Craftylady

I say it's high time this was taught from our pulpits. WTG! Now if I could just get DH on that bandwagon.....

I wish I could somehow convince him that it would be a spicy and wonderful addition to our repertoire. I think he has some hangups about it. He used to masturbate very frequently and I know he used porn tapes for a while. Lately, I don't think he does as much but then again he's getting older and now going through some stressful times. But still, I would think that any red blooded man TOLD this would be a huge treat would try it. <<<sigh>>>

Well, I haven't been in here for a while but I thought I'd post again on the topic. I got another pellet a couple weeks ago, only this time they lowered the dose by half. And it's wonderful, just perfect. I just wish DH was in a more receptive state at the moment

I wish my DH liked to do this in front of me. I got him to once or twice but it's been a while. I asked him to "let me" catch him in the act in the living room or somewhere but he hasn't. Not even as a birthday present

Well, now that is ALL very interesting about marijuana use. I had no idea!! Learn sumpin' new every day. What I actually get is a testosterone pellet in the hip which time releases over a period of a few months, and then I also use a compounded estradiol/progesterone/estrone vaginal cream several times a week for the female hormones.

I don't want to highjack the clit size thread, so I'm starting this one. Last winter I began bioidentical hormone replacement after lab tests (following complaints to my dr about low libido, hot flashes, insomnia) showed I was deficient in almost everything (I'm post surgical menopause by 7 yrs). While I never have noticed much effect from the female hormone cream except lack of hotflashes, can I just mention the extreme effects of the testosterone pellets??!! Holy cow. Now, I always had a fairly healthy libido, but gradually it's waned over the years. Especially since the hysterectomy. But I've had two pellets done now, 4 months apart, and that stuff made me finally realize what 18 yr old boys must feel like. I mean, seriously mind-bending constant thinking about sex. Constant urge to do it. I finally had to tell DH about this. Like "HELP". My clit has actually grown, and I've developed some acne and oily skin again (the bane of my youth). No real hair yet, but a slightly more noticeable lady 'stache that is easy to control. The doctor's office called me a few days ago asking me how I was doing and was I ready for another appointment for "refill". I said not at this time without further labs. I mean, it was kind of a fun, new sensation the first time, but for about 3 weeks after the second pellet, I was scaring myself. Have any of you ladies experienced anything like this?

Thanks to all of you folks sharing, I finally got my nerve up to ask him to do this. For a long time, as foreplay, I got him to rub himself against my breasts while I worked on myself. Just watching him do that was hot and it never took long for me to be totally ready. But I have wanted to take it a step further for a long time. A few weeks ago we did! OMG. Thought I'd die. As a side note, why would a guy who has watched plenty of porn and obviously has enjoyed fairly frequent solo masturbation for so many years be shy in bed like this? I have always had to initiate anything different. Even having broken the ice, he still seems content to let me take the lead as to how/when/what position most of the time.

Catching DH masturbating. I did a couple times. I saw the dim light from the TV a couple times in the middle of the night and went down to see what was up. He was. There on the sofa.... I never said anything, never made a sound, but was so turned on watching him that I had to join in privately. Forever that has been a scene that brings me to the edge. I finally got up the nerve to tell him I had watched him. He seemed pretty embarrassed, but we talked about it and it opened up the possibility of him doing it and letting me watch *on purpose*. My fantasy come true!! I don't know many women who like watching a man, but that does it for me.

LOL. Some people might say both.

I've been reading here for a few months. I thought it might be time to register! Hi all.