Because some girls have the romantic notion that older men are prince charming like, and they know the right things to say and do. The woman have been with someone that was younger, maybe more immature and don't want to babysit. You are probably a dominate personality, and they want someone to lead them and build them up. With the right sunlight a rose can bloom. I have been in the roll before a long time ago. In my world, he was my Romeo. He said all the right things, open doors for me, drove a fancy car, took me out, it was the illusion Hollywood and romance novels filled my head with. My ending was not happy though. My concern is know they all have a heart, break it gently even if it is just letting them know you are not interested.