I am going to be brave here, and discuss a triggering topic. It's something that annoys me, and I am trying to work on it.
I consider all types of sex to be sex. I don't buy into the idea of vaginal intercourse only being sex. Preferring other sexual acts more doesn't make you any less sexual.
Other people are entitled to their viewpoints, and I need to learn how to let go when someone tells me that my favorite sexual act in the world doesn't "count". To me, it's real sex.
Just my 2 cents.