short time.

I love doing it to my wife, as long as she's "zestfully clean". Since she loves it, there's no issue with her keeping clean.

If we are really having a hot time, and I just cum (like in a 69 position), she finds it a turn on. It's all about context. Pulling out of her pussy to cum on her face, nope...she doesn't care for it, and frankly it's not really a turn on for me. Although, neither of us consider it degrading, it's just not our thing. If getting a BJ, and it gets on her face, partly in her mouth, no problem. All about context.

I do realize this isn't for everybody, but I really enjoy it. Of course, my wife really, really enjoyed it. It's a turn on for me, but also it get's my wife really hot too.

I just love it when my wife shaves her pussy. I love performing oral sex on her anyway, but when it's shaved, I can get off, just licking her, it makes me that hot That said, I know of guys who can't stand a shaved pussy. Says it makes them uncomfortable. Different strokes for different folks. I know if I could choose, I'd go for shaved first, trimmed second. A shaved pussy is a huge turn on for me. But what about you other guys?

My wife used to keep shaved, but hasn't for awhile. So Christmas night, she started giving me a BJ, and I slid my fingers down to her pussy..and , Personally, it's a HUGE turn on for me. Of course, she received benefits from shaving. I forgot all about getting a BJ, and had to stop her from stroking my cock, while I was licking her, so I wouldn't come so soon. I couldn't think of a better Christmas present than that! (yum, yum...yum..)

Yeah me too. My wife will "let me", she doesn't complain..never has. Although I don't do it that often. I would just prefer it, and would do it more, if it turned her on. I just don't like it as much, just being "accomodated". It's not something I just have to do, nor do very often. And usually it's in the heat of the moment. My biggest request is getting her to swallow. But...she gives great BJs, so I'd rather not rock the boat.

Unfortunately, what you say is true. That for some, the grass is always greener with someone else...those are people who will never be happy, in any area of life.

The late Sam Kennison (comedian) said once to really get revenge on men that your wife/GF may have left you for, is to do *EVERYTHING* for her, to her in bed. That way nobody will ever be "as good". I see some good advice in there.... do everything to please your mate...and if they are fulfilled with you, they aren't likely to look elsewhere. Just makes good sense.

Sorry about using the word "duty". I agree..responsibility sounds better. Here's another thought. If partners in marriage (or committed relationships) always try to put their partners' needs first...and both partners are doing that... I'd think there wouldn't be many issues, or questions about duty or responsibility.

It puts the partner in a tough position. Remain faithful, but frustrated..what to do? But anyway, you nailed what I was trying to get at ....partner opts out for no apparent reason. And I also agree...there is ALWAYS a reason...for everything we do or don't do. Although it might not always be apparent, even to us. There are times I want sex, and my wife doesn't. A few weeks ago, on a Saturday..I really wanted to, she didn't. I asked why, she said all she could think about was all the errands she had to run that day, etc. So she asked me to wait until than night, and she would make it up to me. She promised. And she did! The point is, I didn't "force" her, because I felt like it was her duty. Anyone who's been married or in a committed relationship for awhile, can tell you, there has to be compromises. Give and take. Sounds like a cliche', but we know it's true. I could have gotten "misput" cause we didn't have sex right then...and I probably could have pushed the issue and she'd given in. However, by respecting her wishes, putting mine aside for the moment.... We both "came" out better later that night.

No I'm not. Matter of fact, he's my sister in law's husband. So it's clearly an uncomfortable position for me. I've not even discussed it with my wife. The whole discussion caught me completely off guard. It seems a year or two ago, I was joking around about not having sex. (common for us married guys to joke around) and he thought I was serious. So he opened up to me, and asked how did I live with it. I felt really bad, and never, ever would have joked about no sex, had I known it was a reality for him. I believe he said it's been over a year, almost 2 w/o ANY sex. Ouch!

I agree 100%! What was really in the back of my mind, when I say is sex a duty of marriage...was manipulation. IOW, I don't think sex should be used as a manipulation tool. One partner withholds to .."punish" the other. I'm not talking about not doing something you are uncomfortable with. I mean, completely withholding all sex... Thankfully, it has not happened to me, I'm blessed with a wonderful loving wife, but I've heard of it before.